AriDsexy:
Just feel you shouldn't have opened it to start with.

Start With What?

Am guilty of no 1 cos some ladies are so annoyingly shy on the first date that u would end up making all the conversation,all they would say is no,yes and maybe..even till u sleep with them they wont alter much words.....the worst question have ask on a first date was DID You Leave ur House on Empty Stomach? the lady sabi eat ooo

solutions2itech: First dates are awkward already. The fact that you’ll be meeting a somewhat stranger for the first time in an intimate setting is already weird enough. We definitely don’t want to complicate things and make it more uncomfortable by asking silly annoying questions, or questions that quite frankly just cross the line.


1. What Do You Do For Fun?

Yes I know, it’s an easy conversation starter, blah blah blah, but it’s also very unoriginal. Asking me what I do for fun is like asking me what I eat. It all depends on the day and the moment. No one really expects to me to list all the things I do for fun do they? So I give them the standard answer, “I’m open to anything fun.”

2. What Kind Of Guys Do You Like?

So what if by some chance I end up describing a guy that’s the complete opposite of the guy I’m on a date with. Is that wrong? Would that be mean? That’s how I feel when a guy asks me that question. It’s like a set up. So if I’m on a date with a 9-5 guy and he asks me this question, I’ll just tell him I typically prefer dope boys, and 19 guys. Maybe that’ll make him feel better.

Tips--- Don’t ask question you don’t want to hear the answer to.


3. Why Are You Single?

*Takes a deep breathUhmmm.. Why are YOU single? People are single for one or two reasons. The last person they dated was a jerk, or they haven’t found the right person. It’s like asking why is the sky blue? It just is. It’s such an annoying question, yet it’s so common on first dates. You wouldn’t believe the number of people that ask this question. Maybe out of nothing else to ask. Standard answer next time? I’m single because I’m not in a relationship.

4. When Last Did You Have Sex?

Talk about crossing the line. I was on a date with this guy one time, and we were really enjoying ourselves, talking laughing, and there I was thinking “this might be the start of something special”, and then he just blurted out, “When last did you get some?” Excuse me. Just cos I’m laughing with you doesn’t mean you can just cross the line like that. It’s definitely not a first date question, and sends out the signals that you’re after one thing. I mean what if I’m a virgin. That’s just inappropriate, and needless to say

5. What Went Wrong Between You and Your Ex?

This is one of those questions again where someone is crossing the line for a first date. Do you really expect me to sit and tell you all about my last relationship? C'mon we are not in a cinema, It’s annoying already bringing up any kind of ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend topic, but to take it a step further to ask what went wrong is just invasive and quite frankly pretty lame and makes you a looser. some people might still ask naively, but it’s not a good idea. Standard response -- “nothing went wrong”, and sit back and enjoy that confused look on their face.

Do i sound bitter? but sincerely ladies thinking about these annoying questions makes such dates only a trial period lol.. what are the most annoying questions ADD Yours

SOURCE
http://www.delsulinks.com/qtoa/27/five-most-annoying-first-date-questions

I see nothing wrong with 1 and 2 oo!

onila: ARE U A VIRGIN?

Please,are you one of the supermoderators,Seun told me to contact one so that I will change my username....

WIZGUY69: @ op.
face your work o.
look @ ur monicker. i- solutions2itech.
i don't know when u changed it. to soution2iromance.
anyway.

. Lmao.. banky w.. lol

berbs113:
As I no like talk about movie or government nko? Wats gon' happen? We go dey look ourself nah.... Na too eat lunch and move. #smiles

eat lunch and move? Means you cant hold up your own end in a convo if it doesn't require me blabbering about mysel?

Then yeah, please do. We obviously don't connect on an intellectual, no need wasting our time.

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[quote author=solutions2itech]First dates are awkward already. The fact that you’ll be meeting a somewhat stranger for the first time in an intimate setting is already weird enough. We definitely don’t want to complicate things and make it more uncomfortable by asking silly annoying questions, or questions that quite frankly just cross the line.


1. What Do You Do For Fun?

Yes I know, it’s an easy conversation starter, blah blah blah, but it’s also very unoriginal. Asking me what I do for fun is like asking me what I eat. It all depends on the day and the moment. No one really expects to me to list all the things I do for fun do they? So I give them the standard answer, “I’m open to anything fun.”

2. What Kind Of Guys Do You Like?

So what if by some chance I end up describing a guy that’s the complete opposite of the guy I’m on a date with. Is that wrong? Would that be mean? That’s how I feel when a guy asks me that question. It’s like a set up. So if I’m on a date with a 9-5 guy and he asks me this question, I’ll just tell him I typically prefer dope boys, and 19 guys. Maybe that’ll make him feel better.

Tips--- Don’t ask question you don’t want to hear the answer to.


3. Why Are You Single?

*Takes a deep breathUhmmm.. Why are YOU single? People are single for one or two reasons. The last person they dated was a jerk, or they haven’t found the right person. It’s like asking why is the sky blue? It just is. It’s such an annoying question, yet it’s so common on first dates. You wouldn’t believe the number of people that ask this question. Maybe out of nothing else to ask. Standard answer next time? I’m single because I’m not in a relationship.

