xynerise:
Are u ok?

FrankySnow: Lol. I was MzMariah before I got a 10 years ban but now its Orabelle all the way.

Fourwinds:
u think u are smart. dose are d ones dat will be with holding d pants from u .telling u dey are virgins

Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up.

prettythicksme: I want a side guy who get money

begwong: They always have Them.... I parted with a lady after we couldn't reconcile a few issues prior to our marriage, but after 2 months of our separation, she got married to a Stanby side guy who to me is Mr available.

holusormi:

The fact that that binch in ur area did it to you doesnt mean anoa geh will do it to me,, bro u don chop this night?

Galads: Frm most of the post, I see a reason why a lot of ladies are single. You keep a side guy, u think ur main guy is a fool not to know? He might pretend and keep eating ur punny. You also think d side guy will just keep being nice foer nothing? At the end of the day, u loose both because you want to be smart to eat your cake and still have it. Which normal guy will know his babe is keeping side guys while pretending to be faithful will still marry dat prositute? Or which side guy will find out is a side guy and still wanna keep a cheat? When u now get to 30 without husband, na TB joshua everyday telling pple na frm village them do u. Not knowing u were once a decent prostitute who used her hands to render heresef single.

Margy:

And it is a yes yes for me

MrsChima:

duh!!

Fourwinds:
dat guy was already there. dats y she didn't mind for a break up. but. nemesis will still catch up with her because she wasn't plain.

onadana: You see because our thinking and way of life is so bastardized we see wrong as right and vice versa.What does one actually mean by side man or guy?...More like having a husband or wife then you have a side one.But that is exactly what is happening today.What is the guarantee that that side one does not have a side one...you see the circle goes on and on.There is no guarantee even with the side one.The fact of the matter is most relationships are so sentimental that they don't reason with their head.To me its so easy to see or know if a relationship is heading somewhere?I don't agree with sex in a relationship..am not even taking from a religious point of view.The point is if you can give me sex..what is the guarantee that some else would not get it.Every body has a line if you can touch it you will certainly get what you want.A guy will never last in a relationship if all he wants is sex and you don't give in.Its just a matter of time he will leave.If he says he wants to marry you then why the hurry to go to bed.But if there is no long term commitment then no one should feel cheated because you are not bound if one decides to eat the forbidden fruit and later starts acting 'strange' when a new show comes along.Its a free world..you don't owe me i don't owe you.

The bottom line is LOVE is LOve..it is either you do it a 100% with all commitment or you don't.Here is the catch.IF A GUY LOVES A GIRL AND VICE VERSA AND THE 'LUCRE OF SODOM' STILL ATTRACTS YOU OR YOU STILL LOOK BACK TO EGYPT....NOT THAT YOU DON'T LOVE THAT PERSON ACCORDING TO YOU WHO IS IN LOVE.BUT THAT SO CALLED LOVE IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO WITHER THE STORM OF SODOM OR EGYPT'....you are not in love...YOU ARE IN LUST...that is why most relationship is LIKE THE LOCAL BARBER'S CHAIR.......ALL MOTION ...BUT NO MOVEMENT.YOU FEEL ME.

miztola: yes she should!! guys can't be trusted and most of them have side chicks

Bootybuttchic: its simply cheating!
people and long throat sha,...eating from two plates with style

after dating a guy for atleast six months,u shld knw if hes goin to be a the main guy or not,a keeper or not ....stop fooling around jor....gurls can be vexing atimes

RuudNisterooy: This right here is one of the reasons many marriages crash woefully before they even started these days.
How can you encourage someone to keep a side guy/girl? If you are in, stay in. Don't put one leg in the house and have the other outside.
When you concentrate on one relationship you've a better chance at making things work, you've a better chance at being the kinda person your partner will come to cherish. You don't have to keep your attention divided.
If after giving your best and it didn't work out, fine! You can pack your bags and leave, at least u'd be satisfied inside that you gave your best. And trust me, someday someone will come around who'll totally be swept off their feet by the best you give.
There's nothing right at all 'bout having side chicks/guys, even with all the beautiful excuses.

Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up.

Beemahn: ur 'cousin sister'? Op we know this story is a product of ur imaqination but next time pls try and make it more believable... dis isnt' nollywood. my cousin sister ko? my sister's brother ni?

Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up.

Dipville: @MissEmjay....logically I fink u right.....but pls can u explain the 'INADEQUACY'?

ozo13: u wr d side guy in such a case bro

sorom4: Many hearts are bn broken every seconds of the day due to a mere misunderstanding. Though my opinion; i encourage girls (even my gf) to have side guys, cos anything (since we are mere mortals) can make us to go our separate ways. But the funniest part of it is that; she shouldnt let me know or i shouldnt find out that i'm not d only man on scene (cos i love her). I believe that WHAT YOU DONT KNOW that happened at your back means nothing to you

heartmatters: see how all these guys are getting worked up, yet they are the baba's @ keeping side chicks and cheating.