jewelofafrica: @OP, there are 2 kinds of husbands: the family man and the family head. Which do u intend to be? The family man is a lover friend and confidante. The family head is the SOLE provider character who expects Loyalty and RESPECT only as reward for his inputs to the home.

If you want to enjoy ur life pls marry ur agemate/friend, she will make you a wonderful companion, your communication will be smooth, but if you marry som1 far younger....intellectual gap is inevitable.

As for aging, well men age faster if u haven't noticed except u r looking at stressed women. Do u plan to stress your spouse? Most women claiming 30s are actually in their 40s if u doubt me ask genny.

InvertedHammer: /
DON'T DO IT!!!

Love just dey shack you now...but 2 years after marriage your eyes go open.

Nobody goes into marriage hoping for the worst, but I can guarantee you that you are

just fulfilling your childhood fantasy.

When it wears off and you are stuck with this mamasita, na then your wahala go start.

You think you know her because you just spent few days with her? Good luck.

There are reasons why she is still single in the mid-30s.

Don't carry your legs enter wahala o! At her age, most ladies pretend to be nice because they
have limited options. But as soon as she ropes you in, you are screwed.

Take a cue from Princess the comedian. Don't be the hero who tries to wipe out an old cargo's shame.

Forewarned is fore-armed. Stop thinking with the little head.

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meine:

Listen to this poster at your own risk. Especially for saying women are doomed when they reach age 35,that's a lie of the devil. Poster have you asked yourself why you are still single at 31 or 32? The race in front of us differ,some will marry early while some will marry late so don't be disturbed.

kmcutez: @op, you do not love this lady, please let her go. Ask yourself, tomorrow if she

A) becomes blind
B) loses both legs
C) loses both arms
D) gets burns over 50% of her body

etc, would you still marry her? This is just a tip of the iceberg, as I know most naija guys are into physical appearances, hence those questions.

maindar: My dear destiny, i ve so much to say dat I dnt knw where to start frm. I asked this question 6yrs ago but got no encouraging response, so I ventured for love sake. Am 30plus now n ma wife is 28plus now. Our girl is 4plus n our boy is 2plus all age-wise. We are the Happiest couple on earth. Not to forget, we r nairalanders. MARRY DAT GIRL IF SHE SHARES YOUR FEELINGS
Here we are:

dayokanu: You know Lola Omotayo is like 5yrs older than P Square and she don get pikin

Does she look like his mom?

Tijay90: If you truly love her(as you claim),you won't come to Nairaland to seek validation...js saying...

pawesome: ah tink say Na only me Na



























abeg make una help me n OP
buh d fact is dt she will b more wiser n developed dn u....may own de show me fire.she always wants to b d man.hope urs dnt do dt?

icankel: Early love sweet like chewing gun once u finish d sweet part of u will get tired of d gum. My don't b carried away maybe her beauty or wit d way she treats u on bed or her career cos after marriage all must transform. my bros made such mistake n now suffering it alone. Anyway all d best

Vallotti: As a female. . . I HAVE NEVER MET ANY MALE MY AGE MATE THAT IS AS A DEVELOPMENTAL/COGNITIVE EQUAL.
They tend to act 10 or 20 YEARS IN THE DEFICIENCY column emotionally and spirtually-speaking. To put it directly. . . THEY ACT LIKE IJJJIOTS!

As I get older. . . THE GAP WIDENS. . . .
Sooooooooooooooooo I would have to say NO!
It would not work for me. I NEED A 10 YEAR GAP!!!! So, I CAN HAVE SOME TIME AND PATIENCE WITH HIS AZZZZZZZZZZZE THAT REFUSES TO GROW UP!!!

I need a man. . . not a boy!

SHE WILL OUTGROW YOU IN ABOUT 5 YEARS. . . .AND LOOK LIKE YOUR MOTHER IF SHE AGES LIKE MOST NIGERIAN OR NAIRALAND WOMEN!!!!

Age does not usually correlate with maturity. . . BUT IN MY DEALINGS WITH NIGERIAN MAN. . . .

THE BIGGER THE SHOE SIZE. . . THE SMALLER THE BRAIN!

OP. . . goodluck!