3cycle:
I have learnt not to propose to a Guy and I learnt it the hard way, so please instead give a green light and let Him come to you

Kinkybraids: I'm too picky and Im still focused on other things that I value more than a relationship but I will admit it it does get lonely

mindworx: hmmn,
One reason why am still single ? ...
I think my ambitions are too big, and consequently i think less about having a girl.
But now my Mum is restless.. and i can't even believe my brother also called to ask me what am doing about it. .. lol, this is crazy

chidyhels:
Dont know who to believe again.
Green light has failed me too

chidyhels:
Dont know who to believe again.
Green light has failed me too

chidyhels:
Dont know who to believe again.
Green light has failed me too

jomile:

3cycle:
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains Favour from the lord.
Go get yourself a girl, settledown and watch how being "responsible" helps a man achieve greater Things inlife.

Goodluck sir

Tallesty1: No oooo. I didn't say that.


You gave two reasons and I replied the first one which is you being picky.

Most picky people do not know what they want.

They have unrealistic wants and needs in a partner, some things that even the gods cannot give. Some of them often want qualities that they are unable to give. Some want a man that is giving and unselfish but they themselves are self centered and too immature to appreciate a giving man.

Relationship should be balanced, if you can't give what you want then the probability of you getting what you want is very low.

marieolae: Not ready to be committed, due to skl and other things

GANDALF1:


What if God has programmed an ogun man for you?

Cutekemitola: Don't wanna have any emotional attachments...at least for now!!!

mindworx:

3cycle, thanks for this. But i wanna ask ... why then is it that some married men find it hard to continue in the momentum of their pursuits as compared to when they were single? Some married friends have said, 'Guy, stretch and get the things you want to do while u're still single. When you get married, all the family cares comes first before your own desires'. Not like am scared, i'm doing fine, but all these 'advices' sounds like true.

deesquarediddy: First, growing up was rough. I thank god for my life today but I have a minimum standard I can't compromise when it comes to caring for my wife and kids. Financially, I’ve not reached that level (I thank God still, I’m not poor).

Secondly, I love ladies with brains and I still want her to be very beautiful yet submissive (I’m not the controlling type). Most of the brainy ladies are average looking and just few of the very beautiful ladies have high IQ. I strongly believe I’ll one day find one of those ladies that posses all these qualities (so few).

I’m yet to meet that lady that will keep me interested in the relationship all without sex (Sex shouldn’t be all she’s got to offer). It takes a lot of courage and discipline to dig one hole for life. Beauty fades faster than you think and I’ll want a reason, a bond that will keep me glued to my partner for life.

In conclusion, what I want is a lady with ‘spark’ and independence. When I find one, I’ll put a ring on it.

darnley16: hem hem ,aunty , no vex o but no be you post a topic say u dey find husband?

nedum87: @GANDALF1, hehehehe lol but God said he will give us our desire n wat we ask 4 in him name....so,i won't b left out..sowwwwi