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Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Fourwinds: 11:26pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
xynerise:he must have seen ur foto. he taught u were a female maybe |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:30pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
FrankySnow: Lol. I was MzMariah before I got a 10 years ban but now its Orabelle all the way.Ten Yearz What? What was ya offence? |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by holusormi(m): 11:30pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
Fourwinds: The fact that that binch in ur area did it to you doesnt mean anoa geh will do it to me,, bro u don chop this night? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by jgatherer(m): 11:33pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up.God Bless you sir |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
prettythicksme: I want a side guy who get moneyur punnany still dey tight? |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Fourwinds: 11:46pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
begwong: They always have Them.... I parted with a lady after we couldn't reconcile a few issues prior to our marriage, but after 2 months of our separation, she got married to a Stanby side guy who to me is Mr available.dat guy was already there. dats y she didn't mind for a break up. but. nemesis will still catch up with her because she wasn't plain. |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Fourwinds: 11:48pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
holusormi:I don't nid to trade words with u. best of luck |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Galads(m): 11:48pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
Frm most of the post, I see a reason why a lot of ladies are single. You keep a side guy, u think ur main guy is a fool not to know? He might pretend and keep eating ur punny. You also think d side guy will just keep being nice foer nothing? At the end of the day, u loose both because you want to be smart to eat your cake and still have it. Which normal guy will know his babe is keeping side guys while pretending to be faithful will still marry dat prositute? Or which side guy will find out is a side guy and still wanna keep a cheat? When u now get to 30 without husband, na TB joshua everyday telling pple na frm village them do u. Not knowing u were once a decent prostitute who used her hands to render heresef single. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by lalasticlala(m): 11:51pm On Aug 23, 2014 |
Galads: Frm most of the post, I see a reason why a lot of ladies are single. You keep a side guy, u think ur main guy is a fool not to know? He might pretend and keep eating ur punny. You also think d side guy will just keep being nice foer nothing? At the end of the day, u loose both because you want to be smart to eat your cake and still have it. Which normal guy will know his babe is keeping side guys while pretending to be faithful will still marry dat prositute? Or which side guy will find out is a side guy and still wanna keep a cheat? When u now get to 30 without husband, na TB joshua everyday telling pple na frm village them do u. Not knowing u were once a decent prostitute who used her hands to render heresef single.LOL CHOI! |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Abbey247: 12:04am On Aug 24, 2014 |
It is not advisable for a lady to have a side guy...... It backfire in most cases |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Deguy12: 12:10am On Aug 24, 2014 |
With all these side guys issue here and the massive support it has gotten from most chics , so could it finally be confirmed that women cheat more than guys or better still, women are more of cheats than guys these days ![]() |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Homguy(m): 12:11am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Margy:and you sleep with all your side guys? |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by tosyne2much(m): 12:21am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Having a side- guy wil one day haunt you whether you sleep with him or not cos dats where problems will sooner or later set it... There's no true justification for dis poo, what is not gud is not gud and it shldnt be edited or modified jst to suit ur standard or your unrighteousness.. A lady wit a side-guy is not worthy of trust |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by davidif: 12:44am On Aug 24, 2014 |
MrsChima: Wow!!!!!!! So this is how Nigerian think? Na wa o. Maybe I should tell all my friends never to date a Naija person ever. Well unless her 'main' boyfriend actually knows that she is seeing another guy at the same time then you can say she is ok but if she has to lie, be deceitful and sneak around so that her main boyfriend does not know then that's cheating plain and simple. |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by ozo13(m): 1:09am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Fourwinds:u wr d side guy in such a case bro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by onadana: 1:33am On Aug 24, 2014 |
You see because our thinking and way of life is so bastardized we see wrong as right and vice versa.What does one actually mean by side man or guy?...More like having a husband or wife then you have a side one.But that is exactly what is happening today.What is the guarantee that that side one does not have a side one...you see the circle goes on and on.There is no guarantee even with the side one.The fact of the matter is most relationships are so sentimental that they don't reason with their head.To me its so easy to see or know if a relationship is heading somewhere?I don't agree with sex in a relationship..am not even taking from a religious point of view.The point is if you can give me sex..what is the guarantee that some else would not get it.Every body has a line if you can touch it you will certainly get what you want.A guy will never last in a relationship if all he wants is sex and you don't give in.Its just a matter of time he will leave.If he says he wants to marry you then why the hurry to go to bed.But if there is no long term commitment then no one should feel cheated because you are not bound if one decides to eat the forbidden fruit and later starts acting 'strange' when a new show comes along.Its a free world..you don't owe me i don't owe you. The bottom line is LOVE is LOve..it is either you do it a 100% with all commitment or you don't.Here is the catch.IF A GUY LOVES A GIRL AND VICE VERSA AND THE 'LUCRE OF SODOM' STILL ATTRACTS YOU OR YOU STILL LOOK BACK TO EGYPT....NOT THAT YOU DON'T LOVE THAT PERSON ACCORDING TO YOU WHO IS IN LOVE.BUT THAT SO CALLED LOVE IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO WITHER THE STORM OF SODOM OR EGYPT'....you are not in love...YOU ARE IN LUST...that is why most relationship is LIKE THE LOCAL BARBER'S CHAIR.......ALL MOTION ...BUT NO MOVEMENT.YOU FEEL ME. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Lankaline(m): 1:51am On Aug 24, 2014 |
