i met a particular young lady and fell in love with her. we dated for a little over 3 years and we got really serious but as fate would have it she started playing me on the side, to cut a long story short we broke up cos though the love is still there the trust is not, she's getting married and she wants me at her wedding? i'm not too sure that would be a wise idea but i'm open to suggestions y'all

Well shes not your girlfriend anymore shes you ex and as for me I wouldnt go, that would be too uncomfortable and I think I'd probably get mad at her for even inviting me

Well you're not him, cos you're female.

Well I see nothing wrong goin, since I wouldnt be going without company ~if you know what I mean.

go to the wedding with a very hot girl to keep you company

Exactly what I said dude.

Wan skankin defination of a lady.

there is nothing wrong going

vicade:

go to the wedding with a very hot girl to keep you company

i totally agree, you got to make a cool impression! you 're way too smooth!

it doesnt really mak any difference if he goes witha hot or cold girl, his ex will probably be too excited with her husband to even notice him plus his hot or cold girl. the person he goes with doesnt really make a differnce, even with his hot girl, he will end up fustrated cos i think he is still in luv with ds his ex chick. take my advice, dont go!

i'll attend

well if the ex does not notice him on the wedding day if he goes with a hot girl, she can always watch a playback cd or tape of the wedding ceremony then she will notice DEPENDING ON HOW HOT THE GUYS COMPANY IS.

why go?

i dont see any reason why you would want to go just to watch her get married to another man.

exactly wht am sayin, whats the point of going?

to chop rice

That is a part of ur past - leave it all behind and move ahead.

no way ooo

sauce, u fit go represent am nah! longer throat!

I agree with what others have said - you should but with a date. I went to an ex's wedding few years ago with a hot date, at the reception the new couple were going around tables to say hello she noticed my date because that was the first thing she asked when next we spoke. 

if you dont attend despite the fact that she invited you,you're still keeping a grudge

Wouldn't you go to a friends wedding?

If you'll,then I see nothin wrong in you being dere. Go jare, and face your fear ~ It'll wll only make u stronger.

But rmbr, gbógè dàní.

i dont see the point, why torture yourself?

I belive d girl actually invited u 2 her wedding 2 ridicle u but I beliv u will demonstrate a high level of maturity if u attend provided u have a large heart, If not,DON'T GO

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lol saucekid u r so funny
why do u say he wants to chop rice
I will advice u not to go, cos u will feel hurt

i'll definitely go there,chop rice and comot
but i go carry babe go there too

it will be difficult if u truely loved her and she didn't love u enough 4 her to be getting married to someone else, but as it is said guys are stronger emotionally but if it will make u uncomfortable, no need punishing urself. because u don't know her intensions for inviting u, it may be to show off to u , except u guys parted on a very good and matured way witout anyone taking advantage of the other person.

If you go, make sure your date looks better than her. I mean this is your time to show how you have moved on to bigger and better things. Be ON TOP of your game, remember she did you WRONG. But you dont want her to feel like she won, if you go there looking like a sad mugoo makin face. Go there looking like Jay-Z and Beyonce at the grammy's, and smile and wave your hand like the president. lol Im serious oh

sheesh!

@ topic na wa my GF wedding? e go hard oh. . . .

realy dont know. it depends but then i really doubt it.

I will attend such wedding as special guest of honor otherwise. Aren't going no where