i think she's lying, if there is nothing between her and the guy, she shouldnt be recieving midnight calls from him.
, obviously, she likes him, maybe even has feelings for him cus if she doesnt, believe me she wouldnt be depriving herself of sleep just to speak to him.
, and does she speak to him beside u on the bed or she leaves the room?
, does this guy even know that she's married to u?
, does she ever talk about the things they talk about on the phone on those nights?
, men! if she leaves the room to go talk to the "friend" and never speaks about what they talkd about, u need to fasten ur seat belt cus she's taking u for a fast ride.
, ya need to keep ya ears open, dont talk about the guy anymore, even when she recieves her calls, just keep ur cool and watch her, very very closely cus i can assure u that when u dont talk about it, she'll think u're not noticing her escapade and taking more risks, then and only then will u be able know if the guys really is JUST a friend or MORE than a friend.
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kinda dont believe the story.as in the post itself

dont be decieve with women cry, it's natural with them, a woman can cry n stab a man to death yet crying, the truth of the mata is that ur woman is having a hardcore affair with one rude boy out there just make sure u start using condom on her till she confess n repent

Dude whats the matter with you taking advice from all these vampires in here, As a fellow brother, let me give you a walk through on what to do. Mano a Mano, You know what they say,if you get slapped on one side, simply turn the other close your eyes and anticipate, It might Just be only a punch from Wladimir Klitschko this time, not be too bad eh? it could have been worse

It strange when i notice that my wife started receiving midnight call this days and when i ask her she said it a friend. How come your friend is not calling during the day i asked her but her replied is that he call on his own convenient time.So i got upset with her and she started crying and swearing that she got nothing to do with this guy his just a friend not until last week when we are about to sleep and the MSG come in to my wife phone when i open the MSG it was a love MSG from the friend of my wife telling her he want to hold her kiss her and he cant imagine his life without my wife.

what amaze me is that my wife still crying and swearing that she has nothing to do with this guy his just a friend .

am confuse i don't know maybe i should believe her or not


NAIRALAND PLEASE ADVICE

Someone is loving your wife? ah!

save the number and call the guy and ask him urself

bro,forget it women are same,i had this same issue with the one women i thought to be the best in the world and urs is just the pic and that was how it all ended cos there was really something between them after all.u are married just try and see if it can still work if it does not do away with her and be at peace.

Am just too impatient to read through what others have written already

Point clearly, Ur wife is cheating

My reason. no man with dignity and self respect will be calling another man's wife at any odd hour, except stated that ur wife did not make this known to him.

No woman of honour, married at that, will encourage a midnite call from whomever except close family members

I repect my married girl friends and never call them up at night, so what more a man and a love txt message,

What other proof do you need
The quilty are quick at shedding tears, watch it is my only advice here.

we are living in a crazy world. women with pretence, better for yu do act fast b4 she send yu to an early grave.

@poster, read the hand written on the WALL !!

Gmmm

are byou sure you married her or you are living in with her?

hey genius of course something fishy is going on but let me walk you through the maze cuz it looks like ur lost.
1.What is the guys purpose of calling your wife?
Ans: obvious romantic intent
2.Is your wife aware of his intentions?
Ans: obviously.
3. does she condone his attention?
Ans: yes or she would not keep talking to him and even defend him by calling him a friend.
4. so is she involved with him?
Ans: probably
5: what do you do?
Ans: should never have married her and as it is u r in deep, till death rescues you, shit.

i think u would need the services of professors of women affairs.any done wait for ur wife to cry blood b4 u take action because that wife of urs is unfaithful to u

Come to think of it, what will give a married woman the guts to make mid night call with a strange man the husband did not know in presence of the husband, what's this world tuning into, guys do you know what it takes to make midnight calls, u deny your self some rest, your mind is focus on a guy that is not your husband 4 midnight calls, 4 a woman to stay awake because of midnight call can not be without feelings. My brother for you to have allowed your wife to be making midnight calls with a guy in your presence, u are already telling us according to Osufia, she has wife you, pls be a man and woke up, no woman on earth can try that with me, u can only do it when am not around, pls try and install some respect into this woman you call your wife, 4 God sake what type of marriage is this. God abeg oh

I believe this is the reason some men beat their wives. OP are you castrated or perhaps you're the one wearing the brassiere in your marriage? Are you daft or you have just never stood up for yourself in your damn life? Did your mother marry the wife for you or did you marry her yourself?

If you have no balls, grow some. A woman you spent money on a wedding for is receiving calls in the middle of the night from a male friend you know nothing about. Just how daft are you? Is she your girlfriend or your wife. Under what circumstances did you marry her? She's crying and you're feeling sorry when you're the offended party. A real wife would report any funny movement instantly before it turned to something else. Instead yours is taking funny calls at night and you are there lying down quiet like a refugee that has no name, a dog chained by its master.