onadana: You see because our thinking and way of life is so bastardized we see wrong as right and vice versa.What does one actually mean by side man or guy?...More like having a husband or wife then you have a side one.But that is exactly what is happening today.What is the guarantee that that side one does not have a side one...you see the circle goes on and on.There is no guarantee even with the side one.The fact of the matter is most relationships are so sentimental that they don't reason with their head.To me its so easy to see or know if a relationship is heading somewhere?I don't agree with sex in a relationship..am not even taking from a religious point of view.The point is if you can give me sex..what is the guarantee that some else would not get it.Every body has a line if you can touch it you will certainly get what you want.A guy will never last in a relationship if all he wants is sex and you don't give in.Its just a matter of time he will leave.If he says he wants to marry you then why the hurry to go to bed.But if there is no long term commitment then no one should feel cheated because you are not bound if one decides to eat the forbidden fruit and later starts acting 'strange' when a new show comes along.Its a free world..you don't owe me i don't owe you. go to bed N!gga,,!ts already late |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by jnrbayano(m): 2:45am On Aug 24, 2014 |
miztola: yes she should!! guys can't be trusted and most of them have side chicks Nne be careful, the bold, so powerful it is has transformed many ladies who held firm to that tenet into I-have-been-called-to-remain-a-spinster-for-life warriors. ![]() |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by jnrbayano(m): 2:51am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: its simply cheating! RuudNisterooy: This right here is one of the reasons many marriages crash woefully before they even started these days. Excellent in excellence!! Wow!!! |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Osakah24(m): 3:05am On Aug 24, 2014 |
you will always make comparisons and thats where the wahala starts from |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by tonyx4x44(m): 4:38am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up. very sensible |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by samurairulzz(m): 5:49am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Beemahn: ur 'cousin sister'? Op we know this story is a product of ur imaqination but next time pls try and make it more believable... dis isnt' nollywood. my cousin sister ko? my sister's brother ni?CHAI!!! Dia ris God ooooo |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by lagcity(m): 6:33am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Rubbish. Hey ladies, if you ever find yourself needing a "side guy", then you haven't chosen a quality "main guy" in the first place. In courtship, 2 fives don't make a ten. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by sexylogan(m): 6:37am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Most girls have sides guys, it is not new. Infact Girls have more side guys, than guys but what they don't know is that it complicates things for them. If you don't trust guys then stop investing emotionaly in your relationship. Her reason is no excuse at all. A girl's heart, like her body, is not designed to handle side guys. It kills their ability to bond. Side guys/girls is the reason most people do not work on their relationship because there is an alternative. If you don't like/trust your partner then brake-up. Tallesty1 yearning sense again as usual. I completely agree bro |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by sorom4: 6:52am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Many hearts are bn broken every seconds of the day due to a mere misunderstanding. Though my opinion; i encourage girls (even my gf) to have side guys, cos anything (since we are mere mortals) can make us to go our separate ways. But the funniest part of it is that; she shouldnt let me know or i shouldnt find out that i'm not d only man on scene (cos i love her). I believe that WHAT YOU DONT KNOW that happened at your back means nothing to you |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by missEmjay(f): 7:20am On Aug 24, 2014 |
Dipville: @MissEmjay....logically I fink u right.....but pls can u explain the 'INADEQUACY'?well, When a girl doesn't get everything(which may sometimes include assurance of marriage) from the main guy. Ladies want a sense of security and a whole lot of commitment in a relationship. so, lack of these is what I call 'inadequacy' |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Anny45: 7:35am On Aug 24, 2014 |
In as much as having a side guy is wrong,I don't encorage any lady to put all her eggs in one basket.You think you have a main guy,only to find out later that you are just his side chick,what happens? Relationship these days is complicated! My cousin's friend had this guy she was so madly in love with that she never allowed anyone come close,the guy proposed to her and after some months,came up with some flimsy excuses. She was heart broken and it took alot of talking to and encouragement to make her feel better. I don't think ppl are sincere with r/s anymore. |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Dailyfavour(m): 7:49am On Aug 24, 2014 |
If she can withstand it (tho not good), but she should bear in mind that AID & EBOLA are real. True men could be funny somtime but once hook its a cross to carry |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by Fourwinds: 7:49am On Aug 24, 2014 |
ozo13: u wr d side guy in such a case brou are so sure. u must be a prophet |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by lalasticlala(m): 8:00am On Aug 24, 2014 |
sorom4: Many hearts are bn broken every seconds of the day due to a mere misunderstanding. Though my opinion; i encourage girls (even my gf) to have side guys, cos anything (since we are mere mortals) can make us to go our separate ways. But the funniest part of it is that; she shouldnt let me know or i shouldnt find out that i'm not d only man on scene (cos i love her). I believe that WHAT YOU DONT KNOW that happened at your back means nothing to you |
Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by xtervaganza(m): 8:02am On Aug 24, 2014 |
heartmatters: see how all these guys are getting worked up, yet they are the baba's @ keeping side chicks and cheating.believe me, miss I have no problem with her keeping a side guy or whatever she wants to call it But why on earth would a young man ask you out on a date and you invited 2 of your friends along? She's lucky I'm not the guy, I'll leave right there and pretend like I've never seen her b4 |
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