pickabeau1: hmmm....

Ewuro707: Oku n sunkun oku akasholeri nsunkun ara won. Obo n gbobo gope.

Pot calling kettle black. Hypocrites calling hypocrites hypocrites ..... Don't you just love Nigerians?

One BIG family

nitlad:

Orisabunmi kaabo. . .

pslm23: Happy New Year dear NL folks! I have a burning question that I hope a matured person or persons can shed some light on.

why is that Nigeria women tend to look down on other women who are divorced? In other countries, who cares if you are divorced or married? who cares if you get pregnant one month or one year after marriage? The kind of pressure put on women here is unbelievable! But what irks me to no end is how these hoity toity pompous women treat women who are divorced as if they are going straight to hell or like they are lepers!
I know the Bible frowns upon divorce but the Bible also frowns upon hundreds of things that we are all guilty of committing! As far as I'm concerned, any woman who is bold enough to walk out of an abusive relationship or marriage deserves an award in Nigeria not condemnation!
Then there is the other pressure put on women who are yet to get pregnant after marriage, the way they start getting evil and strange snickering looks from the "fertile" peers barely 6 months into their marriage is absolutely sickening. Not only are they getting pressure from their family (in-laws) but when their neighbors, church women etc start making subtle references as to the state of their flat tummy leaves me to wonder why?

vanitty: My dear, it is simple. misery loves company. You have no business being divorced and happy whereas they are married and miserable.
Even double whammy, the husbands that insist their subservient wives not to be associated with divorcees. They know they know the wives might just gain some senses and grow wings.

Marriage in itself na journey, every year we make it, We no the kinda thanks We give to God! Will it make sense for us now to be looking down at others! Some put in even more effort and it doesn't work out. I am convinced that if you are truly happy, you want every other person to be happy. Simples.! Just take the looking down as them being envious in disguise jare.

jennykadry:

Actually lets start it cos that rant up there was so uncalled for...was it not the same reason why I started a thread about NIN's being unnecessarily jealous of the NID's? Read Ypepe's post and tell me it's not filled with so much bitterness and hate...How many NID's go ahead criticising a good marriage? how many times have we made fun of people's marriage? if she is so jealous and needs to leave the shores ofNigeria let her say so and be done with it.

The problem NID's have with nigeria is the lack of good government, the government has refused to favour it's citizens, so why blame citizens that choose to stay where they are well represented and cared for?

Just a few days ago I had a chat to a friend of mine in Nigeria who is unable to afford hospital bills and that made me weep, why should I go back to a country with poor health care system when all I have to do here is go to the hospital spend as many days as I like and come out without paying a dime? why should I go back to Nigeria and settle when ASUU just recently called off a 6 month strike?

The above problems are what we in diaspora are complaining about not some nonsense about married couples in the west. I read stories like Subzidi who is a Nigerian married to a nigerian and living in Nigeria and I admire and respect her marriage. I have sisters who choose to live in Nigeria and are happily married there...IF I and my beloved immediate family refuse to live in Nigeria or come celebrate our marriage in Nigeria, why would another woman born of a woman come in here and chat shyt That post of Ypepe reeks of jealousy and hate and hypocrisy and envy and and....freaking damnation and this is coming from someone who preaches peace on this section? I am so fvking disappointed hypocrisy I say bloody hypocrisy

pslm23:

sorry oh, but please what is NID and NIN I guess i have been away too long

pslm23:

sorry oh, but please what is NID and NIN I guess i have been away too long

lorretta u: OP that's the Nigerian mentality for you.
Some women would rather die in the marriage than try to save their necks if need be.
Everybody knows marriage is a wonderful thing.
But when it's so bad that there is no respite in sight and maybe it's even bad to the point of one's life being in danger,won't the sensible thing be a divorce?
Kai I said something like that in one of my threads and it wasn't funny
See attacks on moi. Dem wan kill me with insult.
Most were of the mindset that even if your husband is punching you to death,stay there and keep [b]PRAYING[/b]for him to change(while waiting for your death) hehehe.
Naija I hail.

PS abum nwafor naijiria (I'm a nigerian born n bred n living in nigeria)
Gotta say The truth tho.

mgbeketoto:

Are you sure you REALLY got married less than a month ago?
Or are you married to NL like MOST OF US?
Just saying. . . . .HOPE YOU AIN'T ONE OF DEM FLAKY-FOLAKES ON THIS THREAD and all over NL?
You are one strrrrrrrange 'newly-wed'! Even by "EBAY marriage standards"!
Abi you wanna spend ya honey moon on NL too?
Beware! You sef go soon smell DIVORCE!

* hope those pics are really yours. i smmmmell 419. just a huanch *

lorretta u: Lol. Fake ko
Fake ni. Hubby don travel. Na lonliness dey keep me on NL.

God forbid the divorce thing jare.
U sef na wa to you. Your first and second marriage na Ebay marriage? How do u knw about that?

Anyway I didn't know people do 419 marriage o. Y na?

mgbeketoto:

Hmmmmmm!
You know I get experience plenty-plenty ke?
You mean the other SECRET marriages for Yankee land wet wey we take make "money" ?
Reaaaaaal EBAY MARRIAGES O!
Who wan DIE of poverty with a travelling after marriage spouse of 2 weeks NO HONEYMOON for NAIJA likey ya?

Poor you!

Mu HA ha ha ha ha
Don't believe everything I write with these fingers DARLING!
THIS IS AMERICA!!! Not NIGERIA!!!
Good luck to you.

Nice thread!!!

Ha!!! Marriage is beaurrrrriful o!!!!
Even if Na less than one month without the groom at home! HA!!! Na wah for "THE RUNAWAY GROOOOOOM" o!

Mu che che che che che


OP! You dey READ?
Grooooom don run ooooooooh!
Welcome to AWON DIEVORCE before HONEY MOON PLC OF NL!!!!


Bhaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!

coogar:

nigerians in diaspora
nigerians in nigeria

lorretta u: You dey find gist?
Sorry no show for my mouth.
Goodnight. Sleep calling me.

jennykadry: Mgbeke one quick question: will you ever leave this your beloved America for Nigeria permanently?

mgbeketoto:

Mba nu!!!

Siddon for NL dey do "MARRIAGE IS SWWWWEEET"!
NL GO SOOON SHOW YOU WHIIIIIIIIIIIIN for both ears!
Siddon for NL dey make noise from thread to thread you YEAR?

Dem go soon hellep you celebrate your DIEvorce laff ya azzzzzzze wella-wella!
Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiior!!!!!

mgbeketoto:

NEVERRRRRRRR!
NOT EVEN IN A CASKET!!!!
If I am deported, I will move to GHANA!