THE MEN WERE WOOING UNMARRIED BACHELORETTES AND MAKING THEIR WOMEN UNHAPPY SO THE WOMEN SOUGHT TO KNOW HOW HAPPY THEY COULD BE WOOING THE BACHELORS AND FOUND THAT IT COULD BE FUN.....HOW CAN THE UNMARRIED BACHELORETTES TAKE MARRIAGE SERIOUSLY WHEN THE MEN ARE BUSY WITH THEM OUTSIDE MARRIAGE HAHAHAHAHA!!! SELFISH MEN

pekelepekele: Most women no longer act like 1 anymore and that is the main reason we men have changed . Imagine a married woman wooing bachelors , how do you think those bachelors will ever take getting married serious ?

Damon03:
I like how 'most' women are predictable. They may write an epistle about who a real man is but it will always come down to money

plss don't quote me if u don't understand wot I wrote,whr did u see me mention money in my writeup?#real men don't talk out of point

berem: Who run the world,

girls! girls!!

"Dancing alingo"

who runs the girls?
BOYZ!!

jadelyn007: plss don't quote me if u don't understand wot I wrote,whr did u see me mention money in my writeup?#real men don't talk out of point

I bolded the part where you talked about money, u don't need to say 'money' before we know what 'pay their rent' means. Given the fact that I had to spell everything out for you.... I'm not interested in being a real man by ur standards

see nothing wrong in apologising to a woman when u wrong her....just my opinion though

I feel the poster just got hrtbroken and he hÍs trying to console himself.
How those that change our ladies perception
Of life?afterall most lady regard men as monsters,abeg. Come up with something more creative!

Myne White: Dear Women,

First of all, we're sorry. We're sorry that although we look like men, we often act like boys. We're not even sure what it means to be men anymore. As we grow up, we learn that to be happy is to be self-indulgent and self-centered. We try to make enough money so that we can have the right TV with the right video games in the right home. We want to date you and maybe even marry you but we are scared to focus on someone else instead of ourselves. Isn't it sad that we see committing to you as a potential threat to our happiness instead of a wonderful opportunity?

Here's what we don't understand: True happiness comes from being true men. We think and act like boys who don't want their toys taken away. We look up to "role models" in the media who teach us to get as much gratification out of life as possible. We may claim to be spiritual, or even firm atheists, but pleasure is the god that we worship, whether we realize it or not. Unfortunately, women tend to be just another part of our hedonistic lifestyle. Please know this: True men won't treat you like an irritating obstacle or a sexual convenience.

A real man understands that women are to be cherished and treated with care and honor. He sees marriage as the opportunity to be a real-life superhero—he leaves behind his old identity and becomes a new person, dedicated to serving his wife and children. Although he will struggle at first, a true man who marries eventually understands that he can't fit through the narrow doorway to happiness if he tries to carry all of his toys with him. There is just enough room for him and his wife, arm in arm, committed to their marriage.

Women, you can help us become real men! Most importantly, we want to feel admired by you. Help us to know that you love us just as we are, even if there is room for improvement. Do this by giving us words of validation; praise us for the things we do well. This means more to us than we let on.

In return, we will make sure that you feel loved and cherished by us. We will learn to talk with you so you can be heard and understood, not so that we can tell you how to solve your problems. We'll also try to learn to express how we feel without withdrawing or getting angry. With polished communication we can learn that what makes you happy makes us happy too! What a concept!

Once again, we're sorry. We are to blame, even though good male role models are hard to find these days. We've ignored our calling to become true men and instead act like we're in high school for as long as we can. Please trust that we are capable of more than this.

If you are frustrated with the man in your life, do your best to forgive him and start fresh. After a while, if it's clear that he will not become a real man, leave him. You deserve better.

A healthy relationship will make everyone involved feel happy. When we are happy, we are capable of living meaningful and fulfilling lives alongside one another. Thank you for your understanding and patience as we journey onward to find happiness and become real men.

Sincerely,
Men

http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2013/06/one-man-writes-open-letter-to-women.html

Why Am i NOT surprised this was written by a woman?

berem: Who run the world,

girls! girls!!

"Dancing alingo"

But everyone knows who run the girls-MEN

[color=#000099][/color][i][/i] Nice Write up

Queendo: I dont expect the men to respond.The truth is that all men are boys but not all boys are men.

and you danced Azonto for 4hrs after your ''boy'' proposed, took you to a mansion better than the rat hole your father left behind, bloody ingrates!!

Texas.Cowgirl:
I want Nigerian men to read this letter to me (esp first and second line) while prostrating.

