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Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Idowuogbo(f): 5:36pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
neyostica: @op you got what you you deserved, i feel like beating you myselfSmh! Some mothers sure have them... Ur mother is a she-goat Ur sisters are Malus Ur female relatives are donkeys! Oya go carry stick begin beat them till death do una part. Onyeara!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by stpat1(m): 5:41pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Really sorry to hear that. While growing up, I constantly witness wife battery by a neighbour and with that, I always quickly restrain myself if I feel I am raising my voice at anyone cos I still see the horror pics whenever I see couples quarreling or even arguing. Today they are no more together and I tell you, the negative effect on the up bringing of the kids will last a lifetime. I can feel your pain. Well I'll advice you adopt a subtle approach while dealing with him. I am not a counsellor. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by neyostica: 5:46pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: you lucky i can't see you now, would have beaten you to pulp holy book: stupidity resides in the heart of children/women, you need to beat it out |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Idowuogbo(f): 5:49pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
neyostica:Kai! U are extremely lucky I can't step foot in dat shalanga u call room and parlour.I wud ave bashed ya head in wiv my platform heels. Oku Gbe! Eranko Ikeji aja! Waka!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Idowuogbo(f): 5:51pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
stpat1: Really sorry to hear that. While growing up, I constantly witness wife battery by a neighbour and with that, I always quickly restrain myself if I feel I am raising my voice at anyone cos I still see the horror pics whenever I see couples quarreling or even arguing. Today they are no more together and I tell you, the negative effect on the up bringing of the kids will last a lifetime.Pato, I site u o! Wey my IV? |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by ameenahz(f): 6:17pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
neyostica: @op you got what you you deserved, i feel like beating you myself It is men like you that make me wish i was a witch so i can come during the night and beat u black and blue and watch you grovel. U really need some beating. I pity the woman who marries/d you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by dayokanu(m): 6:30pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Alele. Pick race with your heels touching your back if you no wan divorce, Separate, Just dont stay in the same house |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Onuokwu: 6:58pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Doctorazz: I never thought i would be saying this ,but here i am. Gosh.....this is so pathetic. i am tired of ladies saying they stayed ina relationship because they discovered they were pregnant. The script is becoming so lame now. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by hardbody: 7:26pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Madam, stay put, dont go anywhere. Just raise some money and arrange your coffin and your burial place. Inscribe on the tombstone, 'i died for love'. Go home and wait for him to kill you. Eediet. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by eherbal(m): 7:58pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
speeddater: Abeg go read https://www.nairaland.com/portharcourtboy/posts/17 for background on this storyhmmm. We really should hear from both sides before prosecuting. Most of you calling for a separation ought to be ashamed of yourselves. They can still work it out. Cause the lady croaked first doesn't mean she's justified. Thanks to speeddater for this insight. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by eherbal(m): 8:18pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
tjark1:@op,don't, I repeat, don't ever involve any cleric in your marital affairs, ever! Pastors that can hardly keep their home front, and are known to take advantage of couples crisis to covet the wife of their members. It still happened till recently. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by eherbal(m): 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan:You see, that's what I'm talking about. That's my gurl. So what happens after the nkwobi episode? |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Ivynwa(f): 9:43pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
When poster opened the other thread lamenting how verbally abusive her man is, I read the utterances of both of them and asked "What the hook really is" in the relationship if the man was listing all kinds of weaknesses on the girl's part and the girl was listing the man's own. Fastforward a year later and this couple are still listing weaknesses with things getting to a violent head. Mr. Portharcourtboy in the other thread I told you that you are domineering and you are proving it again and again. Each time she opens a thread, you storm there and take over the thread from her insulting her with "she can't do this, she can't do that, my mum is not a lazy b*ttom a*s like her, She can' t cook food etc. The same person that can't boil rice last year haven't learnt a thing all these while and still can't boil rice today? It seems like you are being too fault finding, note that you did not grow up in the same home with her and the methods of cooking used in your different homes cannot be the same. If she can't cook it with the same measure of ingredients your mama use to cook that does not mean that she cannot cook please. All you need do is show her how much ingredients to mix up the way you like it and you don't have to insult her like that while showing her that. How did you know that she opened this thread if you were not making checks on her too and you had to beat her like a worthless person because she couldn't resist the temptation of going through your phone. The same lady you make love to and say all the endearing words to. The woman that carried/gave birth to your child and you dared lift your hands to beat her. Mister your posts portray you as a man with a strong character who is faultfinding too. You are telling her that when she leaves that there are enough women around to take her place. What happens if another woman takes her place and runs again when the fire becomes too much for her? ----that is when everybody will realize that you have your weaknesses too. You need to calm down a bit for your wife. You are not perfect yet you are always listing the girl's fault. What you and your wife are doing right now is like assembling plenty people in the street and each of you narrating your side of your problems to them. You will get all kinds of advice for sure so it's better you both sit down, nip this problem for the last time and give peace & joy chances in your home. I read that she broke