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Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 5:45pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I have finally decided to pour out my heart because it is so heavy for me to carry. I am a bachelor in my late twenties. I am very hardworking, a principled man, honest, a man of integrity and above all I'm a christian to the core. Physically I'll say I am very handsome, 6ft 3in in height and well built. You might wonder why I'm taking time to describe myself. Despite all these features and attributes I have not been able to sustain a relationship, maybe I have been meeting the wrong sets of girls all my life. In all my relationships, I have always been the victim of heartbreaks. Don't get me wrong, I do not know what girls these days look for. Things have changed I must say, major of our ladies do not really care for men with my qualities. Oh how wrong have I been. I see that girls prefer a guy that is not straightforward, will always cheat and lie to them etc. The sad thing is that all the girls i have dated at some point always come back to plead and tell me how sorry they are and will want us to get back together again, I don't know what they have seen in other guys that made them realize they had a 'good man'.I would say I am not a weak guy but a guy who does what is right and cares for people's emotions. I want to stick to what the Bible says, I have made few mistakes in the past because I compromised and made the girls in question to be happy, Oh how wrong I was . Since then I have decided not to compromise again, if I cannot find a girl who is a christian to the core, who cares for people's feelings, then I choose to be on my own. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 5:45pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I want to marry a girl who knows what marriage is all about, a woman who loves God and wants to abide by what the Bible says even if she is the only one left out, a woman who loves people and feel others pains, because a woman who does not like others will never like you, a woman who can inspire me for greater heights. A woman who has not had too much pre marital sex; a virgin preferable because I want to enjoy sex in marriage after abstaining for a long time. To add to that ladies that have much pre-marital sex find it tiring in marriage because they have had enough and probably might have fulfilled her fantasies . Haha... Again, some ladies think if they marry a rich guy that is it, oh how wrong you are my dear, if you cannot help him sustain his wealth, another lady outside will, so sit up and learn how to work in a team. My success today cannot be attributed to having a lady in my life who encouraged me except my mum who I cherish so much, some left me when I needed them the most. The last one woke up one day and stopped calling me even though we spoke the previous day; and that was it, she never answered my calls or even told me what the problem was. Guess what? As usual, she is back! Hehe.. Funny enough, girls seems to appreciate me now, claiming how much they love me and how much of a 'perfect' husband i'll be. I have come a long way, and it will take a smart, intelligent, homely and hardworking girl to have me. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Youngzedd(m): 5:55pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Onye! tell them more. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by demelza: 6:06pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
We know where this is going. Just drop your number. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 6:10pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
demelza: We know where this is going.Wrong bro., that's not the essence of the thread. Thank you ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by bravolyk(m): 6:16pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
so what kind of reply are u looking forward to get from this ur write up? 1 Like |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by chineloSA(f): 6:18pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Ok, congratulations on your awesomeness. Pheeeewwwww. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 6:33pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
chineloSA: ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 6:33pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
bravolyk: so what kind of reply are u looking forward to get from this ur write up?I'm just saying what's on my mind |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by mcnepow(m): 6:36pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
bravolyk: so what kind of reply are u looking forward to get from this ur write up?He actualy looking for a reply? Luks like he jes wrote this to get it off his chest #MyView @Poster, I understand d part wia they keep coming back. . . . The grass on the other side is only green when u water it #Fud4Tot |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 6:44pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Look for a girl who loves kids, a girl who is good around kids that aren't hers and small animals like puppies. If she loves plants and has a fondness for taking care them, fine as well. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Slowpois0n: 6:50pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
OP. i feel u bro. from your write up you have a good heart but the system is just too corrupt to get what your heart desired. just put it at the back of your mind that there is no perfect being out there. 1 Like |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Caracta(f): 6:55pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
