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Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:07am On Aug 27, 2008 |
mesmya: fa fa fa foul. let her tell us just 2 of the nasty text messages she sent first then we can crucify our brother. Ruby_Pearl: you better do so. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:07am On Aug 27, 2008 |
David lets call a spade a spade abeg,u guys should stop supporting the man and stop blaming d woman,nobody is perfect,so just because of this small thing he's left his home,his wife and step kids all by themselves?what happens if he suspects her wt another man?he will kill her i guess |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:08am On Aug 27, 2008 |
debosky: Her messages cant be used as an excuse debo. Did you read WHY she sent those voicemails and emails? Taking her mode of transportation AWAY so he can sulk like a child? If he's mad at his wife, FINE but why take it out on the children? is it cos they're not his? |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 27, 2008 |
an angry girlfriend is not a small thing how much more a wife. |
Re: Sarcasm by Queenisha: 12:10am On Aug 27, 2008 |
KarmaMod: OSANOBUA! na dat one catch my eye. He's Ijebu Igbo |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:10am On Aug 27, 2008 |
What a surprise that you convinently ignored this part, David The nasty voicemail and text messages this morning was me flying off the cuff at him because i woke up to him not being home and the truck gone. He left me a text message that he took the truck. Not only did he take the truck but he went in my dam purse took my keys to the truck and took off. |
Re: Sarcasm by debosky(m): 12:11am On Aug 27, 2008 |
@ Karma its not an excuse, but when you FEED a negative cycle, it gets stronger and more decidedly negative if they are both hot headed in this situation it will only get WORSE, thats all I'm trying to point out. No one is supporting the man, for one, we have not heard his side of the story. Secondly, sistawoman is our friend, if we see wrong in her actions, why not point it out. I am not in support of the man staying out of his home for this long over a minor dispute, but it is a woman's glory to know how to calm her man down and vice versa. But if its all a case of being adversarial, then there is no point, no one wins. |
Re: Sarcasm by lidbb2(m): 12:12am On Aug 27, 2008 |
sistawoman: at last.i'm glad peace is now on the horizon.i'm happy for you. take a lesson from this incident.at least you are able to understand a few more things about him. it seems you have a slightly immature "cry baby" on your hands though. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:13am On Aug 27, 2008 |
davidylan:Sure now, just keep waiting for it. As long as no one is ignoring the other |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:14am On Aug 27, 2008 |
debosky: we all know dat,but wat if d man does not want to calm down?wat if hes looking for an excuse to pick up a quarell?even if she offended him,atleast for d sake of d kids ,he should go back home,a woman and child feels secure and safe wen there is a daddy at home |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 27, 2008 |
KarmaMod:Rotflmao!! The "I'm yoruba from Anambra" got me cracking up. lol Sorry, but there is sth fishy going on. |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:15am On Aug 27, 2008 |
debosky: Ive no problem pointing out where she was wrong. Like I said from the beginning, it's not the fact that she's sarcastic, it's the fact that the sarcasm was used in the midst of a "serious discussion" although apparently he's been just as sarcastic with her in regards to the same thing. I still think they should tak things out but the dude is acting like a female now, taking it too far. and I still want her to get to the bottom of this Anambra Yoruba thing. It's making me uneasy. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:16am On Aug 27, 2008 |
KarmaMod: didnt ignore it but what difference does it make? Lets be frank, the worst mistake a wife can make is assume she can "punish" her husband's mistakes by being rude, nasty and stubborn. It only makes things worse and gives him a valid excuse to stay away. sistawoman has no excuse, yes the man is an ass but she's the wife . . . do the right thing and go apologize. The fellow probably never witnessed his mother ever question his father and here is a wife who feels strong enough to send him nasty texts? Pele o. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:16am On Aug 27, 2008 |
now wait a minute,did d guy say hes a yoruba from anambra state? |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:18am On Aug 27, 2008 |
mesmya:That's what she told us that he told her |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:18am On Aug 27, 2008 |
So in other words David, you support his behavior. Let my wife and kids suffer while I walk off with our car to go and sulk elsewhere. To hell with how they manage without my presence. Good to know. mesmya. He claims to be Yoruba o from Anambra state. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 27, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl: if its true then ,im sorry to say dis ,but sistawoman has been deceived i no dey hide my mouth |
Re: Sarcasm by sistawoman: 12:20am On Aug 27, 2008 |
He is from Akure |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:20am On Aug 27, 2008 |
davidylan:But she's the wife. ok, so? Does that give him the right to treat her like that? I'm saying she need not apologise. . . .but she can still communicate with him. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:21am On Aug 27, 2008 |
is he from akure or anambra akure? |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:22am On Aug 27, 2008 |
Oh. You mean Akure, the capital of Anambra! I get it npow! sista, can you tell me where you are getting this info from? HiM or some documents? |