In 10 years time when you have kids, these are the type of women that will tell you the kids are not yours, that her friend slipped and  his kini found its way inside hers and thus Junior was born. Then you will come here and Nairalanders will devote and entire section to discuss your woes. Strike before the woman ruins you, my friend.


I don't care what these feminista's say, give the woman a good belting and throw her out of your house. When she learns the error of her ways, let her home, or let her hook up with her lover full time  and continue what they do at night in the daytime.

WELL TRUTH BE TOLD THERE IS A CHANCE SHE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING, YET.
WOMEN LOVE THE ATTENTION BUT I DNT THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE IT LIGHTLY.

TAKE HER UP ON IT LIKE SHE HAS CHEATED B'COS
1. SHE MITE HAVE
2. SHE SHOULD HAVE A CLUE HOW THIS CAN DESTROY UR RELATIONSHIP.

ALSO TALK TO HER ABOUTR BEING NAIVE B'COS ITS JUST WRONG TO BE CALLIN A MARRIED WOMAN AT THAT TIME.

YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF, IS IT A ONE OFF? OR SHE SHE BEEN SHOWING TRAITS OF WEAKNESS TO GUYZ? IF ITS A ONE OFF DNT KILL URSELF OVER IT.

MOST WOMEN WILL CHEAT AT ONE POINT IN TIME OR THE OTHER JUST MAKE SURE YOU DNT LOOSE YOUR RESPECT AND SHE DOENT FEEL COMFORTABLE ABOUT IT. LIKE THEY SAY ONCE YOU KILL YOU'LL FIND IT EASY TO DO AGAIN.
GOOD LUCK

Its not my intention to break your marriage but hey,your wife is a cheater. How do you want her to convince any body? Her friend should know that she;s married and if they can still be playing all their night calls tricks and whatever,then its clear she has somthin for this man. Period

@Kaaz, You are the husband and what you say concerning your own wife is to be respected, Be as a man and tell her enough of this behavior, if it is nothing yet, it will be soon, and the serious trouble is still yet to come unless you handle your business. This man is either trying to tempt her with flattery or pull her from you because he has already had some and he only wants what he think he cant have. Once he have it all will be spoiled for all three of you. Put your foot down and stand on your decision and God word. Pray for God to put it on this man heart to not try to covet another man's wife. IJN, Amen!

Dont nag her, pretend as if nothing is wrong, cook pounded yam for her, wear her favorite Pyjamas, just be nice and kind, pray for her, She will change and come back to u

If she's ur GIRLFRIEND, "Nè pás problém", bt in dis case, she's yur "Femme", den der "es Beaucóup Problém".

aisha2:

Dont nag her, pretend as if nothing is wrong, cook pounded yam for her, wear her favorite Pyjamas, just be nice and kind, pray for her, She will change and come back to u

SUPER STORY: IT'S A LIFE OF STRIFE AND SORROWS
JUST WAIT TILL SHE START ANSWERING CALLS WHEN YOU ARE BLEEPING HER
WIFE TO CALLER "OH DEAR YOU ARE SWEETER"

Why will my wife suddenly start answering call at night and what sort of friend is that and have you bothered listen to what they always talk about at night, I will not even condone a night call from a female friend talkless of a male friend, Tell her to inform that so called friEND to stop calling her!!!!period

FOR HEAVENS SAKES YOU ARE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE!!!!!

if it looks like she is lying, if it smells like she is lying then she is prob shafting the dude behind ur bck, frnd ko frnd ni

your wife is kingfuc about u need to be careful, HIV full ground now ooo. if u love her too much buy her condons and make arrangement on how she go dey do d thin.

There is an affair. There is no reason for a guy to call a woman that late unless he wants to hit it!! The man wants to hit it!!

y would u be confused? u should know your wife is cheating on u,stop asking silly questions
forgive if u want to becos of God.if she has nothing to do with him. in the first place she wont lie to u becos like they say clean consience fear no accusation. And if she is really innocent like she claim, i guess she will learn to be open to her husband after this.

@ poster na wa for you sef why did you let is continue at the first place?

@old post

I know this post is quite old and the issue might probably be resolved by now but i couldn't resist dropping a line or two. . .

This matter is very straight forward.Your wife is cheating on you POINT BLANK! Forget the tears and weeping.A woman's femininity is the strongest weapon she has against a man. Like someone rightfully said, a woman can be stabbing you to death and still cry at the same time.Their tears don't mean sH*t. Women are emotional creatures and shedding tears comes VERY NATURALLY to them. A woman can be bored and just start crying to pass the time or entertain herself. Don't ever take any irrational decision all because a woman cried! ! !

I hope you have picked the pieces and moved on by now.

Nuff said!

she may be telling the truth. trust her except otherwise you catch her red handed.

platinumnk:

save the number and call the guy and ask him urself

Brilliant! Was thinking of that myself!

After 3 yrs is she still receiving the calls? you need to update