![]() ![]() ![]() You'll find her...very soon. And when you do, be tthe good man you are. Nothing good comes easy. Don't be blinded by looks. Seek to "know" her first. Appreciate friendship. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Caracta:stop beinq sadt *givesahug* |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Bootylicious(f): 7:22pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Buhhahahha and if d lady isn't gud around kids does dat make her a bad choice, now I see why my boo fyts me, I don't do well Ard kids, pets I love doe... sexkillz: Look for a girl who loves kids, a girl who is good around kids that aren't hers and small animals like puppies. If she loves plants and has a fondness for taking care them, fine as well. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Bootylicious: Buhhahahha and if d lady isn't gud around kids does dat make her a bad choice, now I see why my boo fyts me, I don't do well Ard kids, pets I love doe...That doesn't make her a bad choice really. People are different, but the truth is that if a lady shows such level of care to kids who aren't hers, animals and plants some deem inconsequential, you can only imagine how caring she'll be to her man. If kids irritate you, chances are that you get irritated at the slightest provocation. 1 Like |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Caracta(f): 7:29pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
cerebral assain: stop beinq sadt *givesahug* ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by faboloustic(m): 7:45pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
sexkillz: That doesn't make her a bad choice really. People are different, but the truth is that if a lady shows such level of care to kids who aren't hers, animals and plants some deem inconsequential, you can only imagine how caring she'll be to her man. If kids irritate you, chances are that you get irritated at the slightest provocation.very well said. Some girls do not care at all whether kids, other people or even animals. Like I said, a girl who cares about other people, feels sad when she hears bad news about the misfortune of others is best bro. Because such a lady will not break your heart with careless abandon. She will be sad. Even if the relationship has to end, it won't be a 'fatal' break up |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:50pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() The sad things is that majority of our ladies are confused they don't really know what they want. Only very few actually do. This I have come to realizes quite early. Like you already know, the mind of the female specie is not ruled by logic or common sense but by feelings and emotions, by words and subtle actions. This means all those your qualities you listed is not a guarantee that they will like you or choose to stick with you, I know this is a hard truth to swallow. On a side note, I think you might have to tone down on the "I am principled part" and add "Chief Romance Officer" to your growing list of qualifications. Moreover, lets look at the cup half full. This experience is happening to you for a reason. So that when you meet Ms Right you will treasure her with all your heart. Knowing what you went through to find her. As per finding her, I assure you, you will. Just keep been YOU, the right woman is on the way. #Matthew Briggs 4 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Awwwww feeling your pain from here. You will find her soon.just keep searching. Itz normal to go through some few rough patches before you find the ONE. Please don't give up on women |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Vivly(f): 8:13pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
Op don't give up yet.. They've forgotten that men are now scarce. Just wait. They'll soon come running. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by DExplorer1: 8:14pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
I need Sagamite on this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by UjSizzle(f): 8:17pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
OP have you met HumbledbYGrace and Caracta? The latter is already in love, but the former loves God sooooooo much. If you're interested in her visit the christian chatbox in religion section. So many christian sisters who'll love you over there....just pick one ![]() P.S. Hope you find the woman of your dreams ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by chineloSA(f): 8:23pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
[quote author=Vivly]Op don't give up yet.. They've forgotten that men are now scarce. Just wait. They'll soon come running.[/quote] lol:-D |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by lottoe(m): 8:27pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
@OP I understand your views, you might be suprised that there is only 50 vituous ladies in the whole of Nigeria. So,the only way to get a vituous lady in this corrupt world is tru PRAYERS,ask God the type of lady you want and God will make you cross path with her . My advise is that you should not GIVE UP, untill you find the lady of your choice, it is better to remain unmarried or single, than to marry a HOE. Just my 2cent. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by ChiSun27(m): 8:30pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: OP have you met HumbledbYGrace and Caracta? as if you are not among the 8000 women screaming for a hubby. |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:35pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: OP have you met HumbledbYGrace and Caracta? Ujsizzle did you just mention C-A-R-A-C-T-A ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by UjSizzle(f): 8:37pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
ChiSun27:Thank heavens I haven't screamed for you ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
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Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
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Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Caracta(f): 9:13pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
uj_sizzle: OP have you met HumbledbYGrace and Caracta? Huh? Babe, which levels na? Are you married? ![]() |
Re: Girls, I Rest My Case!! by Caracta(f): 9:15pm On Oct 02, 2013 |
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