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Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Many pipl have tried any way but shy face from any distractive advice pls marry her i could see many christian did same here only what u left 2do is to convince ur wife and avoid being partial and always uptimistic in ur behaviours 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by skoop: 7:55pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
follow ur instinct |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by wazobiaforu(m): 7:57pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
My humble advice is, try as much as possible to not allow her to show her full interest in you by wanting to hugg or kiss you or even by saying it straight, avoid her as much as possible and let her know she is free to remarry any other person if she likes. Dont toy with fire .... The case is just like cultism case, is better not to ear it or feel it, if not your life is on high tension |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by lagbaja(m): 7:57pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Marrying her will creat a very very complicated situation. Your decision must be one that is fair to all and at best, it must balance all interest. This is the 21st century.ancient solution can no longer suffice. How would her 5 children see you particularly the 19 year old ( As uncle or as step father ? How will your children see you ? . How will your wife take it,yoruba will say " orisa jen pe meji obirin ko is". no woman wants a rival. Your best bet is to stay nice to her like you have been doing. Please don't be tempted to have any affair with her.let her sort herself out. Fact is if you go ahead, its clear that u will have so much trouble in your hands. You don't want to sacrifice the peace and harmony of your own family just to please your brother's wife 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by huninaija(f): 7:59pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
First of all your "engrish" is atrocious by the time i got to the last line my eyes where watering. Personally, i don't think its a good idea to marry your senior brother's wife, what would your family even think of this union? I am aware that certain cultures allow the brother of the deceased to marry his wife. However, do you fall into this category? it seems you have a generous heart and its best you talk things through than to entangle yourself in a situation that will only complicate matters... |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
I think you can work out something with the woman.After 5 children,she maynot be able to get a comfortable place in another place.Your family and children may later feel so much anger when you start to see different men with her.Because women like that ,dont normally get stable relationship anymore.The word 5 kids should scare any responbile person.I dont think she can produce babies any more.You can help her for a short period.she is very lonely |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Cashio(m): 8:01pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Well i never bothered to check through ur post but from the caption....how i wan take marry ma broda wife wen young girls de pursue people komot for their domot |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by free2ryhme: 8:01pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
yes u can |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Wisetalk1: 8:03pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
maclatunji: Eyah. If you were a Muslim, I would have said consider marrying her. She wants a man and has set her eyes on you. No woman would like a co-wife so I understand your wife's position too.why are advising him to do what you wont do? You are one of those breaking homes and encouraging adultery. Back to d topic. Bro, do not attempt to do anything with your late brother's wife. Even if some traditions/religions permit it. If you do, you are sacrificing your own marriage. For all those telling u to discuss it with your wife, it is an abnormal thing to do, no woman, no matter how kind will allow such. You can support her, but dont do anything that will affect ur marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Yield: You've a good heart, Sir. Keep it up. I don't really know what to advice right now ...whether you should marry her or not. Only you can really decide what's best anyway. But definately, don't stop helping and caring for her and don't avoid her like the poster above me said. You're both adults and shouldn't resort to avoiding her. Communicate.did u •̸№t see the part where he stated that he is married??!!put urself in his wifes shoes before making nonsense comments about them being adults. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Ayoobscom(m): 8:06pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Who's this maclatunji? He often speak my mind...will like to take you for a lunch someday if you are in Nigeria...keep it up.. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by mike404(m): 8:06pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
You sure say no be you mud ya bro 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
huni_naija: First of all your "engrish" is atrocious by the time i got to the last line my eyes where watering. Personally, i don't think its a good idea to marry your senior brother's wife, what would your family even think of this union? I am aware that certain cultures allow the brother of the deceased to marry his wife. However, do you fall into this category?let's •̸№t confuse generosity with greed.He may have been playing the good samaritan just τ̲̅ȍ earn the treasure between d womans thighs.He must have been encouraging her with money gifts. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by seekingtruth(m): 8:11pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
If you love your late brother's wife please marry her. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by abbeyty(m): 8:13pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
RedBenson: u mean ur brother married a wife he was older than by 20yrs? Na wa o. where did you get your 20 years difference from? read properly b4 you comment |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by abbeyty(m): 8:17pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
@op, please let your late brother's wife be and look for second wife somewhere else. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by kaytytty: 8:17pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
since u said ur a christian then d bible shuld provide u d best answer 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
wazobia_for_u: My humble advice is, try as much as possible to not allow her to show her full interest in you by wanting to hugg or kiss you or even by saying it straight, avoid her as much as possible and let her know she is free to remarry any other person if she likes.that's d problem!!His writeup shows that he also has interest in her so he can't avoid her. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by karpentar: 8:18pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
olawole oladipo: Dear Colleagues, At your age, you are asking this kind of question? What a shame. Adult baby!!! |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by skydeep(f): 8:18pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
seeking@truth:Cmon dude, he is already married. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by greggng: 8:18pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Bros if i were in your shoes i will table this matter with my wife. discuss it objectively and if you have what it takes financially to cater for her needs why not marry her.After all God has a reason for bringing that lovely woman into your family....please let no one attack me for saying she is lovely cos from what you narrated , she must have had a good relationship with your brother. Death can come anytime. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
[quote author=Eze Promoe] [color=crimson] @ bolded She gave birth to him at the age of 11+? And her husband married her at the age of 31+? *puts on 3D glass* come again please.[/ You are a man of intelligence. The poster needs to come up with another fairytail. The one he just posted lacking credibility. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by ifihearam: 8:22pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
maclatunji: Eyah. If you were a Muslim, I would have said consider marrying her. She wants a man and has set her eyes on you. No woman would like a co-wife so I understand your wife's position too. Muslims and their mentality sef. @op. Resist her at all cost but do your level best to keep supporting her. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Bryancrox(m): 8:22pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
See matters |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
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Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by ifihearam: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
greggng: Bros if i were in your shoes i will table this matter with my wife. discuss it objectively and if you have what it takes financially to cater for her needs why not marry her.After all God has a reason for bringing that lovely woman into your family....please let no one attack me for saying she is lovely cos from what you narrated , she must have had a good relationship with your brother. Death can come anytime. The op has feelings for the widow,only God knows if you never dey kukere her since sef? |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Eze Promoe: Mef sef nack 4D specs |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
seeking@truth:Then u will go and marry his own wife abi?? |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by skydeep(f): 8:26pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
greggng: Bros if i were in your shoes i will table this matter with my wife. discuss it objectively and if you have what it takes financially to cater for her needs why not marry her.After all God has a reason for bringing that lovely woman into your family....please let no one attack me for saying she is lovely cos from what you narrated , she must have had a good relationship with your brother. Death can come anytime.You need to have your head examined. Anyways, he can do that if he is a muslim. |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by lateef4me(m): 8:27pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Pls,never visit her house alone again Always visit her in company of ur wife or friend . As a christian,you can't marry her .... |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by freecocoa(f): 8:29pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
Hmm this one hard o. I think she should just move on and find someone else cos I don't think any woman will be cool about sharing her husband, well except for muslim women and even at that, I believe if they have their way, they'd want to be an only wife. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by jane441: 8:31pm On Mar 07, 2013 |
olawole oladipo: Dear Colleagues, |
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