onyinye2:

But it is the truth, is it not? it is a favor because i could have easily reject the offer to go out, but i was sweet enough to cover for you.

u aint doing me a fvour sis, we cld have stayed home and you cook, so i think i am the one that is doing u a fovur, take you out of the kitchen, and spend more time together.

$$Rhino:

u aint doing me a fvour sis, we cld have stayed home and you cook, so i think i am the one that is doing u a fovur, take you out of the kitchen, and spend more time together.

How is it doing me a favor when i have to pay? doing me a favor is you staying home cooking for me.

onyinye2:

How is it doing me a favor when i have to pay? doing me a favor is you staying home cooking for me.

u just dont wanna admit, but u know that na favour.

$$Rhino:

u just don't want to admit, but u know that na favour.

oka a favor is something you do occasionally. me cooking for my man is not a favor, but what i usually do. My man paying for dinner is not a favor, but what he should usually do.

If the OP cant go in depth about what happened then really to hell with the thread.

onyinye2:

oka a favor is something you do occasionally. me cooking for my man is not a favor, but what i usually do. My man paying for dinner is not a favor, but what he should usually do.

so that means there is a role for him to always pay for dinner or and you always cook for him then? i am going by ur definition oh

$$Rhino:

so that means there is a role for him to always pay for dinner or and you always cook for him then? i am going by your definition oh

I didn't say always, i said "usually". Meaning most of the time. Most of the time i will cook for us,not just him. And most of the time he will pay for dinner.

Anyhow, here is my take on all these.
I see no big deal in who cook, i have this policy, that whoever come home first would cook dinner, or shd the man just sit and be hungry while waiting for the wife to come back and do the cooking?
No big deal who pick the tab for the dinner when you dine out, you are together, and the money is for both of you, when you are yet to marry, it is called love, and i see no big deal in all stuff like that, i personally think ppple that make a big deal of such are plain babies.

can you people not go offtopic. thanks

KarmaMod:

can you people not go offtopic. thanks

Sorry, guess got carried away.

$$Rhino:

Anyhow, here is my take on all these.
I see no big deal in who cook, i have this policy, that whoever come home first would cook dinner, or should the man just sit and be hungry while waiting for the wife to come back and do the cooking?
No big deal who pick the tab for the dinner when you dine out, you are together, and the money is for both of you, when you are yet to marry, it is called love, and i see no big deal in all stuff like that, i personally think ppple that make a big deal of such are plain babies.

You have a point and i heard your 50 cents but doesn't mean it over shadow's my 50 cents either.

Your stuborness is just ribs cracking.

I know. Im working on it.

good and good luck .

:p

My poeple dis is the reason why every young man would like to be financially secured b/4 they go into marriage. As soon as a woman become the bread winner of the home this kind of things happen frequently. it is such a very painful experience. how will u pressent ur self b/4 de nabours again as de man, what about ur pride, u will surely be the talk of the naiburhood, a laughing stock.
Well for the sake of LOVE i will take u back but u will not bring any of ur darm belongings into my house again. Secondly be very ready to see the new me b/c i will chage totaly. PLS MY SISTER TRY TO CONTROL UR SELF NEXT TIME U VE PROBLEMS WITH UR GUY.

ojubi:

My poeple this is the reason why every young man would like to be financially secured b/4 they go into marriage. As soon as a woman become the bread winner of the home this kind of things happen frequently. it is such a very painful experience. how will u pressent your self b/4 de nabours again as de man, what about your pride, u will surely be the talk of the naiburhood, a laughing stock.
Well for the sake of LOVE i will take u back but u will not bring any of your darm belongings into my house again. Secondly be very ready to see the new me b/c i will chage totally. PLS MY SISTER TRY TO CONTROL UR SELF NEXT TIME You VE PROBLEMS WITH UR GUY.

A man without money is a dead man.

$$Rhino:

A man without money is a dead man.

truly questionable.

I pray things will work out for you guys but try and work on your anger if you want to be in a relationship because anger bears no good fruit

A man with money will tell you what to do, and you will do more than he asked for.

beg ke? i reject it

so what could she do then

$$Rhino:

A man with money will tell you what to do, and you will do more than he asked for.

Not me. no one tells me what to do.

$$Rhino:

so what could she do then

talk to him if she really wants him that badly, show him how sorry she is etc etc

begging? i no dey tink so meehn

ibkaye:

talk to him if she really wants him that badly, show him how sorry she is etc etc

begging? i no dey think so meehn

Nwam.

ibkaye:

talk to him if she really wants him that badly, show him how sorry she is etc etc

begging? i no dey think so meehn

how wld u show to him that you are sorry.

onyinye2:

Nwam.

$$Rhino:

how would u show to him that you are sorry.

Maybe send the guy a card with a written apology, expressing how you feel etc

Rhino, can i ask you this? Are you that type of brotha that would make your girlfriend beg for your forgiveness before you would take her back?

ibkaye:


Maybe send the guy a card with a written apology, expressing how you feel etc

u were bold enuf to rent okada to go and carry ur rug and the underwear you bought the guy, and now you wanna hide behind some cards and letter to show how sorry u are? How abt being sorry in person?

$$Rhino:

u were bold enough to rent okada to go and carry your rug and the underwear you bought the guy, and now you want to hide behind some cards and letter to show how sorry u are? How about being sorry in person?

I mean yeah you should tell him in person, but the guy is mad. I don't blame chic sending a card first or a well thought out letter. Guys do it all the time.

$$Rhino:

u were bold enough to rent okada to go and carry your rug and the underwear you bought the guy, and now you want to hide behind some cards and letter to show how sorry u are? How about being sorry in person?

well i didn't say that that is the only thing she can do, it could be one of many things in order to show how remorseful she truly is

The point I am trying to make is that she can do whatever she wants in order to express how sorry she is, just don't beg, to me, that is a disgrace in it's own

onyinye2:

I mean yeah you should tell him in person, but the guy is mad. I don't blame chic sending a card first or a well thought out letter. Guys do it all the time.

i would rather see you in person, and if you are smart, dress to make me wanna, dress to kill and lemme see what i am missing if i dont take u back, but then, depends if i am actually missing anything, cos some babes are just plain lousy, with words and even in bed.
If you send me some letter, ammo burn them and send u back the damn ashes.