jst so u no she allowed me meet her family and the reaction has been positive so far

Mynd_44:
Don't be. Cos from your post, it seemd you don't understand what the OP meant. The girl did not say she loves the OP. She did not even say she wants him. She told him to back away and he should respect it. Now in my question to you which you answered, I aske you to put yourself in that situation.

You wrote that if your guy was in love with her but this is not the case.....your BF tells her he is not interested and she keeps calling his line and bugging him would you keep encouraging her? You really don't have to answer cos it is rhetorical

obi147: jst so u no she allowed me meet her family and the reaction has been positive so far

But still she said she is not interested dude. How would you feel if you were her BF and some guy is chasing your girl around? I have a lot of female friends and I meet their parents. Does that mean they wanna marry or date me?

Dude abeg stop justifying being unable to deal with rejection and move the eff on

@OP, what do you want us to tell you? Ok, go for her. Force her to leave her bf and love you. Force her to spend the rest of her life with you. Force her to accept you. Cook up reasons for her to leave her bf.

And then come back to tell us the outcome after two months.
What could be more selfish than this?

Is this love, lust or infatuation? What if there is a better girl out there for you? Sometimes, i don't understand how men think. To each his own.

Op if u really luv her,u will definitely want her to be happy and u will respect her decision.
The food u will eat will not evade u,if she is meant to be urs,no matter how long she will be urs,don't force it.

dopeJemi:

Lol! I understand u perfectLy buh if u chyke dat chick and she gree, u go put urseLf 4 wahaLa wiv dat oda guy.. Anyhau sha, u don chyke d gurL b4?

Look guy, if u chik the girl and she later fall 4 u despite that she clamed to be in love with that guy, then u are in trouble if u marry because another guy will still presurise her and if the presure is enough she may fall 4 that man too.
So my humble thought is let her be and pray that if she is urs, things should fall into play by it own not by ur presure.
**oooooh**
stop arguing with guyz that are telling u the truth, what they ar saying is right.
A WORD IS ENOUGH 4 A WISE, BUT HOW WISE ARE U?
That is the question of what u do with the word.

obi147: haba? no be true say "my woman today na anoda man woman yesterday" ..

OP u only have the right to context for her love only if she has broken up with her present BF, but if u still decide to go after her now, then u are a covetous, low self-worth mara-faka, who's got no game

Cold faya:

Na wa o. Has d other guy married the girl? Let's not forget dat nobody is totally a free agent; not even teens. Truth is u have to snatch someones girl or guy to make dem ur babe or guy and pray n up ur game with dem so no one snatches dem from u.

Ma guy go for her jooor. Even if she finally says no, at least u gave it a shot. U r not selfish joor. Besides u don't even know d boyfriend in question here so!

So u mean u can snatch ur friends GF because u love her or lust after her?

@irguru and caracta,thnaks a million for ur contributions.

if u no me u will undastand dat am not trying to justify my actions. but the thing is,hav u eva been in dat situation where u feel dis is jst it?.
hear dis, b4 i met dis gal my mum called me n told me abt her n dat she wnts me 2 meet her,n i refused cos i didnt wnt arrangi marriage..months leta i traveled to the east for a different engagement and while i was waiting for my frnd to show up, i saw a girl and immediatly fell in love with her i chased her and few hours leta she happened to be the same girl my mum wanted me meet. so u see i believe thrs a divine touch ...she is a great person seriously she is worth it..irguru u talked abt having game n all dat(smiling), bro this is beyond that, bro believe me u no go undastnd but anyhow i like ur contribution and i need more

he is not my frnd all i no abt him is all she has told me n same for him too

lrguru:

So u mean u can snatch ur friends GF because u love her or lust after her?

Ok...

obi147: he is not my frnd all i no abt him is all she has told me n same for him too

same thing dude. The fact that he aint your friend does not give you any excuse

lrguru:

So u mean u can snatch ur friends GF because u love her or lust after her?

Not at all. Besides he doesn't even know d guy. Common guys, let's face reality n quit pretence; almost every girl u meet on the street has a or boyfriend(s). Haba he feels there's somting special with this one, why not give it a shot instead of writing himself off while the girl hasn't.
to b honest, d girl should b d one tagged selfish cos if she isn't interested, why not say a big no so d guy backs off.

We will date dose we will date.

We will marry dose we will marry.

Op, if ur intensions towards her are good, and u are sure she has soft spot for you. Then go for her.

Cold faya:

Na wa o. Has d other guy married the girl? Let's not forget dat nobody is totally a free agent; not even teens. Truth is u have to snatch someones girl or guy to make dem ur babe or guy and pray n up ur game with dem so no one snatches dem from u.

Ma guy go for her jooor. Even if she finally says no, at least u gave it a shot. U r not selfish joor. Besides u don't even know d boyfriend in question here so!

I've read many stu-pid comments on NL, but so far that takes the cake. You have to snatch someone's girl or guy to make them yours, pray about it and hope no one does the same to you??

Na all dis kind tins dey make me stick to myself! Why d girl I call my GF no go fit tell anoda guy NO and just shut up? And she go want make I nor toast anoda girl for outside because we r datin! Am ashamed for every girl on dis thread who is givin dis guy a go ahead! Why? because God is givin ur BF's d go ahead to start toastin other girls outside, which will leave u all hrt broken! Nonsense girls! Awwwwwwwwwww

Jenams: Na all dis kind tins dey make me stick to myself! Why d girl I call my GF no go fit tell anoda guy NO and just shut up? And she go want make I nor toast anoda girl for outside because we r datin! Am ashamed for every girl on dis thread who is givin dis guy a go ahead! Why? because God is givin ur BF's d go ahead to start toastin other girls outside, which will leave u all hrt broken! Nonsense girls!Awwwwwwwwwww

Kay! Nau, dat z confusing

Yes u re very selfish

Popowaa: Yes u re very selfish

I didn't bother to read the topic/op, but I recommend this

Acidosis:
I didn't bother to read the topic/op, but I recommend this

Smh...

Caracta:
Smh...

why ?

Yield:

I've read many stu-pid comments on NL, but so far that takes the cake. You have to snatch someone's girl or guy to make them yours, pray about it and hope no one does the same to you??

Choi......some serious bashing of me cos of my personal opinion which came from experiences!
Maybe I should v used another word in place of 'snatch', accepted. Buh am I far from d truth?
Hunn dis is my opinion,abeg shift if u nor like am. Ok!

Ok I accept d criticism; oya where my cake.