chokl8candie:
will try but getting her out of the house will b another issue . Tried conviencing her to agree goin on a blind date wiv a single frnd of mine ...she looked at me as if i ws high or smth. But i'll try engagin her in other out door activities b4 she evn thinks of suicide

Omolola1: 1. I gave myself some time - knowing that I have been thinking about him non-stop before the heartbreak, I decided that was the time to take a step back, look at my life and move on to the next challenge. I took a weekend off to do what I love doing, watch movies! I surrounded myself with those that made me happy, friends and family, in order to get distracted.

2. I let myself grieve - it's normal to feel sad and depressed, I didn't hold back the tears, coz I believe going through grief is just another step along the path of recovery.

3. I removed all his memories from my everyday life - Pictures, journals. Though, it wasn't easy, but I made an effort to even if it was a temporary removal, coz I never burned any of his pictures

4. I disconnected him from all the social networks I use. Unfriend on facebook, unfollow on twitter etc.

5. Daily exercise and ate so much

6. I remained optimistic, reminding myself of everything I have and how lucky I am each time I remembered d past.

190-the-clown:


if thats the case return all MY MONEY ive spent on you

I nor do again

Is it by force to MARRY -
na by force

Omolola1: 1. I gave myself some time - knowing that I have been thinking about him non-stop before the heartbreak, I decided that was the time to take a step back, look at my life and move on to the next challenge. I took a weekend off to do what I love doing, watch movies! I surrounded myself with those that made me happy, friends and family, in order to get distracted.

2. I let myself grieve - it's normal to feel sad and depressed, I didn't hold back the tears, coz I believe going through grief is just another step along the path of recovery.

3. I removed all his memories from my everyday life - Pictures, journals. Though, it wasn't easy, but I made an effort to even if it was a temporary removal, coz I never burned any of his pictures

4. I disconnected him from all the social networks I use. Unfriend on facebook, unfollow on twitter etc.

5. Daily exercise and ate so much

6. I remained optimistic, reminding myself of everything I have and how lucky I am each time I remembered d past.

tellwisdom: Everytime na heartbreak. Neck, leg, hand no dey break too??

I want to hear a relationship where a head was broken

190-the-clown:


relationship to me IS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY you Hear ALL ABOUT THE MONEY

dont give me High BP this morning abeg!! i cant shout

Popowaa: smh,paranoia.Imagine this ,a guy once told me if the gf doesnt ask him for money then meaning the girl is cheating and so what do u expect the girl to do?Blame urselves.

mz mariah: what if he never spent a dine on her? I ve once dated a guy who never spent 20 naira on me.infact, I never knew the colour of his 5 naira note or if he uses the same money I use cos he never spent kobo on me. Since the guy knows he has a fiance why did he lead her on? Its really unfair

hmmm na wa oh maybe you be the kind of woman wen i dey find all these years

chokl8candie: I had been trying to get in touch wiv a frnd and she never picked my calls. I didnt understand dis cuz we werent fighting or anyfn of the sort so i called up a couple of mutual frnds n dey all said dey hdnt hrd from her. i drove over to her end to find out what was going on. Her mom came to open up and asked me to go directly to her room. Lying on the bed ws Stephy and she was clearly a shadow of herself. she had lost weight and she looked worn out, tired, depressed. It ws obvious she had bn crying. Asked her what was goin on with her and why she had bn in solitude ignoring everyone. It took me forever to get her to open up but she finally did.

She told me that the her bF for the past 14 months called her n confesed that he's bn engaged for almost a year and would be getting married in a few weeks so he was sorry for wasting her time and hopes she can move on. (until she told me dis i thot it only happened in nollywood movies).

I felt reali bad for her cuz i know how completely in love she was with him and the sacrifices she had made for the guy. She swore she was never going to trust any guy again. Tried my best to cheer her up but since I've never bin heartbroken as badly as dis i didnt know how to change her mind. I just asked her to leave it all to God.

Why are some men so cruel? Leading a girl on for all these months when u've clearly got intentions of breaking her heart.I just feel sorry for the lady he would be marrying.

Please share ur heartbreak experiences and how u over came them or healed from them.

And if u've got any advice i could pass on to my girlfrnd that could help her heal i'd be grateful if u cud share

chokl8candie:
was hoping that she having a rebound bF now would help her forget the dude

190:

hmmm na wa oh maybe you be the kind of woman wen i dey find all these years

mz mariah: you no serious oo

190: