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Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:15am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns:In another word, what's love gotta do with it? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:16am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: Something is sincrely wrong with a relationship where you have to start threatening marriage, I think. I see what you are saying but at the same time it's you same guys that will say "women are forcing guys to get married to them" |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:17am On Jun 30, 2008 |
True talk, culture is the biggest factor. We are minted in certain ways and for most part the mints are easily corroded when exposed to elements that are culturally foreign and extremely opposite to our roots. Two jeopardies! |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by eldee(m): 3:18am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH:Exactly . . . put it into consideration, but the fact still remains you're the one to choose the final result TOH:You know what, go to bed first Then wake up tomorrow, and read this thing you posted here See how it sounds to you then C'mon, every woman should act like their mom? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:19am On Jun 30, 2008 |
no thats not love. He doesnt love himself and she doesnt love him either. Love has nothhing to do with thaqt. Self love first, only then can you know how to love another. If you dont know who you are u cannot know who another is much less have the kindness and compassion to be affectionate and romantic towards them. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:20am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns:hmmm, am speechless! I'll have to give u a high 5 for this |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:21am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: your grandma na wa o I dont resent the "play hard to get" type, the problem is mine actually . . . too little patience. However i believe that a woman gets to a point where as an adult she should be able to sniff out those guys who are in it because they are serious and those who just want to play around. To give a guy who is really serious the run around for no just cause is very unfair. Many guys know that every woman has more than one man interested in her, as long as she continues foot dragging they take it to mean she's probably stalling for someone else her mind is truly on and just stringing along the other guy as plan B. no one likes to be plan B. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 3:24am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: God gave you one mom oka. dont expect your wife to become your second. if you want to be catered to, and pampered go to your mother and have you spoon feed you while she is at it. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:25am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: madam i say wake up and fast. If you dont know that's part of your duties as a wife then God help you. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:27am On Jun 30, 2008 |
relationships should not be a duty TOH. It is people that understand self sacrifice and are tactful and diplomatic that can hold on to marriage. It is easyto fall in love, the problem is STAYING WITH LOVE. The guilt of fallouts is on both sides. Im a firm believer in wise choices. If you have been hurt leaping over a gap before, then you need to look before you leap next time. If a 25yr old was in a relatinship for two years and was dumped, i am not sure she should go another two or three years with another man not knowing what the outcome of that could be, so yes, she need to place her legs firmly on the ground and say it like it is, this p-ssy is not free! |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:29am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: You are in severe denial so Im not even responding to you anymore. If you wanna deny alot of men subconsciously would actually like to MARRY their mothers in fact then perhaps you should read an actual book sometime. It's quite evident everywhere you go. But since you rather just argue with me, whatever Glad you didnt disagree with the "overly spoiled and sexist" part however |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:31am On Jun 30, 2008 |
mes, hold on you give me a high 5 I cant believe my eyez. Well, thank you Your head is clearing up, thats good news ahn,ahn, watch your response coming back |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 3:32am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: my duties as a wife is to love my husband. all of him. yes i will care for him but im not going to treat him like a mother would. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:34am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH, keep text books out of matrimony. The authors are themselves models of failure in their homes. Do you not know that? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by eldee(m): 3:36am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH:I'll still not attempt to argue till you sleep and wake up And I'm actually sure you weren't typing in your sleep onyinye2:And what do mothers do to their male and female kids? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:37am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: when you get married come and sing the same tune. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:38am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns:so you know your comment deserved one of my responses? hisssss. My head is clearing up or you're actually beginning to fly in the same direction as my wind?? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:39am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Yea my gran's, lol lets just say Jehovah Witness, what can I say davidylan: I agree with you. BUT you act like all "older women" are mature. Not the case. I assume you've heard of 28 yr old and older falling for playboys that even 21 yr olds would know not to take seriously. Being old doesnt make one wise Even some playboys sef are getting good at pretending to be "serious". Let's just say it's a good thing I take my Ekiti roots seriously. Give me a name and I can give you the person's's and his family history and sins within 3 days. Shio The importance of Iwadiiiiiiiiiiii ooooo. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 3:41am On Jun 30, 2008 |
@ eldee a love from a mother is different from the love from a wife. @david i hope your wife is very submissive. you couldnt dare handle a woman who lives in the era of I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by debosky(m): 3:42am On Jun 30, 2008 |
@ TOH can you get me info on the family of Birnin Magaji? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:42am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro, do you have to be so vulgar? Defining women by their genitals Why? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:45am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: Lmao!!!!!!! Always knew you were a policewoman. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by eldee(m): 3:46am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2:Exactly . . .meaning your last statement was pointless init? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:46am On Jun 30, 2008 |
debosky: Lmao. No. Oniranu. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:47am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: I hereby submit two names: a. Debosky b. 4 Play |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:47am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee:actually it was not! she knew what she was saying, just not clearly |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by onyinye2(f): 3:48am On Jun 30, 2008 |
eldee: no because yal want a wife to treat you like your mother did. how when she doesnt love you in that way. a mom treats you in that way because she loves you like that. so how can you expect your wife to do the same?? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by NegroNtns(m): 3:48am On Jun 30, 2008 |
I talk frank, very frank when im passionate about a topic. I hope it doesnt offend. My tongue is clean but my finger, mmm, i dont know, |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:49am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: funny and widely untrue assessment. The problem is your own definition of "independent". Is it a woman who has her own oppinions or just one that is a stubborn mule? |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:50am On Jun 30, 2008 |
davidylan: Debo is most likely clean. Give me 4Play's real name stillwater: That is me o. I have no intention on being with someone who has sins of their father on their heads or one who has sins that can be transferred to my children. Nope. |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Nobody: 3:52am On Jun 30, 2008 |
TOH: How can Debo be clean? Dig harder. 4Play i think is Emeka, as a policewoman you shld know. I need facts! |
Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by TOH(f): 3:52am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye. Stop. Oprah isnt always right. It's good to be rich though. lol |
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