pls can u give an advice b4 my younger sister makes a mistake. This guy wants to marry her but he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school. My sis is a graduate and she is working now. Secondly, he is a catholic and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer, but the guy is not even strong in the lord. The guy deals in cocaine but he says he has stopped it. my sis is not sure if he is serious. pls should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck, and wants answers fast!!!!!!!!

how old is ur sista? she should beta run away oooooooo

i guess it depends on your sis let her decide if the guy truly loves her then she should go ahead,but if not her mind will tell her the real thing to do.

The guy stopped school at primary six, which means he's semi literate, he sells cocaine but now says he has stopped. Since your sister is not sure that he stopped selling cocaine how do you know whether its true? If he has what is he doing to make his daily bread?

Why is the guy in a hurry? And what dose your sister see in him? Hope she's not addicted to coke coz to me the whole thing sounds like a recipe for disaster

i wouldn't

to face the fact, being literate or not does not relate with love.

But if this guy is a coke person and ur sister is not sure he had quit, then my advice is that she should move on with her life, better person like me will soon come her way.

chycin:

please can u give an advice before my younger sister makes a mistake. This guy wants to marry her but he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school. My sis is a graduate and she is working now. Secondly, he is a catholic and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer, but the guy is not even strong in the lord. The guy deals in cocaine but he says he has stopped it. my sis is not sure if he is serious. please should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck, and wants answers fast!!!!!!!!

1. GRADUATE - DROP OUT
2. WORKING CLASS LADY - JOBLESS DRUG DEALER
3. BORN AGAIN BELIEVER - CATHOLIC NON BELIEVER

Is she desperately looking for a husband? Or is this another vision from a priest?

I like that analogy!!

chycin:

please can u give an advice before my younger sister makes a mistake. This guy wants to marry her but he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school. My sis is a graduate and she is working now. Secondly, he is a catholic and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer, but the guy is not even strong in the lord. The guy deals in cocaine but he says he has stopped it. my sis is not sure if he is serious. please should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck, and wants answers fast!!!!!!!!

Cash Rules Everything. . . . .
She should marry him. . . . . . .Bill Gates was a drop-out but how many M.Sc Holders are famous than him?
Love conquereth all. If they love each other. . . . .let em MARRY.

@poster
Can't believe you and your sister are actually considering this ''marriage''. Agree with me or not,love is not always enough.Use your collective heads!

do you really need our

advice here?

if the coke issue hadnt being introduced

a split decision we might have here

but madam this is crystal enough

if you sis, doesnt want to explain to the feeds how 80grams of coke got into her

talcum container,or is it toothpaste

let her seek the lords face for another

chycin:

please can u give an advice before my younger sister makes a mistake. This guy wants to marry her but he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school. My sis is a graduate and she is working now. Secondly, he is a catholic [/b]and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer, but the guy is [b]not even strong in the lord. T[b]he guy deals in cocaine[/b] but he says he has stopped it. my sis is not sure if he is serious. please should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck, and wants answers fast!!!!!!!!

For me, all what you just listed are what I dnt want in a man. . but goodluck to your sis!





Primary 6
cocaine

i dont think anyone should give any advise here,cos d right thing to do is very clear

Well I am sure there are some good sides to this guy, else your sis would not be contemplating marriage - but if the issues you listed are fundamental - i.e they go to the core of what your sister desires in a mate, then she cannot marry him. If they happen to be issues she can compromise on, then all well and good - go ahead and sleep on the bed you made.

like jenny said - the right thing to do is very clear

debosky:

Well I am sure there are some good sides to this guy, else your sis would not be contemplating marriage - but if the issues you listed are fundamental - i.e they go to the core of what your sister desires in a mate, then she cannot marry him. If they happen to be issues she can compromise on, then all well and good - go ahead and sleep on the bed you made.

like jenny said - the right thing to do is very clear

co-signed

Hail Christ! Are you serious about this question? As in, she'll decide whether to marry him or not based on the advice you get here? Both of you seem to be smokin that shit with the dude.

please can u give an advice before my younger sister makes a mistake. This guy wants to marry her but he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school. My sis is a graduate and she is working now. Secondly, he is a catholic and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer, but the guy is not even strong in the lord. The guy deals in cocaine but he says he has stopped it. my sis is not sure if he is serious. please should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck, and wants answers fast!!!!!!!!

my dearest poster, abj babe, lets look at your topic again

my younger sister are you sure it's your younger sis or you (you know i have used this techinque b4).

he is not educated. he stopped at primary six, he did not attend secondary school it's not all about formal education but self educate, i have seen pple who passed through the four walls of university but the university did'nt pass through them.

sis is a graduate and she is working now graduate abd working; tell her (or i mean you) congrat but with all that and even more she or you must end up under a man, that if you want to marry (since she or you claim to be a born again).

he is a catholic and my sister is a born again christian who wishes to marry a believer pls educate me here, i tot catholics are also christians, or are the idol worshippers.

guy deals in cocaine but he says he has stopped it there is a saying that "önce there alway there" and besides in cocaine biz, there evil they do lives with them, except "she or u wan enjoy cocaine money"

my sis is not sure if he is serious and i think your sis or you are not serious too cos she or you are not been realistic, she or you don't want the bad guy but you wants his money

please should she go ahead and marry him. D guy is on her neck finally i say this there is no hurry in marriage if he wants her or you he has to give you time to think.

dre101:

to face the fact, being literate or not does not relate with love.

But if this guy is a coke person and your sister is not sure he had quit, then my advice is that she should move on with her life, better person like me will soon come her way.

i like jare
u jst dey help ur self small small

@poster
would u be so kind as too come back to nairaland and give us an update if at all they finally decide to get married?

wats with u and her choice,
nah u wan make am for am.
tell me say u never eat from this cocaine -dealer money b4.
born again my foot, she has been frolicking with the baron and now wants to find excape route.
tell ur sis to wine and dine with him. simple.
oloshi buruku.

love is not always enough

ibkaye:

love is not always enough

have u tried doing anything about making it equal?

izeek:

have u tried doing anything about making it equal?

making what equal?

sorry i tot i saw equal,
well sometimes other tins shud be involved too,
not love alone.
dont u think so ibk?

izeek:

sorry i tot i saw equal,
well sometimes other tins should be involved too,
not love alone.
don't u think so ibk?

yes

as a so called born again,how she sef take attract that kain guy.
2 of una no well.

education has nothing to do with marrige, you dont go to learn to say i do, but then i think your sis is pushed by greed, cos for the guy to be on her neck, and she is still carrying him without the breaking the neck, then somethng else join, i suggest you leave them alone, till they hit the rock.

well ibk so tell me what ur man has to possess to make u fall in-love?

how come efcc, or ndlea dont patronise these sites so they can catch the husband to be ofthe girl?

izeek:

well ibk so tell me what your man has to possess to make u fall in-love?

can't be bothered to write it all down, emabinuu

Your sister should know what is good for her,i am sure her eyes are in the guy's money that is why she is confused.

Michelin,
Keep your analogy to yourself. Why do you call the guy a drop-out?

Jackal, add Karl Rove to your list of drop-outs.

@post,
Give me top 3 reasons why this guy is not eligible for your sister. You are biased! You heralded what is good in your sister and denigrated the integrity of the guy. Don't tell his accomplishments or lack thereof, share with us why he cannot be a responsible husband.