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Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 7:45pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deols:I understand it is a matter of choice and a tough moment for many muslim women. But you cant stop what Allah as destined. There is wisdom behind everything, as for me I don't "think" I can marry two wives cuz me I no want women palava 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 7:52pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: Brotha, shebi this ones are muslim sisters by birth if I tell you about by mum ehn, you will give her salutation. I grew up in a polygamous homeAmeeeen thumma Ameeen!!! Interesting and touching. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 8:11pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: I understand it is a matter of choice and a tough moment for many muslim women. But you cant stop what Allah as destined.''women palava'' hahahaha.lol. May Allah make it easy for us. Ameeen!!! |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 8:21pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
khattab02: Ameeeen thumma Ameeen!!! Interesting and touching. ''women palava'' hahahaha.lol. May Allah make it easy for us. Ameeen!!!Ameen oo! Lol |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Fulaman198(m): 8:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: Brotha, shebi this ones are muslim sisters by birth if I tell you about by mum ehn, you will give her salutation. I grew up in a polygamous home No 2 people are the same Alhamdullah |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: And this is coming from a muslim sister.All these icons for you too. We are allowed to ask for what we want abi? |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deols: My dear sister, i can't and don't even want to imagine it. Will i still love him as much? Can i bear sharing? Can the lady abide by my rules? (yes, my rules, because it's my territory). May Allah just help us anyway. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 9:25pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291:Ameeen!.hahahaha..lol. My rules and my territory.lol. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 9:25pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291: All these icons for you too. We are allowed to ask for what we want abi?siddon there, when your man look at other women finish then bring one home then you will know that this is reality not disney land |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 9:28pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: siddon there, when your man look at other women finish then bring one home then you will know that this is reality not disney landHahahaa..lol. These poeple eh! |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 9:30pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291:siddon there again you think say he will bring the second wife inside the same house with you? He will just rent one flat for her at lekki or ikoyi GRA |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 9:34pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
khattab02: Hahahaa..lol. These poeple eh!she think say na lala land we dey |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 9:40pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: she think say na lala land we deyHaahahaha. U funny eh. Take it easy with her. Na weytin she tink and want but she has to seriously work hard. It not that easy. You know they say 'easier said than done'. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by deols(f): 9:42pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
What woman allows herself to be the 'hidden' wife. Inferiority too much! Over rukemie and I and Sissie's dead body |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 9:56pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
khattab02: Haahahaha. U funny eh. Take it easy with her. Na weytin she tink and want but she has to seriously work hard. It not that easy. You know they say 'easier said than done'.not easy o my brother |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 9:57pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deols: What woman allows herself to be the 'hidden' wife.Boya lomo! sha don't dull yourself |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Sissie(f): 9:58pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Divorce is an option. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Deols. Don't mind those guys. They don't know it's because we love them that we are jealous and can't share. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 10:08pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291: Deols. Don't mind those guys. They don't know it's because we love them that we are jealous and can't share.Just be a good wife |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Sissie(f): 10:08pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291: Deols. Don't mind those guys. They don't know it's because we love them that we are jealous and can't share. LOL, making it seem like you don't have a choice, and if he marries another one, the wife don't have a choice but to accept it LOL. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tintingz(m): 10:11pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Sissie: Divorce is an option.Exactly...not like most women that will poison or jazz their husband |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 10:26pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Rukemi291: Deols. Don't mind those guys. They don't know it's because we love them that we are jealous and can't share.Hmmmmmmm...interesting! |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by khattab02: 10:29pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tintingz: Exactly...not like most women that will poison or jazz their husbandhahaha..lol u funny eh! But true. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
khattab02: Hmmmmmmm...interesting!. Sissie, i just pray it doesn't happen. Tintingz. Will try to be. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by kayword(m): 11:18pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Sissie: Divorce is an option. Just wondering, can you really take it to that level if your man decides to marry a 2nd wife? |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tpia5: 11:42pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deols: i just do not see how your stand against polygamy does not contradict most of your teachings here. You are sending mixed messages. on what basis exactly are you against it? your personal preference or a religious one? do you think a man who shares your level of commitment to your deen, would not also include polygamy as a requirement of his own deen? 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Fulaman198(m): 11:52pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
tpia@: Not every man wants to marry more than one woman 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by tpia5: 11:54pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
i think you meant to quote someone else. |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Logicbwoy: 3:55am On Nov 04, 2013 |
Why not marry an atheist, Deols? That way, you will be sure that your husband wont marry a second wife lol....even some few sects of christianity advocate polygamy! On a serious note, this thread is making me laugh......the "hot" men are afraid of challenge...they feel that some sisters will not bow down to their lust for multiple women... |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Fulaman198(m): 4:03am On Nov 04, 2013 |
Logicbwoy: Why not marry an atheist, Deols? Lusting is wrong in Islam, I for one as a Muslim man will not marry more than 1 woman. I have listened to songs by Oumou Sangare in Fulfulde (Fulani language) of Mali and she grew up having to deal with it her mother did not receive the same attention as the other wife. It is impossible for a man to love 2 or more women equally the same. One will always be your favourite. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by deols(f): 6:17am On Nov 04, 2013 |
kayword: Yes. I Can |
Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by deols(f): 6:18am On Nov 04, 2013 |
tpia@: I answered all that in my previous posts. You can read them.again. |
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