sparko1: Talking about normal, what exactly is 'normal'? And being ashamed of doing something doesn't made bad. I for example am ashame to ask for help from a stranger, but it doesn't asking for help is bad.

I can't explain any further. Its just not normal.

And uhm, you're not ashamed to ask a stranger's help unless its about something completely silly. Maybe shy but not ashamed. Being ashamed of who you claim be is not normal as well.

Nomski0:
I like to think it is. Its too abnormal and sick to be chosen as a sëxual orientation when you have a sane mind

Sentiments also shared by me.

Wu Zetian: I was going to ignore the thread. Thought the op just copied and pasted some random article but his replies show that he is not one of the many ignoramuses on this site.

*Def following* Lemme read the long a*ss post first.

Keep quiet woman! You've arrived with your pro gay views, & anyone who doesn't share similar views, is automatically branded ignorant by you.

Who brainwashed you to this level, or are you a lesbian yourself? I've asked you before, to give reasons why homosexuality is normal, but all you give are flimsy reasons that do not hold water.

I have to ask, are you gay? Or you one of the brainwashed people out there with herd mentality? Or are you being pro gay just to look trendy? Lots of people jumping on the gay bandwagon.

It's got to be one of these!!

^^Just go back to that thread where I whooped your a*ss.

I just want to laugh today abeg

Wu Zetian: ^^Just go back to that thread where I whooped your a*ss.

I just want to laugh today abeg

Lol how delusional! Where did you whoop my a*ss, in your dreams? Because in that thread, I remember you getting spanked, not just by me, but many other people.

Why not pull the thread & paste here, let people decide who's as*s got whooped.

Yeah! I want you to laugh too, but I wouldn't mind giving you a lesson or two

https://www.nairaland.com/1442082/nigerian-uses-magnets-prove-homosexuality/3

Pgs 3-7. I do not have your time Ifeanyi!

Wu Zetian: https://www.nairaland.com/1442082/nigerian-uses-magnets-prove-homosexuality/3

Pgs 3-7. I do not have your time Ifeanyi!

Lol finally you paste the link to where you got spanked!!

Sola! you can't can't duck me forever on this topic, sooner or later you would have to stand & defend your views reasonably, you didn't do that on the above thread.

Or better still, you can stop going about expressing pro-gay views, because as soon as I see it, I'd jump on it.

^^Dude I leave it for the reasonable ones to decipher who got spanked.

I'm not here to feed your fantasies about winning me in an argument cos we both know that can never happen.

Odedoyin25: i dey tell U, me and my niggers like puccy like food, i nor know where dis guys dey take exist.

Animal.wether im gay or straight im sure of 1 tin u both r animal,cos no man in his right man wud say wt u jst did,tnk ur god u did nt cling to any religious notion.i wud av curse tat religion sily.

Wu Zetian: ^^Dude I leave it for the reasonable ones to decipher who got spanked.

I'm not here to feed your fantasies about winning me in an argument cos we both know that can never happen.

Hahahaha! Talk is cheap! The issue is can you walk the walk.

Shollypopz, since I don't believe in empty boasts/claims, I'd challenge you to pick any topic on this planet or the universe you can think of, bring it to me lets debate ( not that I gain anything in debating with lesser minds, but I just like reminding them of their weaknesses )

If you win, (majority agree you win) I'd leave NL for good. Il be waiting!

As for the " reasonable ones " it's subjective, a reasonable person to you, might be a fo*lish person to me, so how about we leave it to popular opinion.

Must a debate turn into a fight?
Can't it just be about sharing opinions and arguments in a friendly way?

What puzzles me the most about this "gays being normal / abnormal debate" is the fact that people get so overly emotional.

Anyway, I would like to ask this question again and hope someone will answer ...

Have you at any time chosen to be heterosexual?

Wu Zetian: https://www.nairaland.com/1442082/nigerian-uses-magnets-prove-homosexuality/3

Pgs 3-7. I do not have your time Ifeanyi!

You actually graced that thread. My respect four you as a rational person dropped a notch.

carefreewannabe: Is being heterosexual genetic or by choice? Ask yourselves.

