pamper:



there are different class of virgins,there are some that tells you,you have access to everything in their body except that.there are some that tyells you no,and it is NO.there are some that says only the upper part.so it depends on the kind and type you come in contact with.If you come in contact with a good and real sexy one,i mean sexxxxxxxxxxxxy,one you will prefer virgins to non virgins.i rest my case.

nuttyKachi:

Virigns are the most difficult and wicked people

some people say its honour

[/quote] Re: Do Virgins Make Better Partners?
« #16 on: April 13, 2008, 06:02 AM »

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To a very large extent, I think most virgins will make better partners. Marriage/relationship is all about being faithful to each other, and any young man or woman that have decided to keep his/herself by being faithful to God before marriage, will make a better partner when he/she get married because such a man/woman will appreciate that marriage/relationship better.

Sex in not everything in Marriage/relationship. There are lots more to that. Forget about the fact that they have not tested sex before and it will be boring when making love with each other. This will only last for a short while and soon they become expact through constant meetings, since they are going to spend the rest of their lives togehter.

The bible says that we must be example of the believers in purity (1Timothy 4:12c). So, what is important here is you honoring God. The bible also says that marriage is honorable among all things, with bed undefiled. I tell you, any man or woman that abides by this, God will be well pleased with that person and He will smile on that relationship/marriage by releasing that full measure of grace needed to substain that marriage and you see things working, except that marriage was not the will of God originally.So, it is not even by our making most times to make this things work, but it is the grace of God. Even if you have kept yourself as a virgin, it's very important you pray and seek the will of God before you go into any marriage relationship.

For those people that lost their virginity before marriage HIS grace is sufficient for you. For those that are still involve in fornication and adultry, you better repent and turn to God now. So, lets encourage our younger ones to stay holy, with bed undefiled and seek God with their youthful age, I tell you, God will be well pleased with such people and HE will rease that grace to make better partners upon them when the time comes.

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We need to know that sex before marriage in any religion whatsoever is wrong!!!, so why do we engage in it. Bible says that it is a sin against your own self, most people has made that mistake and are still making, it doesn’t make it right, it is very wrong. Well I can not say that Virgins make the best home or marriage. Virginity and character are not the same but are related it some ways. May I address this to Ladies, when you are in a relationship that you have involved your self in sex, when it breaks up, you feel more pain than if you never did it. Most men are only interested in having sex with you and that’s all. Though not all relationship should end up in marriage, but for the sake of pride and honour, why will you have sex with a man that is and will not be your husband? Is simply not right.

Please ladies, if you know how best to keep yourself from sex before marriage, I encourage you to do so, is a beautiful thing to do. You will not need to compare your husband with those guys you have slept with and hence will be satisfied with his performance. How do you feel after having a sex relationship and it broke up, and you go into another one and out again, don’t you think you are losing your pride? For you to achieve this, you have to hate sin and as such hate sex before marriage.

For guys, how can you think that a virgin can not perform well, these entire disvirgin expatriate in sex, didn’t they start sex one day and probably have been groomed by different men and there you are going into her, what makes her a better person? Is what you teach your wife that she will know, and if you want her so good at it, you groom her as you like it. I believe that for her to keep herself only for you that mean she will succumb to your pattern. So please, let us have a rethink and re trace out path. Thanks.

moji8888:

truly virgins do make better partner. the best you can give to your husband on your wedding night is your virginity. it signifies purity at least he is sure that he is not making love with all the other men she has slept with or dont you know that sex is beyond two people. being a virgin doesnt mean one cant perform better than the non virgins.
though to a large extent it depends on the reason why she is keeping her virginity, if she is the type that thinks sex is a sin whether married or not then please run from her.
most female will always long for the first person who deflower them except if they were raped. so ask the non virgins they will tell you they always wish for the first person who initiated them. you are done for if the person is endowed down there and your privates is small or you dont know how to satisfy her.
to a large extent it depends on her character and the sexual attractions between you.
as for me the virgins will always be a better partner at least it shows that she has self control, as it is not easy to wait but it is always the best to stand out which is what being a virgin does. who doesnt want better things.

Hmmmmm well said