ibkaye:

well i didn't say that that is the only thing she can do, it could be one of many things in order to show how remorseful she truly is

The point I am trying to make is that she can do whatever she wants in order to express how sorry she is, just don't beg, to me, that is a disgrace in it's own

it was easy for u to disgrace the man, but u dont wanna be disgraced.

$$Rhino:

it was easy for u to disgrace the man, but u don't want to be disgraced.

Exactly, human instincts, yes that is a very bad excuse, but what can i do, just being honest

$$Rhino:

i would rather see you in person, and if you are smart, dress to make me want to, dress to kill and let me see what i am missing if i don't take u back, but then, depends if i am actually missing anything, because some babes are just plain lousy, with words and even in bed.
If you send me some letter, ammo burn them and send u back the damn ashes.

OUCH!!! Oka if i wanted to get a guy back, the last thing i would do is beg. I would go to his place, and yes dress to kill. Tell him my peace. If he still doesnt' understand, i would give him letter to read whenever. If he doesn't oh well. it is his choice. But i won't beg. But if he was smart, he would take me back. But guys never go up front. They send you flowers and candy to show you how sorry they are. Then show up to your door step pleading their case.

There is nothing wrong in showing how remorseful u are with some drop of tears, cos what has been done to that man is something that if done to your bro or son, yu will do anything to make sure that the guy dont go back.
What has been done to him is what i define as humiliation of first degree

What about those chics who get their stuff thrown out the house because their man acting on emotion? aren't they humiliated?

bauer:

Dear all,
Please dear all i want you to advice me am in cortship for the past 11 years but letter i got that my guy was dating another girl but starting from beginning we do everything 2gether if we need anything i always contribute we both go 2 church together, he got that girl in d church and told me that i should not come 2 that church again so i stopped. he is not ready 2 leave her and promise me that he will marry me, but last week i was told he was sick i went 2 his house after closing time i was in his house with his is friend so, latter heard someone is nocking the door and i clossed d gate myself i told my guy who is that he went 2 open d door using the key with her 2 opened d door, she greeted me becuase she know before she later left after leaving i asked about key because i don't have his key why giving her another key. and i don,t another guy expect him. please what can i do am yaong lady of 30yrs and his family did not support him they always tell me come down said they cannot allow him 2 mary another wife.
Plaese advise me concerning this issue.
Thanks and expecting your reply.

Since the OP has run off is this the problem?

*rolls eyes*

onyinye2:

What about those chics who get their stuff thrown out the house because their man acting on emotion? aren't they humiliated?

those are just pigs in human clothings, no man and no woman shd make anyone u say or once said you love go thru such stuff.

$$Rhino:

those are just pigs in human clothings, no man and no woman should make anyone u say or once said you love go through such stuff.

Hmm. . . . rings another bell.

onyinye2:

Hmm. . . . rings another bell.

seems like men have shown u pepper oh, but hiding behind a tough skin is not the answer, talk to therapist Rhino and he will help.

$$Rhino:

seems like men have shown u pepper oh, but hiding behind a tough skin is not the answer, talk to therapist Rhino and he will help.

You are joking right? me get my precious things thrown on the street? PLEASE.

u will do great as a comedian.

you are so. . . man i aint even going to stress.

Wow! Some people are so immature!

here we go again, scared to let it out?

oka Rhino, you know what, you aint nothing but clown talking, judge minded, quick talking, smart ass type of brotha. You wanted me to dish it out, so take it.

onyinye2:

oka Rhino, you know what, you aint nothing but clown talking, judge minded, quick talking, smart ass type of brotha. You wanted me to dish it out, so take it.

best shot? not bad at all.

$$Rhino:

best shot? not bad at all.

Oh please baby boy, talking like you some man. why don't you lay it on the table? or you too scared?

onyinye2:

Oh please baby boy, talking like you some man. why don't you lay it on the table? or you too scared?

so scared and peeing in my pant already.

$$Rhino:

so scared and peeing in my pant already.

Just what i thought. aint even man enough.