inufele2:

Is it because she's local or because she's Yoruba?

inufele2:

Is it because she's local or because she's Yoruba?

inufele2:

Is it because she's local or because she's Yoruba?

Ibile United:

Her tribe has nothing to do wit dis...moreso,she's not local,she has a profession dat takes her abroad,she's trying to send a signal to those house wife dat doesn't takes care of their hubby...I sori for una.....Lola is watching!!!.....lol

Yoruba_Omoge:

True sha.

Women are attracted to what they cannot have and mostly what another woman has.

If they see another man properly taking care of another woman, na him dem go follow.

Naturally, women want an "already-made" man, and almost all "already made" are married.

I'm just saying.

Ms_favey: gosh i disagree with, men are bound to cheat! Nomata what their wives do. So spare me that shit can't bliv some peole support this careless advice frm one local yoruba mama

lynpetra: Men are promiscuous in nature.If you happen to see one that is faithful,then you are dammmmnnn lucky.IMO,what she said is totally wrong,but let's not forget that this days,married women are now behaving like men dem full my Estate for Abuja. Some young married ladies still fuuuck their ex.RUBBBBISHH

Missy_B:
False!
You people need to stop making excuses for the irresponsible beings out there. Men are no more ''naturally'' promiscuous than women are. . . They enjoy sex no better than women do . . . They do not have sexual urges more frequently than women do. Forget whatever theory may have been presented to you. Promiscuity is not gender-specific, it's rather an individual problem. Thank you!

Missy_B:

False!
You people need to stop making excuses for the irresponsible beings out there. Men are no more ''naturally'' promiscuous than women are. . . They enjoy sex no better than women do . . . They do not have sexual urges more frequently than women do. Forget whatever theory may have been presented to you. Promiscuity is not gender-specific, it's rather an individual problem. Thank you!

pro01: Hehehe. You go fear advice.

For real sha, I admire her for keeping it real and blunt; it's just that society prefers you pretend about such things -even though most do worse than Lola would ever attempt. How many of these holier-than-thou noisemakers here can swear on their wombs that they have never been 'poked' by a married man? Abeg make we hear word joor.

Sagamite: I agree with her o.

swtcharissa: may girls n women clock round ur hubby like bees. Amen

dotcom_na_me_na_me: Actress Lola Alao has an advise to single women out there.

She said that if a married man makes you happy, then you should go for it.

“Let me explain something to you; where are the single guys? They are there and not ready to marry.

If the single guys are not ready then the next available option should be taken. I believe one should go for whatever makes one happy.

If a married man is the one that will make you happy, please go for it. I know married women would be angry with me but it is the truth of the matter.”

What can you say about her words of wisdom, guys?

Do you believe that it is really good for single women to chase married men if single men are not ready to marry them?

Please feel free to share your thoughts on this matter.

http://ireporterstv.co/if-a-married-man-makes-you-happy-please-go-for-it-lola-alao/

souldust: As much as i do not agree that you should go into polygamy becos you cannot find a single guy for yourself, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the unique and beautiful marital institution called polygamy . There is so much stereotype surrounding polygamy especially among younger generation of African christians who have chosen not to learn about polygamy by objectively observing examples around them, but hold on to the ill information passed on to them by our glorious Nollywood and christian leader with an agenda. I am a renegade christian if you like.

NB: polygamy is not synonymous with imorality. It is (polygyny in particular) when a man marries 2 or more women and not a man having multiple se.x patners like some people ignorantly and with an agenda, would like to define it.

When a man has one wife and decides to have many girlfriends ( many ladies in here inclusive) he is not polygamous like it or not, he is only being imoral.

In polygamy, the man is not expected to sleep with the lady until he has fufiled all marriage rites.

People in here accuse the actress of encouraging others to break up other women's home. But they themselves have broken more homes (happy polygamous homes) with their rubbish councellig in their churches.

Yvete: Only a SHAMELESS woman with messed up self-esteem would go after someone else's husband.

Akiika: There you go wearing your judging pants!
Most of you do this one-man-one-wife hypocrisy...yet most of you go out there to cheat on your husbands and wives repeatedly.
The rate of adultery in Nigeria is alarming. Men even boast of it shamelessly. Girls are transported like cows to parties to sleep with the so-called married men for peanuts. 'Aristo' work wouldn't thrive if married men don't patronise them.
Abeg, do what works for you and go by your religious doctrine.
If you are a muslim that your religion permits it, and as long as your suitor satisfy the requirements, marry a married man if you can cope with sharing a man. If you are a Xtian that your religion forbids it, then don't do it and don't engage in adultery too.
On my last trip to Nigeria, some of my friend's idea of tripping me was to assign a girl to me to take care of me for peanut, i looked abnormal to them when i declined. My wife is most awesome woman in the world and i'm happy with her in all departments, i don't need some 'i neva chop', dirty, chicken-legged girl to make me happy.

rman: Another thread full of hypocrites!

Yvete: Only a SHAMELESS woman with messed up self-esteem would go after someone else's husband.

dellyjoe1000: yoruba version of tonto dike. nonesense girl

souldust: so our mothers in the past who married our fathers who already has other wife/wives are shameless and have 'messed up self esteem'? Why dont you look back at your comment and see that your ignorant generalization is based on the myopic

juman:

It seems you don't know her. She is an Ebira woman from kogi state. She is a true african woman. What she said is correct. There is nothing bad marrying a married man and become second wife.