Re: Sarcasm by debosky(m): 12:24am On Aug 27, 2008 |
I said it!!! Akure - Ondo/Ekiti axis, their stubbornness is legendary |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:25am On Aug 27, 2008 |
KarmaMod: u're getting me wrong. I dont support a man leaving his home under a circumstance. I'm only refusing to see only one side of the coin. Its easy to blame the man for leaving home . . . well why is the woman not making that home conducive enough for him to enjoy being there? Dont forget, all we have access to is sistawoman's side of the story. Do we know what else goes on behind the scene? Is this the first time this has happened? Is the man happy being around his wife and "step"-kids? How are we sure that the problem isnt sistawoman herself? Abeg enough of sobbing on behalf of someone who could even be lying to us for all we know. If she lied to her husband so effortlessly is it us she'll be honest with? |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:25am On Aug 27, 2008 |
debosky:sharrap there!! |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:26am On Aug 27, 2008 |
Ruby_Pearl: cut long story short - she had better apologize sharp sharp unless she wants to see a divorce lawyer very soon. Women and their unecessary shakara. |
Re: Sarcasm by topup: 12:27am On Aug 27, 2008 |
This sounds like the case of anger and resentment that has been building up for a long time, and the sarcastic comment was a channel for it to be unleashed, if this situation was independent of any previous arguments or points, I'm sure you two would have made up by now. I think he is being immature, but we don't know what he is thinking, the best person to judge that is you and only you. I believe someone has to 'give in', I guess the person who wants the argument to end the most. This could also be an issue of pride, it's unfortunate that he's not even in the house to be talked to or his cell is off. I think the only thing is to wait for him to come round and to suck in your pride when he finally decides to talk to you. You don't want an explosion after all. Stay strong. God Bless. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:27am On Aug 27, 2008 |
sistawoman is ur hubby from akure,or anambra akure |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 27, 2008 |
topup: biko you get sense! |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 27, 2008 |
davidylan:Cut the story shorter, you're being unfair. Divorce lawyer for not apologising for his immaturity? hmmm hmmmmmmmmm mesmya:Anambra akure na |
Re: Sarcasm by KarmaMod(f): 12:28am On Aug 27, 2008 |
mesmya: Please ignore everything else except this question If indeed he/documents say Akure. What STATE is that? |
Re: Sarcasm by Sisikill: 12:29am On Aug 27, 2008 |
onyinye2: Oyinye2, everyone knows we shouldn't be sarcastic with our fathers, what kind of children would we be? However this is Sisterwoman's Husband, someone who is supposed to be her friend (like your girlfriends and personal guy friends) not her father. @ Sisterwoman He has an apartment somewhere else where is free to go. . . what is going on here? I've read a couple of posts saying you two just got married and except this was a shotgun wedding, there is no reason why he couldn't have gotten rid of that apartment a long time ago. From where I stand (yes, as an outsider) there is more to this that meets the eye and not necessarily on your part. 1) His reaction to this issue is overboard - Who the heck is he that he can't be spoken to sarcastically or fibbed to? In our father in heaven forgives, please he should go and sit down somewhere. You didn't cancel the appt to go do your nails or go shopping, you didn't blow him off because you didn't remember. . . now that would be the real show of not caring for his feelings. You cancelled it because of your children, fine let him be angry but to take it so far as to leave the house for days? Come on! What kind of man is this. . . are you sure you didn't marry a child? Okay on the off chance that he is indeed a man, there's another plausible explanation for taking this dramatic route 2) Projection (in the most basic terms) - He has done something, he is doing something or he is thinking of doing something he shouldn't have and instead of facing it, he has decide to pass whatever it is on you. Why else would he think you were still lying about cancelling the appointment for the kids? Blowing this out of proportion and acting like the mortally wounded party helps him replaced his guilt with anger. . . easier to handle and once like anyone else, once you get a legit excuse to be angry, he's be hard pressed to let it go, hence him not picking up your calls. (Cowardly? Most definitely but it is what it is) I'm sorry if I'm taking this too far but I refuse to believe this is over sarcasm. I know Nigerian men are egotistical, pompous with God-like complex but get mad over sarcasm? Seriously??! And all of a sudden, all these under the petese law makers creating new rules on what shouldn't be brought in marriage. . . what the heck? Jeebus! Marriage is already hard enough, now we gotta add trivial matters like sarcasm to it? What next "Sneezing has no place in an argument between a man and his wife because it will interrupt the man's flow of insults, which is rude and disrespetful to his authority" Oh what about this one "Blinking has no place in an argument because it shows for that for one second, the woman was not looking at the man, which is an insult to him. Obey is Authori-tay!!!" Gah! What I would give for an eye rolling smiley right now. My first born child. . . any takers? I'll even throw in my husband. This is a true case of soooing gege di arun. Nonsense. |
Re: Sarcasm by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 27, 2008 |
all this spring wells of feminine advice shld get married first. |
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