4. When Last Did You Have Sex?

Talk about crossing the line. I was on a date with this guy one time, and we were really enjoying ourselves, talking laughing, and there I was thinking “this might be the start of something special”, and then he just blurted out, “When last did you get some?” Excuse me. Just cos I’m laughing with you doesn’t mean you can just cross the line like that. It’s definitely not a first date question, and sends out the signals that you’re after one thing. I mean what if I’m a virgin. That’s just inappropriate, and needless to say

5. What Went Wrong Between You and Your Ex?

This is one of those questions again where someone is crossing the line for a first date. Do you really expect me to sit and tell you all about my last relationship? C'mon we are not in a cinema, It’s annoying already bringing up any kind of ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend topic, but to take it a step further to ask what went wrong is just invasive and quite frankly pretty lame and makes you a looser. some people might still ask naively, but it’s not a good idea. Standard response -- “nothing went wrong”, and sit back and enjoy that confused look on their face.

Do i sound bitter? but sincerely ladies thinking about these annoying questions makes such dates only a trial period lol.. what are the most annoying questions ADD Yours

SOURCE
http://www.delsulinks.com/qtoa/27/five-most-annoying-first-date-questions[/quote So what are the proper questions

YoungDaNaval: Start With What?

Not trying to put you on the spot please....just passing

Absolutely ridiculous...
How do you make a conversation without Q&As? How do you get to know about the person you are dealing without probing?

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aint nuffing wrong wit questions 1,2,3 and 4. Bt as 4 question 1 i simply ask, how do u unwind?

LMAO @How's mummy & daddy? [quote author=seunmsg]

Apart no.3 i don't see anything wrong with the questions.

RuuDie: Absolutely ridiculous...
How do you make a conversation without Q&As? How do you get to know about the person you are dealing without probing?

u re right man, was chatting with a new pal nd she was like "u ask 2 many questions" i got freaked out.

princesa:

eat lunch and move? Means you cant hold up your own end in a convo if it doesn't require me blabbering about mysel?

Then yeah, please do. We obviously don't connect on an intellectual, no need wasting our time.

Holding my end in a conversation is not the problem but talking too much doesn't make any sense... Ladies be like dat guy likes talking sha! And if u laugh,ladies be like see hin teeth... On a first date its best to keep things on d low... Talk a little but not on topic the other person is not interested in... Government! I don't like talking about them. Gradually,both parties can express each other in a tone that is more appropriate and avoid asking the wrong questions.

Cheeun: LMAO @How's mummy & daddy?

abi now, wetin person go ask again if you girls are saying we should not ask all the above question.

seunmsg:

abi now, wetin person go ask again if you girls are saying we should not ask all the above question.

Funny dude! Enjoy the rest of the day.

berbs113:
Holding my end in a conversation is not the problem but talking too much doesn't make any sense... Ladies be like dat guy likes talking sha! And if u laugh,ladies be like see hin teeth... On a first date its best to keep things on d low... Talk a little but not on topic the other person is not interested in... Government! I don't like talking about them. Gradually,both parties can express each other in a tone that is more appropriate and avoid asking the wrong questions.

yeah, keeping things on the low is so in tune with what I'm getting at. I don't expect to talk everything about myself neither do I expect you to.

So if you don't like talking about government then we can switch to football. But since i don't like talking about that either, we should find a compromise, Something we both wanna talk about.

But If there isnt, well I guess that's our cue to not hope for a second date. Simple as ABC

Fatdon: What about Do you watch pörn?
Everyone watches porn (gasp, I said
it!). For some reason, girls feel the
need to question their boyfriends
about this topic. Let’s be real for a
moment: Do you really want him to
answer this question honestly? That’s what I thought.

Shhhhhhhhhh....sharap!!! Does everyone watch porn? Hian!!!

princesa:
yeah, keeping things on the low is so in tune with what I'm getting at. I don't expect to talk everything about myself neither do I expect you to.

So if you don't like talking about government then we can switch to football. But since i don't like talking about that either, we should find a compromise, Something we both wanna talk about.

But If there isnt, well I guess that's our cue to not hope for a second date. Simple as ABC

wow! And dats how the cookie crumbles

Na talk dey bring talk na...

You don't need to get to question 3 sef. By the time you have asked one and two, you would have gotten into the person's skin enough to make some better conversation.

berbs113:
wow! And dats how the cookie crumbles

exactly my friend

[quote
author=deo24128]while i dont know the type of people this date is
between. I wonder who'd ever discusses sex and ex's on first
dates[/quote]

I wonder o

Amusaopeyemi: Very right.

Can i kiss you?

Youngmoniii:


Can i kiss you?

Go ahead. *eyes closed*

Freest:
Shhhhhhhhhh....sharap!!! Does everyone watch porn? Hian!!!

You dey craze ni

Whats the biggy asking a lady the last time she had sex over a low budget joke? Uche, Face your work o!