prettythicksme: yea because most guys are irresponsible these days

prettythicksme: yea because most guys are irresponsible these days

xynerise:
But side guys can be friendzoned?

Dygeasy: No. That's a different ball game. A friendzoned guy is on no side at all. He is under the girl's foot to be trampled on as she wishes.

Dygeasy: No. That's a different ball game. A friendzoned guy is on no side at all. He is under the girl's foot to be trampled on as she wishes.

lalasticlala: My cousin sister called me sometime ago, that she would wanna see me. I asked her where she was, she told me to meet her at a fast food joint. About an hour later, I was there. I met her in company of a her very pretty friend and one guy.

I fixed my eyes more on her friend and took few glances at the guy. I noticed that the guy actually took them out because of my cousin. But I was worried.
My worry stemmed from the fact that I knew my cousin's man, as in her fiance or something and the guy I saw with her was definitely not the guy I knew.
I said to myself, may be it's just a harmless date.

Later, I asked my cousin About her main guy, she said he's OK. Then she made me understand that the guy I met with her was just a new friend that likes her and wants a date. I asked her what her answer was since she already has a guy.
She bluntly and confidently told me that she can't put her eggs in one basket.
" Hey!! bros, I can't put my eggs in one basket, what if Chucks disappoints me tomorrow and decides to marry another girl? I will just keep this guy as a 'side guy' in case of disappointments ooo!!"
These were her exact words.

I burst out in laughter. Shuooooo!!! I thought that it's only some few guys that have "side chicks".

Well, I tried to encourage her to maintain just one guy at a time since Chucks, her main guy has shown sign of seriousness in their relationship. But she wouldn't hear of that.

So babes, what's your take on having a "side guy" in case of disappointment? Does it worth it?
What of in the course of having the so called "side guy" and the main guy discovers and she loses the main guy or even loses both guys?

If a babe must have a side guy in case of 'disappointment', how would she go about it? Would there be sex with the side guy?

Bootybuttchic: its simply cheating!
people and long throat sha,...eating from two plates with style

after dating a guy for atleast six months,u shld knw if hes goin to be a the main guy or not,a keeper or not ....stop fooling around jor....gurls can be vexing atimes

Bootybuttchic: its simply cheating!
people and long throat sha,...eating from two plates with style

after dating a guy for atleast six months,u shld knw if hes goin to be a the main guy or not,a keeper or not ....stop fooling around jor....gurls can be vexing atimes

Lancelott: Let's look at it like this.....the people who claim guys are cheats should reason with this logic: the guys don't cheat with their fellow males (cos I call having a side person cheating)..they cheat with females, so those who accuse guys of irresponsibility should know that the guys are also being "irresponsible" with females like them...if the so called "responsible" females should refuse indecency, then we won't be having this debate. Having a side guy or chick is a wrong notion cos if you don't feel right with your lover then leave #shikena...this is hw marriage will soon loose its sacredness lil by lil..

missEmjay: IN MY OPINION, I DON'T THINK ITS SUCH A NICE THING TO DO. I MEAN, IF I WERE THE MAIN GUY, I WOULDN'T LIKE TO BE SHARING MY GF WITH SOME SIDE-GUY. BUT I GUESS ITS DUE TO 'INADEQUACY' ON THE PART OF THE MAIN GUY THAT MAKES MOST GALS OPT FOR SIDE-GUYS

xynerise: Having a ''Side guy'' is absolutely necessary these days. Guys are getting irresponsible by the day and girls shouldn't take that chance and ''miss the train going to heaven''. One thing that I totally disagree with having a side guy is the involvement of sex in the affair.

Galads: Side guys, what an interesting topic which brings me to my own story. Am a kinda person that believes anything you can't tell or hiding from your partner is cheating. Be it text, chats etc. To cut the long story short, I notice she started keeping side guys and still she wants me 100% committed. If any girl calls me, she starts accusing me they are my gf. It got so bad till d day I decided to even check if this babe is actuAlly 100% faithful. Checking her phone, I almost fainted.infact I called her a prostitute, that is a girl I planned to marry. But rite now, I need face my hustle and forget women. Ladies, if u think side guys are the best for u, think twice as for dat girl that use to be in my life, she will soon realize that 80% of guys that are too over nice to you are out there only wanna get inbtw ur legs. Peace

TrYcIa1: U have just said ma mind

ezeemilk: Omoh na side guy chop em pass oo when one mumu go dey for side as d main guy nd no puna for am...I am a virgin, I want to keep ma self untill we marry , I promise to reserve it for u ..dos are lies gals tel d good(main) guy when d side guy don tier to chop her....,eyaah!! , na all dis church 'good ' boiz dey suffer am pass.

holusormi:

Trust me sire ,, with my little level of experience ,, once I get into get pants I'll know if she's a fresh church GEH or an over-fuked,husband searching binch

carefreewannabe: NO!

If you expect something bad to happen, in this case, someone to disppoint you, it is very likely that it will happen. It is called self-fulfilling prophecy. Believe in your partner as long as he / she does not give you a reason to doubt him / her and your chances to have a good relationship are better.


In case he / she messes up, you can still move on and find someone new.

lalasticlala:

exactly, at least I know one that approves of it, they are both students so d girl gives him money from d numerous men she keeps.

heartmatters: see how all these guys are getting worked up, yet they are the baba's @ keeping side chicks and cheating.

adediamond07: for every "side guy" you have there'll be "side kick" to your relationship and beyond.

...or are you prepared to have "side man" in your marriage......... believe it or leave it most of the so called "side guy" will still be there to /explore/ you after you are married.