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My Friend Doesn't Believe In Marriage .counsel Needed Please / Please She Needs An Urgent Counsel / Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. (2) (3) (4)
Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
I am in a lot of trouble. I dated my ex for a few years but we had to break up ten months ago because of same genotype issue. A month ago, I finally met this great guy after not being able to date for a while and we hit it off immediately. I went to see my ex for one last "kiss" and we ended up having sex. I wasn't in my safe period and we didn't use a condom in the heat of passion. My new boo and I went out partying five days later and came back high. While we were having sex, the condom broke. I immediately got up and went to pee o. Now my period is late and I'm trying to figure out who may be the father. Is it my ex or my current boo? If I tell my ex it's him, we'd have to get.married, same with the other guy. What if I tell my current boo it's his and then later start seeing my ex in the baby's face?? I'm really confused on what to do and I need to act fast. I don't want to tell either of them that I slept with the other around the same period. I would prefer to marry my ex though, I still love him so much and he loves me too''. What should I do? Please, no.insults......... constructive advice. Source :Nigeria info |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 9:12pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() let me now scold you,so you went to see your ex for one last kiss,as in,one LAST kiss ![]() ![]() Then in the heat of the passion, you got carried away. ..unprotected sex with someone you had not seen in a long time ![]() ![]() And 5 days later you went back to your boyfriend to get shagged? ![]() How old are you? |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
I usually reserve my comments Hun, but just say you know, please drag your butts off and see a doctor immediately. I know things get heated sometimes, it's the Devil's work. ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by edwife(f): 9:23pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
You know who the father is.Just go to see your doctor and know how far gone you are,there lies the answer. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Kanwulia: 9:29pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Unbelievable! We nefa judge the genotype issue finish. . . .You kam add RUNZ and GANJA to add h-inSOT to h-injury. You should be CHARGED and CONVICTED for reckless endangerment! If you have given up on YOUR OWN LIFE. . . .no need to drag others down your part of MISERY! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 9:31pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Unbelievable! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
One last kiss ![]() as in you left your house withithe sole intention and purpose of going to your ex's for one last kiss ![]() ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by thorpido(m): 9:48pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
I hope you are not a troll...... I think you should suspend marriage.Go ahead and have your baby. After the baby is born,do a paternity test to ascertain who the father is. Make your life decision after that. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by SAMBARRY: 10:01pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
I don't know which is more funny whether na your post orops own ![]() ![]() iwakolewa: |
Re: Constructive Counsel by SAMBARRY: 10:05pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
![]() ![]() ![]() please help me slam op flavour nabanias music video that he sang waka waka baby, chuku chuku baby, I go tell my mama.baby sawale ![]() Kanwulia: Unbelievable! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Kanwulia: 10:07pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: If there is anything I can't stand. . . it is PHOCKING WITHOUT A SENSE OF PURPOSE! ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by SAMBARRY: 10:08pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
@kanwulia if you didn't see flavours own play her one more night by Phil collins ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Kanwulia: 10:09pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Givemejoy: I am in a lot of trouble. I dated my ex for a few years but we had to break up ten months ago because of same genotype issue. A month ago, I finally met this Unfortunately. . . stories like yours are more of a reality than we can ever imagine. It is a tragedy! ![]() The word 'boo' must be new to your lexicon. The way you dey use am dey sweeeeet you welehi telehi! I will stop here. . . since you politely asked for 'no insults'! You for hiaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrram gaaaan! ![]() [size=4pt]*ijjjiot*[/size] ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Constructive Counsel by SAMBARRY: 10:09pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Kanwulia: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 10:11pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Try to find out when you were most likely to ovulate. This will not help you know who the father is for sure but it may give you a hint. You will have to choose among some possibilities now. You will have to decide whether you want to keep the pregnancy or not. I also recommend that you tell your ex and your boyfriend about the pregnancy. My two cents. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Kanwulia: 10:12pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
this modify button too dey close to the 'quote' button o. shior! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
I thought the whole idea of breaking up with your ex was becasue you both didnt want to bring SS babies into the world So how come you may be pregnant with his baby? Doesnt that defeat the purpose of the break up in the first instance? Why then bother breaking up with him, if you were both going to recklessly have a baby. It sounds like deep down in you both, you both wanted this to happen, so that you have an excuse to contiune with your relationship. its the new BF I feel sorry for as it seems that he is just a pawn in an game. 1 Like |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 10:43pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: I don't know which is more funny whether na your post orops own ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Copy and paste story. Nice try.You better open up about the blog from which you picked this story. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by beeevan: 11:37pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
So much for serving it up and down like ceremonial Kolanuts ![]() |
Re: Constructive Counsel by egopersonified(f): 6:02pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Just imagine marrying your new bf, who might be AA and giving birth to an SS baby. I dont envy you at all. Just start calculating the calculatable, do at least 2 diff scans and seek the advice of a doctor before u hand over the baby to the wrong person. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nmeri17: 12:48pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
ummm OP is this you ![]() plot twist: you're prolly carrying twins like Eve carried Adam and the serpent's seed. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by breathless(m): 5:04pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Constructive councel for a destructive act? Can't place it. OP, ever tried recontructing a damaged object or situation? |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
breathless: Constructive councel for a destructive act? Can't place it. @bold May I ask if you haven't? |
Re: Constructive Counsel by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Op, I feel so sorry for whom ever ends up with a leech like u. Better call your new man and tell him what a miserable wretch you are. |
Re: Constructive Counsel by justcallbuki(f): 6:14pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
you better get rid of it sharply to avoid story that touches! #myview |
Re: Constructive Counsel by breathless(m): 9:55pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
May I ask if you haven't? If you have, does it look as good and real like the original? |
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