It is genetic but the expression of it involves choice. The same applies to gays and bisexuals.

Uyi Iredia:

You actually graced that thread. My respect four you as a rational person dropped a notch.

What exactly are you going on about??

My 2 cents.

I am gay, and I don't remember ever making a choice about it.

What I do remember however, is having feelings for a guy that also turned out to be gay. Hehe.

Talk about collecting like terms. Lol.

masonkz: I am gay, and I don't remember ever making a choice about it.

What I do remember however, is having feelings for a guy that also turned out to be gay. Hehe.

Talk about collecting like terms. Lol.


Meanwhile, nice job @OP

You're kidding right? U are gay as in GAY?

babe_online:

My 2 cents.

funny I have the hetero hand but im gay

I was never molested, I dint go to a boarding school and no one taught me how to be gay.
I grew up admiring the same sex, as a child I crushed on girls.
its not a phase, its who I am.
and I love me and zandie

sunny t: How wud it be genetical, If ur dad was gay wud he have given birth to you?

U're Lame n Blinded by Astounding Stupidity

hornipipe: A very close childhood friend of mine told me he turned gay after his dad sent him to a boys college, where majority of the students in the school were gay.
He was sexually attracted to girls in primary school(I can attest to that) but after spending three years in a boys college he lost all affection he had for girls.
When he went home after junior waec his dad saw the type of people who always came visiting during the jss break, he realized his son had turned gay and was left with no other option than to transfer him to a mixed school.
He was sent to my school but it was too little too late, till this very moment he believes he was born straight but gets irritated now even when girls sit close to him in a gathering, the gay boys I know all had an encounter at one point while they were still very young and naive with people who changed their sexual orientation
I've read/watched a lot of research and bla bla on the topic, THIS IS MY OPINION AND IT IS SOLELY MINE.

And Ur Opinion Is Lame..
Som Straight Dudes just need 1 experience For d in-built Sexuality To start Manifesting n become Bisexual...

I av always known I wasn't like Other boys Since i was 3..
I av been attracted to guyz Since i was 3 n i kept denying it till i turned 15..

Refusing to Believe The Truth

At The Onset Of Puberty I was Pure Homosexual...But Until 2 years ago I found out I was now attracted to girlz too..

N Up till now i Still can't help it..
I am Attracted to both sides

So who made the damn Choice..

I believe everything about us even our sexuality is Imprinted in Our Genetic Makeup...

U don't av to make any Choice..

I don't Know what to make of Threads like this nowadays.

@OP,I could write you a long epistle to reply this thread,but I can tell you 70% of gay people didn't choose to be gay or let's put it more like this.
Let's use this format of how people are gay:

[b]
1.)There are those born with full homosexual
desires.they discover at a very tender age,though
they may have no idea what it means until later in
life.these types have mostly never known
heterosexual feelings and have always responded
to
same-sex attractions.


2.)There are those who find out after years of
already being straight,they've always liked the
opposite sex,later on they discover their desires
moving towards the same-sex,they respond so
well
to this new attraction and find themselves
incapable
of going back to the opposite sex.


3.)There are those even while having feelings for
the
opposite sex,when faced with homosexual
advances,they discover they can't withdraw or
find
any urge to withdraw.


4.)There are those who are bisexual,they are
capable of responding to attractions from both
sex.


5.)Some have to be abused s.exually.after this
intimate torture,they slowly get hooked in
homosexuality and end up enjoying it.


6,)There's any category,these ones are very
straight,they tend to enjoy homosexual
intimacy.they hardly and rarely feel any emotional
feelings to the same-sex like the opposite.

There's a line I'd like to draw.Almost all human being as homosexual tendecies,the level to which they can act on it differs in every human which I listed up there.

By reinforcing how people become we can say some automatically find themselves in a one way traffic with homosexuality-meaning they find themselves unable to control or withdraw their homosexual desires.

Another set of people would only after a while be disposed to it and find the same-sex attractive.

In all,It's not a choice to be gay.Accepting that you're gay is the Choice you make.

ammyluv2002: You're kidding right? U are gay as in GAY?

