sorom4: Many hearts are bn broken every seconds of the day due to a mere misunderstanding. Though my opinion; i encourage girls (even my gf) to have side guys, cos anything (since we are mere mortals) can make us to go our separate ways. But the funniest part of it is that; she shouldnt let me know or i shouldnt find out that i'm not d only man on scene (cos i love her). I believe that WHAT YOU DONT KNOW that happened at your back means nothing to you

farano: Having a side guy is a no-no for me

onadana: You see because our thinking and way of life is so bastardized we see wrong as right and vice versa.What does one actually mean by side man or guy?...More like having a husband or wife then you have a side one.But that is exactly what is happening today.What is the guarantee that that side one does not have a side one...you see the circle goes on and on.There is no guarantee even with the side one.The fact of the matter is most relationships are so sentimental that they don't reason with their head.To me its so easy to see or know if a relationship is heading somewhere?I don't agree with sex in a relationship..am not even taking from a religious point of view.The point is if you can give me sex..what is the guarantee that some else would not get it.Every body has a line if you can touch it you will certainly get what you want.A guy will never last in a relationship if all he wants is sex and you don't give in.Its just a matter of time he will leave.If he says he wants to marry you then why the hurry to go to bed.But if there is no long term commitment then no one should feel cheated because you are not bound if one decides to eat the forbidden fruit and later starts acting 'strange' when a new show comes along.Its a free world..you don't owe me i don't owe you.

The bottom line is LOVE is LOve..it is either you do it a 100% with all commitment or you don't.Here is the catch.IF A GUY LOVES A GIRL AND VICE VERSA AND THE 'LUCRE OF SODOM' STILL ATTRACTS YOU OR YOU STILL LOOK BACK TO EGYPT....NOT THAT YOU DON'T LOVE THAT PERSON ACCORDING TO YOU WHO IS IN LOVE.BUT THAT SO CALLED LOVE IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO WITHER THE STORM OF SODOM OR EGYPT'....you are not in love...YOU ARE IN LUST...that is why most relationship is LIKE THE LOCAL BARBER'S CHAIR.......ALL MOTION ...BUT NO MOVEMENT.YOU FEEL ME.

abdulwastecx:


wtf... if she do have sex with the side guy she is definitely a hmmmm

prettythicksme: I want a side guy who get money

Fourwinds:
in how many cases will dis be possible. keeping him as side guy for two years. dis is how u girls get rape. what is not rite is not rite

softsparkyy:
I believe you my brother. I don experience am.

softsparkyy:
I believe you my brother. I don experience am.

RuudNisterooy: Hehehehe. This your moniker does not in the least reflect your being a female o.

Dygeasy: Now imagine having 8 different girls and not being the main guy with any of them. That's failure man. Big time failure.

davidif:

Wow!!!!!!! So this is how Nigerian think? Na wa o. Maybe I should tell all my friends never to date a Naija person ever.

Well unless her 'main' boyfriend actually knows that she is seeing another guy at the same time then you can say she is ok but if she has to lie, be deceitful and sneak around so that her main boyfriend does not know then that's cheating plain and simple.

daveP: dont confuse me. Cos until they are pronounced man and wife,its then he or she can be very confident that -yes this is my man, or yes this is my lady. It boils down to the same acting as husband and wife even before they are officially. Which is my point. Chuks and Ada may be doing the husband and wife stuff before officially getting wedded. Yet jst one lil thing and it crumbles. So its nt an assurance/insurance of any relationship.

RuudNisterooy: Hehehehe, i can imagine!
Everyone loves cute babies. I for one am a sucker for cute babies.. I don't know where the love evident in my heart originates from when I c cute babies. .
Me I want cute babies too ooh.

Vikky014: In my opinion,a girl shld nt be sleeping around in d name of side guy like most men do,rada she shld be 9ice to evry guy be it ur main guy or whteva,except if d main man hav paid ur bride price,(so am actually FTC*currently dancing tnx to Glo*)

YoungDaNaval: Ten Yearz What? What was ya offence?

kashman1: no side guy for me

xtervaganza: wow....




How thoughtful of you?




U. Must be comfortable with a guy screwing her then

Orabelle: I wanted to deactivate my alto moniker so I posted with my main moniker asking why I can't decrivate and somebody quoted me to say she has been trying to and before I could say jack seun banned my main moniker for 10 years saying I helped a member deactivate.

MrsChima:

I am not Nigerian nor do I support archaic mentalities.

jnrbayano:



Excellent in excellence!! Wow!!!

Vikthor:

Transgender noni

Seun:
You wanted me to make your account inactive, so I did. Now you have created a new account which we must ban. I don't understand you.

Orabelle: You will.