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Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 1:45am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: blackmailing who exactly? Pls show me because i really cant see anyone that the guys would be really trying to blackmail into a marriage. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NubianQ(f): 1:47am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: i know but really what really is there to do. if a man is not forthcoming then live ur life or is kidnap going to an option?: |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 1:48am On Jun 30, 2008 |
NubianQ: come off it NubianQ . . . Marzipan probably said the same thing so many yrs ago and now at 35 she's crying for a husband. Marriage is important dear, that you havent found a man who's willing to commit himself to marry you just yet isnt enough reason to pretend not to care about marriage. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 1:49am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: Denial is blocking your view When a girl rejects you and the first thing out of your mouth is "That's why you will never find a husband" "No one will marry you" "You are getting old, who are you to be rejecting anyone" That's blackmail. Esp to the insecure ne cos then they woill take such useless words to heart and consider people below their standards out of desperation. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 1:51am On Jun 30, 2008 |
David, you are quite single yourself. I dont know why you get bothered by those esp females who are fine with being single. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 1:55am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: Where's kobojunkie just when i need LMAO? TOH: I dont think the average adult male (note i said) adult should be too bothered about a woman rejecting them. Up until you get married its advisable to always have back-up plans just in case plan A does not pan out. I dont understand why a man would want to blackmail a woman to marrying him. It doesnt make sense . . . why not chill and marry someone who is wholly committed to making a life with you? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 1:56am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: Dont always assume TOH: Because deep down i know they are just lying to make themselves happy. Only very rarely do you find females who truly enjoy being single. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Sisikill: 1:59am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! Please, don't argue with the men. We now know what their problem is. . . not that we didn't but it's been officially confirmed. The next step is helping them work through their insecurities. Instead of getting on their cases, let's reassure them that when we go on a spending spree with our money, we will include them. Tell them the next time you go to the BMW Dealership, you'll get them their very own Beemer too, in fact you will do His & Hers Beemer. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:00am On Jun 30, 2008 |
My assumptions are always right. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:01am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: I give it to you! |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 2:01am On Jun 30, 2008 |
@sisikill how can we help them when they don't want to acknowledge it?? and plus to help them they gotta except the fact that they are among a new generation of women. that they can't see us as their inferior but their equal and right hand. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:02am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: If you are coming from a disastrous relationship, the last thing on your mind is a new relationship. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:03am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Sisikill: Im a miser so I think at the dealership, I'll just give him a pacifier so he can shut the hell up |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by lonelypal(m): 2:04am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: Ur right bro, lol i doubt if there is any sane woman that would say she enjoys being single, it aint normal |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:04am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: cut the crap! Are you the only females alive? See me see cute chics passing by everyday and you think anyone is particularly concerned what you think? TOH: True. However to pretend to be "happily single", not "bothered about marriage" and the rest is all a bold faced lie. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by eldee(m): 2:08am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2:Apparently, that's the part of the gist we always see onyinye New generation this, equal rights that Since 90% of the other women don't agree wiv you, no one really cares anymore davidylan:Happily Single? It's a myth jare |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:09am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: Would you perfer to hear "desperately waiting to get married"? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 2:11am On Jun 30, 2008 |
why do i even bother with you men some times. face the fact that women are equal and that is the end of the story. who wants a puppy to follow them every where?? no one. you rather have someone you can stand by your side. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:11am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: Let them continue burying their heads in the sands of denial.
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Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:12am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Looks like the head of a MAN to me |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:14am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: Certainly not. But you kill whatever interest may have come your way with the overly aggressive effort to propagate a false idea of being secure in your single status. those who are truly happy being single dont need to announce it. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:15am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: the man represents everyone |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:15am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Not Me. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 2:17am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: im going to remember this for later |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by eldee(m): 2:18am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2:The average nigeriand bloke wants the chick that'll stand by his side, but still knows who makes the final decision . . . c'est finis davidylan:It always becomes apparent when you see the people wiv dates at the dinners |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:18am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: True but let's play a game How would you perfer a female to reply to something like "Arent you afraid of ending up an unwanted old maid" or something like that and dont justt give me "No" either |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 2:20am On Jun 30, 2008 |
lmao |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:20am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: even if the decision is stupid, abi? I take it alot of you were raised in households where mom and dad didnt discuss serious decisions together and come to a compromise. or maybe that's just normal families. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:21am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: If i were a female, i'd be very confident that no matter what i'd definitely find the person i am destined to be with. I like to mix optimism with a good dose of reality - as a female i'd probably say "doesnt matter how old but what matters most is who i end up with and i'm going to take my time to make sure waiting for him was worth it in the end". the problem is most females who end up marrying very late brought it upon themselves, every woman has a shelf life. Playing hard to get is about the most silly game a woman can ever play especially when she's clearly beyond the age when she can hide under the banner of "i'm too young". |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 2:23am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: In other words they should accept anyone, even if SHE doesnt believe the dude is her match? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 2:25am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: well i grew up in a household where my father treated my mom as his equal. sometimes he made the final decision and sometimes my mom did. and it worked out great for them. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 2:26am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: no. But more often than not women tend to assume that if a guy is serious and is meant to be theirs he will stay at the door knocking forever even when she pretends to make a conscious effort not to be interested. Women have to realise that times have changed, nobody has time to wait any longer. |
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