Yes I am. Got. A problem with it?

Nigellus_Hosan:

And Ur Opinion Is Lame..
Som Straight Dudes just need 1 experience For d in-built Sexuality To start Manifesting n become Bisexual...

I av always known I wasn't like Other boys Since i was 3..
I av been attracted to guyz Since i was 3 n i kept denying it till i turned 15..

Refusing to Believe The Truth

At The Onset Of Puberty I was Pure Homosexual...But Until 2 years ago I found out I was now attracted to girlz too..

N Up till now i Still can't help it..
I am Attracted to both sides

So who made the damn Choice..

I believe everything about us even our sexuality is Imprinted in Our Genetic Makeup...

U don't av to make any Choice..

Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

koastar:
Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

With all due respect bro, this is bullshit.

koastar:
Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

I watch heterosexual porn alot. I dont enjoy lez porn, I havent seen up to 5 lez porn in mylife so why am I not straight?
you dint change any girl, maybe you threatened them or they are pretending to be straight so u let them be.
I know boys like u, u are probably a cultist.

masonkz:


Yes I am. Got. A problem with it?

Yes, I do

koastar:
Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

you keep using this boarding school and prison as reference, i know of many who went to boarding school and they are not gay, and prison! seriously! Mandela spent 27 years or so in prison but his sexual orientation didn't change please think logically.

you said you helped a lady out with therapy hmm! and you think she is cured because she agreed or told you she is now heterosexual.
you do not think she only said or agreed to that because maybe she was ashamed or maybe you make her feel guilty of being a lesbian.

koastar:
Dude, homo or bisexual is not genetic but by choice. You must have been watching a lot of homo Indecency which caused a hormone rush in you and got your mind wrapped up in it. At one point, you thought of practicing it to see how it feels and I'm sure that's how it started.
*Note: your mind is made up of what you watch and hear and your actions are from the abundance of your mind.

Another possibility, is the experience gotten in boarding schools, in prison or communities where you get to see and interact with same-sex fellow only, and the urge to be intimate resulted to the homosexual orientation. Environment matters a lot!

I know of lesbians who I have helped out of such orientation, and I can proudly say they are now fully heterosexual- the secret is a form of therapy. This is why I always disagree with people like the Op when they say the orientation is genetic and not a choice because if it is, the girls I'v helped out of homo wouldn't change.

This is not only bullshit but total crap!
Ur hate for homosexuals has beclouded ur judgement and sense of reasoning. Because a girl chickened at the thought of mockery, prejudice and stigma, u come out with this environmental hoopla. Im homosexual, not because i want to, heck i have 5 siblings for pete's sake, dont u think kids want to grow up the same way as their peers? Why would i want to be different at just age 6? What does anybody know at age 6 for crying out loud? I grew up side by side with all my siblings, never went to any boarding school, did everything to be like my 4 sisters, watched straight pornn, but all my efforts were futile.
When my mother was pregnant with her second child for want of a male child for the royal family, she went for scan at 4 different prestigious hospitals but guess what? all results, on different occasions showed i was MALE! It was the first time i was hearing that kind of medical misinterpretation or was it mistake? Even my parents were surprised to have a girl upon delivery, but what can i do? It wasnt my fault, doctors machines wasnt in good condition, ryt? I was surfing the net one day when i came across a biological term called masculinization of female babies, exactly the opposite of feminization of male babies(low libido). I dont understand why feminization of male babies would be attributed to low libido and why the reverse wasnt the case for "high" libido...

My point... In your effort to prove ur erudite scholarship, u made urself look very, totally, completely, blithering and utterly foolishh.
Therefore, it is foolhardy for any heterosexual and homosexual to think that change is possible (and attainable at the snap of a finger). Excuse me?

All the homosexuals that quoted me, why are you so bitter and uncultured? You guys can't make your point without a pinch of insult huh! I'v had more than this from my homo (now straight) friends whom I changed when they were still lost and delusional in their thinking. The first phase of change is for you all to accept you are wrong and seek for repentance and change. This is important before being straight can be achieved because the change can only start from you