Hehehehe... Yea G.luck!!!

jadelyn007: Real men will read dis and learn frm it while boys will read this and cuss d Op.real men r doers,boys r talkers(talk is cheap)!!real men make sense frm dis write up dat boys call 'nonsense',boys can't even read between d lines.real men dnt hv to call demselves men,their action speaks for dem,boys claim dey r men n yet can't pay their own house rent.#My own humble opinion

In summary
Real men=Mugus
Boys= dudes

Mobsync:

We're not guys, we're men. Besides, we don't remember writing this.

I'm loving you 'MEN' more and more..

Damon03: I bolded the part where you talked about money, u don't need to say 'money' before we know what 'pay their rent' means. Given the fact that I had to spell everything out for you.... I'm not interested in being a real man by ur standards

oh well,nw here we go.do u hv an apartment of ur own or u stil live under ur parents' roof??if u stil stay in ur fathers house n he stil feeds u,den u r a boy!datz wot i meant.any more questions?

toshmann:

In summary
Real men=Mugus
Boys= dudes

if dts wot u undastand frm d write up,dn congratulations,u r a boy!!

lorretta u: you're even with yourself cos I was in no tussle with you.hope you go and beat your babe black and blue like you said cos of the write up someone else did.anyway I don't have anger management issues.I'd rather think of it as 'emm lemme think' well can't think of a word for it.you guys don't make me angry I'd rather say irritated is a better word for it.

Dear, don't make it mild ,you keep tying yourself with the words you use. Also, 'even' in the usage was the for the Men and Women letter not you and me...like seriously Me and you tussle', damsel please

jadelyn007: if dts wot u undastand frm d write up,dn congratulations,u r a boy!!

I'm a dude, go find a mugu

You may benefit from this message below:

Act like a real woman to get a real man. Act like a girl, I trust the boys are ever ready to ravage you, dry you up and be thrown to the garbage.

Truth Hurts. Truth is, the rapid breakdown in relationships in this age is due to failed commitments from men AND women. When you guys blame men, what I see is a group of girls who don't want to grow. Yet they want grown men. Until we all accept that WE are at fault, we can as well continue joking as I'm doing in this thread.

Want to know why your man is misbehaving? Look into the mirror, you'll find the answers. It goes both ways.

Ciao

jadelyn007: oh well,nw here we go.do u hv an apartment of ur own or u stil live under ur parents' roof??if u stil stay in ur fathers house n he stil feeds u,den u r a boy!datz wot i meant.any more questions?

I can't remember asking u any question. U're even more confused than I thought

jadelyn007: oh well,nw here we go.do u hv an apartment of ur own or u stil live under ur parents' roof??if u stil stay in ur fathers house n he stil feeds u,den u r a boy!

So by your definitions a real man is someone that can pay rents to an apartment. Even if he beats the hell out of you everyday, u'll just shruggle and say 'At least he pays the rents'. Back to my point again... money controls you!

What do u call a man who is swift to telling people hedious things about his wife at d slightest provocation?A boy,offcourse.

[size=18pt]Ladies, surprise your man today. Quietly take his account number and put $10,000.00 in there[/size].

. [size=28pt]You won't die[/size]

[size=5pt]Alarm don blow
Dem go kill me today [/size]

Girls na joke o, I see am for Internet say make I come share am for here o

toshmann: [size=18pt]Ladies, surprise your man today. Quietly take his account number and put $10,000.00 in there[/size].

. [size=28pt]You won't die[/size]

[size=5pt]Alarm don blow
Dem go kill me today [/size]

Girls na joke o, I see am for Internet say make I come share am for here o

It better be a joke

Texas.Cowgirl:


It better be a joke

Na for you na
Abeg Texas my account # na
23486-419-666-001

I like surprises

toshmann:

Na for you na
Abeg Texas my account # na
23486-419-666-001

I like surprises

Oh you'll get a surprise.

Just don't faint when you see your acct balance. The more negative it is, the more love dey in my heart

Texas.Cowgirl:


Oh you'll get a surprise.

Just don't faint when you see your acct balance. The more negative it is, the more love dey in my heart

Why na
I LOVE surprises, make a dude happy. Shock me with love $10,000.00

Then I can read any letter you want me to read to you in any language, anywhere, any position, any voice anytime

So because I suggested that women should surprise their husbands by secretly putting $10,000.00 into their husbands accounts this thread suddenly die

Women ,
Una too much

all this blah blah is sort of redundant and repetitive imo.

@ topic.

do people really sit down and spend their precious time typing up these nursery school jingles?

'mide eniafe:
Would love to know what 'em guys feel 'bout this?

good question.

nl has men typing as women and women typing on behalf of men, nobody wants to be who they are, everybody wants to project as something else.

Mobsync:

We're not guys, we're men. Besides, we don't remember writing this.

with sex change, you could have.

Gross impersonation!