your shoulder and broke your tablets too. We were not told what made her do these things not that she should get violent too. It is not good for a man and woman to live in violence because someday one may kill the other, you are even better off on your own without being exposed to violence than being yoked in it so if you want to remain married know that violence has no place in a loving marriage. Decide against it in your marriage, pray and work against it. Work at weaknesses that the other partner wants to be improved on and make each other happy. Please you guys must never hit each other again, we don't want to see another thread with shattering news. If you want to keep hitting yourselves better separate and stay alive. Each of you may come across people with cooler demeanor. I haven't seen a man and woman that are always nullifying each other out and are still glued like "You are the most terrible man/woman on earth but I am stuck on you". There seems to be a hook here, you can as well make whatever it is that binds you beautiful even with the teeming imperfections and weaknesses than living the rest of your lives being at each other's neck. There is no perfect husband or wife out there without an atom of weakness in them. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by maira09(f): 12:35am On Jul 23, 2013 |
. If he trn u in 2 a bag why nt trn him in 2 a soap.why shud u go through a man Phn dnt u no is nt right even if u marry him becausei no many women marry men.go sleeping. ˚☺k˚˚ >̴̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡ u think nairaland an police station.u dey learn work. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by neyostica: 8:40am On Jul 23, 2013 |
maira09: . If he trn u in 2 a bag why nt trn him in 2 a soap.why shud u go through a man Phn dnt u no is nt right even if u marry him becausei no many women marry men.go sleeping. finally a woman with sense, though it took me about an hour to decipher what you typed up there........ kudos |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by popcykaylah(m): 12:05pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
real men dont raise thier hands on a woman. Doctorazz: I never thought i would be saying this ,but here i am. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by QueenRAW(f): 12:08pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Mr knowitall.: Of course she should pray and seek divine guidance.I didn't say that she should pray and nothing else.I said that she should also follow the logical advice that she would dole out to her own daughter, if she was to find herself in a similar situation, God forbid. Please do not attempt to ridicule my advice by only focusing on one aspect of my comment.If what I am writing displeases you, do better by giving more sound advice. In all situations, negative and positive, prayer is a key component.This is my opinion, and if yours differs, well good for you.Last I checked you did not pay my bills, and I don't pay yours.No love lost nor gained |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by QueenRAW(f): 12:13pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
cold: There is obviously an illiteracy issue with the memebers on this site.Before quoting my comment, please read thoroughly and carefully |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by extraflyfineboy(m): 1:28pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
so sad, its a painful story but it does happen every where. who will speak up? who will fight 4 them? its exactly the sort of story here http://umehoma.com |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Ivynwa: When poster opened the other thread lamenting how verbally abusive her man is, I read the utterances of both of them and asked "What the hook really is" in the relationship if the man was listing all kinds of weaknesses on the girl's part and the girl was listing the man's own. + 100 likes! |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by extraflyfineboy(m): 1:53pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: u shld focus on the issue @ hand rather than acting childishly, this topic is serious, just like the one here http://umehoma.com |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Idowuogbo(f): 1:57pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
extraflyfineboy:Lpmso! Young man, u dey use style market ya blog she? Don't worry... Wait for me! I'll visit ya blog dis time 2079. Arindin! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by stpat1(m): 1:57pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: yeye o, no be me naaa. na one extremely lucky guy o. U are invited o |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Idowuogbo(f): 2:09pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
stpat1:Lolz... U not serious! We'll talk lerra... |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by eherbal(m): 2:36pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
extraflyfineboy: so sad, its a painful story but it does happen every where.erm dude,you're overdoing it. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Goldenboy007(m): 5:34pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
https://www.nairaland.com/1368737/pregnant-woman-arrested-allegedly-killing/1#16978995 Hmmmmmmmm, Portharcourtboy said he suffered some injuries from the wife and all our advisers did was to waive it off, the above story is on Nairaland and it only has few comments even thought that involved death !!! Men are as endangered as women in a marriage !!! I advise all you female activists here should go and exercise your angry advice on that topic too and men go there and curse women as much as possible since that's what they do every time if men are involved. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Vires: 9:45pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
So Doctorazz and PHBoy you ppl still went ahead and married, after all your drama on your thread of last year!!!!!!!!!! Most ppl adviced you, that you should walk away but you still went ahead Pls the two of you deserve each other Make una beat n kill yourselves |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by biolabee(m): 10:46pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
eastman11: God hates divorce, marriage is for better and for worse, learn to endure. Again stop thinking of moving out, a few slap here and there will not kill you, so many single ladies will prefer to be married with six hot slap every morning than to remain single. My final advice, don't divorce and stop complaining. Troll alert!!, 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by Burger01(m): 1:52pm On Jul 25, 2013 |
Rhemmymatician:You really didn't get my flow. Never bother. |
Re: My Husband Has Turned Me To A Punching Bag by mizztee(f): 1:15am On Oct 01, 2013 |
I am sorry to say, but @Doctorazz, you are a very foolish woman. I have just read your thread from last year, and this man clearly had no iota of respect for you but you still went ahead to marry him. Your punishment has only just begun. |
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