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Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by ratiken(m): 11:00am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Summary: Marry a wife that suits you. When a man marries a woman more intelligent and exposed than he is, there are high chances for ego battles. So its more about the man's intelligence than the woman. When an intelligent man marries an averagely intelligent lady, chances are that he'll rub off on her in the long run as they are wired to look up and learn from someone they consider more intelligent than them unlike the men where ego comes in the way. Gentleness (not timidity) has no better alternative. A dumb wife is a NO NO. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by hayoakins(m): 11:04am On Jul 23, 2014 |
a mix of both ![]() |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 23, 2014 |
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Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by akanbiaa(m): 11:04am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Guys prefer as wife materials, girls who respect them and treat them like babies at the same time. whether she is gentle or intelligent. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Ladybluecash(f): 11:07am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Gentle nd Foolish baaaahhh. Abeg op go get yourself an intelligent wife, nd besides inteligent is diff frm been brillant, wen u av an intelligent woman for a wife infact u ar blessed by God 1 Like |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 23, 2014 |
McWhillion: Intelligent girls.You spoke my mind, God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by mindworx: 11:12am On Jul 23, 2014 |
olubukola07: Most guys will open their mouths to say they want an intellligently smart girl but deep down within them they want a gently dumb girl so they will be able to push and order her around. The "African" in most of our men will make them prefer the gentle girl as a wife material. That wasn't needed ... 1 Like |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by princessayesha(f): 11:12am On Jul 23, 2014 |
When a man loves, he loves. It doesn't matter if the girl is whatever. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Odika1: 11:14am On Jul 23, 2014 |
[color=#770077][/color]an intelligent woman. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by 4q: 11:15am On Jul 23, 2014 |
True intelligence humbles the possessor. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by mindworx: 11:18am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Where is andromida ... tot she was working on something for dmcdad ... |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by adeoladrg(m): 11:19am On Jul 23, 2014 |
both |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by dmcdad: 11:28am On Jul 23, 2014 |
mindworx: Where is andromida ... tot she was working on something for dmcdad ... ![]() |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Iyineda(m): 11:33am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Intelligence is a very appealing trait to me. But it must be termpered with other qualities. Being gentle alone is not sufficient because a gentle, simple-minded girl is painfully difficult to relate to and makes it too easy for her partner to become condescending. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by xamster(m): 11:39am On Jul 23, 2014 |
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Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by IzyLuv(f): 11:40am On Jul 23, 2014 |
daryoor: Im focuced on the extremes, intelligent woman with coleric tendencies, the kind of woman that will tell her husbands brother the ugly truth. Cause she feel her action is justified, she wont shy away from giving unsolicited advices, cause shes always compelled to. Fix things and fix people also. Such girls irritate me. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Nobody: 11:48am On Jul 23, 2014 |
A woman could be both right? |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Emmaomotob(m): 11:55am On Jul 23, 2014 |
kennygee: Most guys are intimidated by intelligent women, they want a gentle woman who will just say "how high" when they say jump without complaining. While an Intelligent woman will ask you why you want her to jump and offer a better way of doing it if there is one.No woman can intimidate me.WOMEN CAN BE SMARTER SHARPER PERFORM BETTER (BOOKWISE) BUT NOT INTELLIGENT. WOMEN THINK THROUGH EMOTION AND CERTAINLY NON-IMMAGINATIVE[color=#990000][/color] ![]() |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by lakamua: 12:00pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
intelligence is not all about academics. a gentle woman is wiser to do what will make her marriage work by studying her partner. but d so called intelligent women are just noisemakers.. they will only fit men dat are weak. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by DonTonero: 12:01pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
The word Gentle and intelligence has different meaning based on the writers point of view.....and from the writers point of view no man i repeat no man would go for the intelligent woman except the man is 007 and is willing to die young. No man wants a disrespectful woman and intelligence cannot bring about humility or gentleness but being gentle and submissive can actually transform into intelligence because it takes a gentle woman to learn observe and adapt to changes because of her gentility even the gentle dumb will adjust when taught but all this changes lies with the man and how he wants to run his family and as for me an intelligent arrogant woman is HELL NO for me because they have ripped my life severally with their i too know only to regret when its late. God created women to be submissive(this encompasses gentility, intelligent and co) and not intelligent(this brings about arrogance,gender equality and divorce). NB.... it all depends on the man 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
How about wife material = anyone you can connect with? Connection is the most important thing in marriage. Then, if she can complement you, that's a plus. And if you're physically attracted to her, then that's a super-duper wife material. Intelligent/gentle and whatnot are what kids ponder on while day-dreaming. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by deletrue: 12:05pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
fijiano202: None i dont want to marry a husband(Intelligent girl) or handbag(Gentle girl)But you be man (m). How can you man a husband? Wonderful! |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by TerryCarr(m): 12:08pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.i don't belive that there is so such thing as "weak" men |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by ifoundmyperfect: 12:12pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
A woman who is intelligent, with a sky rocketing IQ, but isn't gentle, recalcitrant and can't be submissive is not wife material for me A woman who is gentle, submissive with a very low IQ, also isnt a wife material for me... A Stubborn Wife Versus A Gentle slowpoke... ^^^ I don't see a choice there... I mean, WFT? Why will anyone venture through such route? Who says one can have both... Thank God for My Heavenly Gift... |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Intelligent women ofcourse. Their brain is always a thing of a beauty. I find them more titillating literally . ![]() |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by fijiano202(m): 12:19pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
deletrue: But you be man (m). How can you man a husband? Wonderful!bros,is this chinese? i dont understand |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by nifton(m): 12:23pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
nerodenero: Your club is gentle,besides,Messi looks gentleTrue talk,barca epitome of gentility and messi the custodian of it. |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Emmaomotob(m): 12:26pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
DonTonero: The word Gentle and intelligence has different meaning based on the writers point of view.....and from the writers point of view no man i repeat no man would go for the intelligent woman except the man is 007 and is willing to die young. No man wants a disrespectful woman and intelligence cannot bring about humility or gentleness but being gentle and submissive can actually transform into intelligence because it takes a gentle woman to learn observe and adapt to changes because of her gentility even the gentle dumb will adjust when taught but all this changes lies with the man and how he wants to run his family and as for me an intelligent arrogant woman is HELL NO for me because they have ripped my life severally with their i too know only to regret when its late. God created women to be submissive(this encompasses gentility, intelligent and co) and not intelligent(this brings about arrogance,gender equality and divorce).I couldn't have said it better. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by Deehvahrzz(f): 12:49pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.His home or their home? |
Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by DonaldGenes(m): 12:51pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Tribe please? Wife material
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Re: Wife Material: Intelligent Girl Or Gentle Girl by 2324xclusive: 12:57pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
[img]http://3.bp..com/-pveND0p4700/U8uySVhA7JI/AAAAAAAABNM/cwdIOZnUiU0/s1600/s.jpg[/img] Nollywood actress, Sola Kosoko Abina, the daughter of popular veteran actor Jide Kosoko, and her husband Abiodun Abina welcomed a baby girl in the US yesterday July 19th. Sola married Abiodun Abina in January 2012. This is the couple’s first child. Congrats to them SOURCE daryoor: we've all heard about how the whole temperament thing, and the conclusion that there is no perfect personality, that all has their pros and cons. |
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