beutifull!
good to hear about ur new job
congrats!!

Why marry him if you didn't think he was competent?  Your ego wants you to dominate a man?

How do you determine if he is worth the mantle?

By his fruits, we shall know them.

DeepZone:

Roflmao, his ego is so much that he couldn't even hide his hypocrisy. Chics, marry this dominatrix at your own peril.

U have got issues. . . . . .
No straight thinking man would allow a woman to dominate his household.
What message are u passing to the kids?? Are u insane??

@ Onyinye,

20 is not equal to a pet-dog.
It means she would only have 2 says for every 10 decisions that come ma way.

You have got issues. . . . . .
No straight thinking man would allow a woman to dominate his household.
What message are u passing to the kids?? Are u insane??

says who? The gospel according to Hannibal?

Hannibal:

@ Onyinye,

20 is not equal to a pet-dog.
It means she would only have 2 says for every 10 decisions that come ma way.

That is sure aint no wife. What is the point of getting married if you are still doing what you did when you were single and that is making all the decisions?

doe82:

beutifull!
good to hear about your new job
congrats!!

That's good  and thank you, all the hard work paid off  

Now it starts all over again    but atleast i'll enjoy it.  

HCH3COO:

Why marry him if you didn't think he was competent?  Your ego wants you to dominate a man?

The question of dominion doesnt even come in here!
nobobdy marries anybody to dominatehim/her
marriage is all about compromise,mutual respect and understanding there is no hard and fast formular"50/50,70/30,10/90"noo it doesnt work like that!u most know your strong points and compesate for each others weakness.

Hanniball pls take note!"understanding[b][/b] "is the key word

syren:

That's good and thank you, all the hard work paid off

Now it starts all over again but atleast i'll enjoy it.

so tell me
have u resumed?

doe82:

The question of dominion doesnt even come in here!
nobobdy marries anybody to dominatehim/her
marriage is all about compromise,mutual respect and understanding there is no hard and fast formular"50/50,70/30,10/90"noo it doesnt work like that!u most know your strong points and compesate for each others weakness.

Hanniball please take note!"understanding[b][/b] "is the key word

So she chooses to marry an incompetent man because she wants to compromise with him

DeepZone:

By his fruits, we shall know them.

Which fruits?  You still haven't answered the question.  If his fruits are gone bad why did you marry him 

DeepZone:

says who? The gospel according to Hannibal?

Nah . . . blame the Bible for saying the man is is the head of the house

onyinye2:

That is sure aint no wife. What is the point of getting married if you are still doing what you did when you were single and that is making all the decisions?

No one is saying she shouldn't make decisions
She should always state her own opinion and be a part of decision making
But the man is the final decision-maker

That is sure aint no wife. What is the point of getting married if you are still doing what you did when you were single and that is making all the decisions?

Because he's an early man.

DeepZone:

Because he's an early man.

may b

doe82:

so tell me
have u resumed?

No, i start on monday, so i have the weekend to prepare myself.

I know people in the company so it shouldn't be too bad.

eldee:

No one is saying she shouldn't make decisions
She should always state her own opinion and be a part of decision making
But the man is the final decision-maker

says who?

may b

Yes, he's a homo erectus and Neanderthal.

No one is saying she shouldn't make decisions
She should always state her own opinion and be a part of decision making
But the man is the final decision-maker

Even when the decision is destructive and lethal?

syren:

No, i start on monday, so i have the weekend to prepare myself.

I know people in the company so it shouldn't be too bad.

thats good news!
I m so happy for u!
is this ur first job or u had d experience b4 now?

lai lai!!!! patapata na DRAW!

onyinye2:

says who?

DeepZone:

Even when the decision is destructive and lethal?

Ephesians 5
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything. "

doe82:

thats good news!
I m so happy for u!
is this your first job or u had d experience before now?

It's the same job really   just the type of work is different. Again thanks for the support  

DeepZone:

Even when the decision is destructive and lethal?

a good wife will not sit back and let such happen if she can prevent it.

onyinye2:

says who?

the bible says so, eat it chew it grind it swallow it yummy oohh yeaaah

onyinye2:

says who?

You're still young now, it'll take time for you to understand
Even Funmi knows the truth

DeepZone:

Even when the decision is destructive and lethal?

That's why I said, she has to be part of the decision making
If you don't know how to get to your man's heart, then you've failed as a wife

@topic, I don't think there can ever be a 50 50 share of power. One is always over the other and it just so happens that the man has the upper hand. I'm cool with 60-40 because I don't want to be in control of my man. Thing is even with the 40 I can always make my presence and importance felt. Sure, there will be times where there's nothing left to do but lead (and trust me, I will step up to lead) but I will not be really looking forward to those times.

HCH3COO:

Ephesians 5
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything. "

ibkaye:

the bible says so, eat it chew it grind it swallow it yummy oohh yeaaah

eldee:

You're still young now, it'll take time for you to understand
Even Funmi knows the truth
That's why I said, she has to be part of the decision making
If you don't know how to get to your man's heart, then you've failed as a wife

I was just jiving. Of course i know unfortunately that i can't make all the decisions.(more tears shed) but doesn't mean i wont put my 40 cents in there. (screw 2 cents)

That's why I said, she has to be part of the decision making
If you don't know how to get to your man's heart, then you've failed as a wife

Seek ye how to get to your woman's heart before telling women about their own speck and it shall be well with your marriage.

Ephesians 5
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything. "

When did you become a believer?

onyinye2:

I was just jiving. Of course i know unfortunately that i can't make all the decisions.(more tears shed) but doesn't mean i wont put my 40 cents in there. (screw 2 cents)

LOL!!!!!

onyinye2:

I was just jiving. Of course i know unfortunately that i can't make all the decisions.(more tears shed) but doesn't mean i wont put my 40 cents in there. (screw 2 cents)

hehehe, dear it is ok, you are young now, when you get older, you will see what we are talking about

@topic, I don't think there can ever be a 50 50 share of power. One is always over the other and it just so happens that the man has the upper hand. I'm cool with 60-40 because I want to be in control of my man. Thing is even with the 40 I can always make my presence and importance felt. Sure, there will be times where there's nothing left to do but lead (and trust me, I will step up to lead) but I will not be really looking forward to those times.

True talk!!! But i don't advocate usurping the power from the man, take it slowly if he's incapable of doing his job including power in bed.

hehehe, dear it is ok, you are young now, when you get older, you will see what we are talking about

Make una see young ibkaye talking about old age.