I have this dilemma that is troubling me for about 4 months now. Am seeing this two ladies that am gradually falling in love with both of them. This first I call "X" is currently in year 2 and presently on ASUU Strike that we dont know when they will call off. I have also a good friend (Female) i call "Y" that is about concluding her NYSC and also a good wife material. I want to settle down in 3 Months from today and presently working and living an average life.

My challenges are:
Considering the fact that "X" is still in school (Year 2) , should i go ahead and marry her or marry "Y" who is already through with school?

Tony tetuila iz that you?

Jamey Maxwell: Tony tetuila iz that you?

guy, u fast pass me. I was dancing to d music b4 ur comment.

Jamey Maxwell: Tony tetuila iz that you?

Lolz...he's in luv with two woman and doesn't know which one 2 choose.

Heard this long ago: if u luv two women, choose the second one because if u truly luved the first, u would never had fallen for the second one.

Personally, I don't think u can truly luv the two of them equally...It's either u hve a sort of attraction for the two of them and u r sort of feeling you'll be the loser letting go, or u luv one of them more, but u r just so confused u can't read between the lines.
Good luck making ur choice, bro...

Folks who are usually in such dilemma are nothing but greedy mofos. They want to have a taste/combination of everything. Its natural with most of us men.

Well, it will save you time and money and emotional quagmire to let the undergraduate go.
I'm only worried how she will feel.

Princeparix: if X is 2 and Y is 4 + 1, what is the future probability of being hapi- wia M is constant? ( M = Op)

this one brain is dead..you need to stand under the sun for a whole day to sharpen your brain

I don't think it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time. are you sure you are not in lust?

marry the two

So we will choose for you, huh?

Enegod: this one brain is dead..you need to stand under the sun for a whole day to sharpen your brain

Lolz. Dat wan na ur own cup of dogoyaro

marry the 2 na...lol

OP, i believe u have them both cos they have some characterization u desire.

i could deduce from your post that-
girl 1=X, is more exciting and cracks u up and more like a "never-a-dull-moment" kinda girl.
girl 2=y, is more of a wife a material and seem cool headed and being a graduate is an added advantage.

but bro, u may not be able to eat your cake and have it.

bring a paper and pen, check their qualities and know which has a better prospect of making u happy for a very looooong time, then try and build her up in the area of lack.




but my man, a confused man like u cant have a wedding in 3months, so please dont confuse yourself more........good luck........shaaa

You don't love both of them bro, its not possible to be in love with 2ladies @ the same. You either love one of them and you just lusting after the other girl. There's a difference between love and likeness, not every friendship leads to a relationship/marriage, right now you are very confused and I don't think you are ready for marriage. Sit down and make your priorities straight, marriage is forever oo.

Thanks guys for the positive replies. its not that i love both of them equally but that i know "X" more than i know "Y". X is good and homely though a pain in the neck and still a student with a long way to go (Year 2 with strike still ongoing) . "Y" in this case is nice, a friend, funny and a wife material. her being a graduate is an added advantage considering the dispensation the country is in now...

Please help

Choose the one your heart beats for. Why must you settle down in 3 months? Why not take your time: make sure you're choosing the right girl and that you're financially + emotionally ready for marriage? If you have to be asking faceless people on a forum to help you choose, then you ain't ready!

Princeparix: if X is 2 and Y is 4 + 1, what is the future probability of being hapi- wia M is constant? ( M = Op)

loool! nairalanders ...sm of y'all a great comic reliefs

@OP ..lemme gues, ur dating both of them at the same tym ryt? Im sure these innocent ladies are not even aware of this. I hope dey dont end up marrying u