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Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:06am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Not even god can make me do so, but what will even attract me to a single mother ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by deavicky(m): 8:07am On Oct 02, 2014 |
A single broke mother na God go save her if not, her next option should be an old man because they are more mature as requested. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by austinereds(m): 8:07am On Oct 02, 2014 |
complete turn off for me.ain't easy taking care of a woman with child....even after accepting responsibility u will face an uphill problem esp if the kid is a male child.. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by thorpido(m): 8:07am On Oct 02, 2014 |
To those saying a single mother proves she is fertile,HOW WRONG YOU ARE! There is something called SECONDARY INFERTILITY.That a woman has had a child is no guarantee that she can have another one.There are countless women struggling to get pregnant again after they already had a child.Every pregnancy is unique. I'm not against single mothers,I'm just disputing the hypothesis that having had a child means fertility. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by khiaa(f): 8:10am On Oct 02, 2014 |
MadCow1: Observations of a Mad Cow.. Why are most of the responses on this thread so far gender bias towards the women? The title didn't specify single mothers, it said "someone who has a child".. Even the female respondents are ignoring the single fathers and focusing on single mothers like they are lesbians. The op said single mothers out of wedlock. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by leonshom(m): 8:12am On Oct 02, 2014 |
krall: Big turn off. What if d father of the child is married to another woman? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:14am On Oct 02, 2014 |
khiaa: Khia, Are you a single Mum? 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Lilimax(f): 8:14am On Oct 02, 2014 |
dhardline: Its still ok to marry a lady who already has a child,those who dont have yet do you know how many abortions(murder)they have committed?no body holy pass. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by omofela85(m): 8:14am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Can you also marry someone you dated for two years and after which there is a dispute between the. The lady in question got pregnant and gave birth to a bouncing baby boy but not happy in her marital home and she and the friend of my now have get back on a normal note. She want to come back. After 1 for somebody else. Hell no for me.what of you |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by freecocoa(f): 8:14am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Better a single mum than a serial abortionist abi abortioner if you asked me. Yea I can marry a single father, but to be honest, it would be a lot easier if the child was a sweetheart and not one pain in the a$$ ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Lilimax(f): 8:14am On Oct 02, 2014 |
dmz: Makes no difference to me. As long as there is no serious complications with the baby daddy. Respect for people who don't take the easy way out (abortion). |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Fourwinds: 8:15am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Aystormz:den y did she plug her head into such situation. it means she didn't prepare and plan |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Lilimax(f): 8:15am On Oct 02, 2014 |
freecocoa: Better a single mum than a serial abortionist abi abortioner if you asked me.So true! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Dt03(m): 8:15am On Oct 02, 2014 |
yes i can |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by 100Cents: 8:15am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Do not try this at home.. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by ojialo(m): 8:15am On Oct 02, 2014 |
austinereds: complete turn off for me.ain't easy taking care of a woman with child....even after accepting responsibility u will face an uphill problem esp if the kid is a male child.. explain better. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:18am On Oct 02, 2014 |
It is going to be a hard one for me to take.. Though my acceptance will hugely depend on my love for her and the scenario surrounding the child. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:19am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Marrying someone after one child is like buying a london used phone. You lose the privilege of breaking the seal. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by ojialo(m): 8:19am On Oct 02, 2014 |
I don't see anything wrong dating a single mother.... my woman was once married with a child... I'm enjoying my relationship. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Fourwinds: 8:22am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Aystormz:y do u think some people especially men are getting married in late30s.it is because of future of deir children. dey plan and prepare ahead. as a lady ask a man y he is not married even when he is 40? do u know some men know what dey want before plunging into d river. na sense. ooooi. hold ur blocus if u know say u no fit train child now and girls close dose legs if u don't have plan for urself |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by jude33084(m): 8:25am On Oct 02, 2014 |
If some guys can patronize ashawo and later marry them, why can't you marry a single mother or father? ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by paris10: 8:26am On Oct 02, 2014 |
A lot of single parents on this forum are going to have a sleepless night 'cause of all the negative comments about them. Its unfair sha to judge people based on the 'mistake' they did. But seriously, single ladies dont give a monkey about you guys too. They love their children. They're glad they didn't do what the younger ladies would do...abortion. Single parents are lovely people who dont bullsh*t about. They are matured of the things of life and care much more than your average chewing gum girls. Disadvantage: They are not that happy people. It will take patience and love and lots of money and caring to make them happy. Love their kids too. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Fourwinds: 8:26am On Oct 02, 2014 |
freecocoa: Better a single mum than a serial abortionist abi abortioner if you asked me.u can see conditions adding up |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by awofe20(m): 8:27am On Oct 02, 2014 |
NO |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Isiterere(m): 8:28am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Safari29:this so happened to me, I was third on her priority. Everything is all about her and the baby.They can be very insecure even more than a complete single gal. This same reason was part of why I quit the relationship. ALL IZZ WELL |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by khiaa(f): 8:30am On Oct 02, 2014 |
thorpido: To those saying a single mother proves she is fertile,HOW WRONG YOU ARE! Yes this is true there is no guarantee of a pregnancy because the new man (you) could be the one who is infertile. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by biolamoshood: 8:30am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Omo bibi okin se arun, single mother is d best |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by kennynelcon(m): 8:30am On Oct 02, 2014 |
It makes family complicated |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by kennynelcon(m): 8:31am On Oct 02, 2014 |
It makes family complicated, NO |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by DWJOBScom(m): 8:31am On Oct 02, 2014 |
khiaa: Will be a good friend(with all the alarms on) court when she checks and marry afterwards |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by leonshom(m): 8:32am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Being a single mother is not as bad as the society painted it. A single mother could make a good wife, while a woman without a child could as well make a good wife. It depends on those in this shoe to know their reasons for getting married,especially the man involved. Single parenting might have been as a result of broken home/divorce,unwanted pregnancy "wedlock",failed promises/relationship etc. It both have its advantages and disadvantages. So far they both can love and understand each other, they should have a good home. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by macjireh: 8:33am On Oct 02, 2014 |
databoy247: I have often been in hot conversations with other peeps, and most of them sound like it's a taboo to get married to a lady who has a child (maybe out of wedlock). It's usually cool when they as guys having one or two kids wants a lady to get married to them but when its the reverse, na war. SINCE U HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH DAT, LEMME KNOW SO I CAN LINK U WITH ONE, AM SURE U WILL LOVE HER |
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