Needlelady:

Ladies: I don't know whether any of you ladies have come across or dated men that are moochers? They first of all creep up into your life and before you know it they bring out their syphon and help themselves with your material resources. How do you see men that are moochers? Can you tolerate them?
Guys: Do you mind being a moocher? Will you feel cormfortable asking your girlfriend/wife  for money or some other thing all the time?
I ask no favors for my sex,  All I ask of our brethren is that they will take their feet from off our necks.  ~Sarah Moore Grimké

Some threads are just outrightly out of place.

Continue with the male bashing, if it makes you happy, Goodluck!

I want to ask the ladies a question, does being a woman gives you the right to be a "moocher" ?

It's unethical for a man to live off a woman. Women are used to guys taking care of their needs and it's the right thnig to do unless she wants to be independent like me so this your reasoning will not cut any water for you.End of story.

Women are used to guys taking care of their needs

uspry1:

For your information, both FEMALE and MALE are moochers everywhere in the world!

NO QUESTION ABOUT IT!

This new generation is very useless, and lazy.
Ask a 25yrs age guy if he as a job, house, car, land, and any kind of properties to show for!!!!!Nothing. the only thing they brag is having a degree . What is the use of going to school if he can't hold a job?
They all depend on their parents and sugar mamas  
Yes oh no money no love no sex  

The bisexual full NLand  , na only God go deliver them!!!!!!Amen

tkb417:


. . .ahem. . .
my dear OmO eKo
are u very sure this generation is very useless?
This generation includes the females. Why not ask a 25 yr old lady the same question and im sure they wont evn have all those you listed up.
They are busy trading away their honey pots for N5,000.

I think, you have not been able to beam your searchlight to the appropraite quarters
a lot of young upwardly mobile professionals are doing superbly well in Nigeria and in the diaspora.

Disclosure: some Nlders i know are doing good and they are not 30 yet
need i say more?

@Topic
a lady can be a moocher. .
Giving should be a symbiotic thingy. . .the man gives, the lady gives when she can.
A lady foolishly and stupidly living off the guy should be called a moocher

. . .ahem. . .
my dear OmO eKo
are u very sure this generation is very useless?
This generation includes the females. Why not ask a 25 yr old lady the same question and im sure they wont evn have all those you listed up.
They are busy trading away their honey pots for N5,000.
I think, you have not been able to beam your searchlight to the appropraite quarters
a lot of young upwardly mobile professionals are doing superbly well in Nigeria and in the diaspora.

Disclosure: some Nlders i know are doing good and they are not 30 yet
need i say more?

@Topic
a lady can be a moocher. .
Giving should be a symbiotic thingy. . .the man gives, the lady gives when she can.
A lady foolishly and stupidly living off the guy should be called a moocher

Excellent Point!!!

Many of the anti-masculine aggressors on nairaland have pretty much nothing to show but failed lives, lost years and dead relationships.
But hey this is an online forum so we can claim to be living our fantasies. . . init?

Awww . . . must have touched a nerve there.

Anything that makes you happy dear . . . even if it's thinking I'm the beggar on your street.

somze:

Awww . . . must have touched a nerve there.

Anything that makes you happy dear . . . even if it's thinking I'm mooching off unsuspecting women on your street.

By sillyboy,
I am not denying the fact that a man is expected to take care of women. But I need you to understand that in scenario like this, the woman is expected to be totally submissive to the man.

Are you happy now?

Ok I decide not to mooch off/on Naija queens . . . whoever they are **rolls eyes** . . . on your street.

Uche2nna:

WHAT SORT OF AREA DO You LIVE IN? You seem to be attracting a weird set of men.

@ Needlelady

Someone must have given u a hard time in a relationship for u to develop this kind of attitude.

Yesterday na all men are gay, 2morrow most men have small abunna , today na some kind yeye moocher's attitude.


WHAT SORT OF AREA DO You LIVE IN? You seem to be attracting a weird set of men.

I have an uncanny feeling she's a fat ugly woman who has been very unlucky in love and needs to relieve her pain.
Allow her to rant . . . maybe tomorrow she will dedicate an entire thread to men with small pee wees.

Needlelady:


Why must I be attracting all these men especially when I am so hooooooot? Is it not the Funmi that some of you claim has no man when I have a very very masculine boo in my bedroom kissing my apple ass.

Needlelady:

If wishes were horses, 4Him will get laid.

Uche2nna:

@ Needlelady

Someone must have given u a hard time in a relationship for u to develop this kind of attitude.

just my own feeling. Its hard to see so much negativity from people who have a genuinely happy life.

Needlelady:


Why must I be attracting all these men especially when I am so hooooooot?

Needlelady:

I'm an independent woman who knows her onions and am very very happy. I'm not strange to the male rebuttal here because I've been there,done that. You wonder why they call me 'machine lady' at work?