Ceasar1:



Are you a single Mum?

MadCow1: [b]Yes I can...

But wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It requires a whole nother level of maturity of mind and mental strength.. You have to deal with certain emotional dramas that can really fhuck up the feeble minded and put untold strain on the relationship.. You have to try to raise another man's kid like they were yours. You have to deal with her/his past that keeps looking at you in the face daily. Let's not talk about the step parent drama that most step kids bring with them. Also when you now have your own kids, the battle line of fairness and equality is drawn and everytime you accidentally fhuck up by treating yours differently to theirs, the fall out is big. Infact you are almost always required to treat your step kids better than you would treat yours as they are technically the victims in your relationship. If the spouse with the kid isn't also mentally mature, they tend to create even more problems than the kids. In some cases, they start hoarding their assets and stashing them for their own kid for inheritance purposes. Every disciplinary action to take towards the other person's kid is seen as exaggerated and excessive. You most times end up emotionally messed up cos having to deal with that drama does tend to take its toll on you eventually.

In my opinion, I would highly discourage it.

Simply put, marrying a single parent is not for the emotionally weak.. But I believe I can handle that.

Thanks.[/b]

ojialo: I don't see anything wrong dating a single mother.... my woman was once married with a child... I'm enjoying my relationship.

yemaldo: for those of u saying yes,my first question for u is
1,how would u feel when d real father appear to take his child(maybe after d child's graduatn or when its time for his or her wedding)
2,will u allow her to visit that child father? dont u think d man may attempt to phuck her again and do u think ur wife can resist it?

free2ryhme: If all keeping specifying the kind of single mother they want to marry with specific qualities and xter my question remains if you eventually find the woman with all these why can't she with all the right qualities and xter maintain her current marriage with her child's father? Except her husband is late which is an exception.

MadCow1:


Utter rubbish.. No offence.

Your concerns are the least of the issues associated with marrying a single parent.

Fourwinds:
u can see conditions adding up

AdeniyiA: At least it shows her fertility, how do you explain a lady who had had several unprotected intimacy not having a baby, it's either she's done abortions or she's infertile, either way what's d assurance she'd be able to conceive when married /

Pdizzle: Fertility is the only advantage, too many cons, i can't.

Merlissa:

Nobody is perfect... Some people might have given birth and left the child for the family to take care off claiming it's their YOUNGER BROTHER...


Some would about like a billion times and when MAYBE in the process their womb get destroyed!

I don't mind marrying a guy with kid.. Nobody knows tomorrow!!

Mondisweets: it does even if you tell yourself its not. Its the same as saying a woman who thinks a guys who isn't rich is a turn off, is mature enough to know the qualities that make up a good husband.

MadCow1: [b]Yes I can...

But wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It requires a whole nother level of maturity of mind and mental strength.. You have to deal with certain emotional dramas that can really fhuck up the feeble minded and put untold strain on the relationship.. You have to try to raise another man's kid like they were yours. You have to deal with her/his past that keeps looking at you in the face daily. Let's not talk about the step parent drama that most step kids bring with them. Also when you now have your own kids, the battle line of fairness and equality is drawn and everytime you accidentally fhuck up by treating yours differently to theirs, the fall out is big. Infact you are almost always required to treat your step kids better than you would treat yours as they are technically the victims in your relationship. If the spouse with the kid isn't also mentally mature, they tend to create even more problems than the kids. In some cases, they start hoarding their assets and stashing them for their own kid for inheritance purposes. Every disciplinary action to take towards the other person's kid is seen as exaggerated and excessive. You most times end up emotionally messed up cos having to deal with that drama does tend to take its toll on you eventually.

In my opinion, I would highly discourage it.

Simply put, marrying a single parent is not for the emotionally weak.. But I believe I can handle that.

Thanks.[/b]

freecocoa: Your point being?

yemaldo:
mr man u better dont allow her to visit the father of her child because he will attempt to do it again and u know women

khiaa:

If you break her heart why should she stay with you, so you could do it again? I wouldn't call protecting her heart not being loyal. Would you stay if a girl broke your heart?

khiaa:


But will you marry her is the question?

khiaa:


What if the father is deceased, married someone else, or just doesn't want to get married. Maybe she doesn't want to marry the father, there are different reasons why the parents never married.

khiaa:


What if the father is deceased, married someone else, or just doesn't want to get married. Maybe she doesn't want to marry the father, there are different reasons why the parents never married.

Midehi: i am a single lady & a guy is hell bend to marry me,am stil wonderin why he's so much in luv dat he a single guy is plannin to see my parent...i ask him dou & hs response ws am calm,beautiful & respetful,we luv each oda so much bt am stil scared if his peopl wil acept me wit 2 girls who ar alwys wit my mother....i fell into marriage wen i ws 19 to a guy who ws dump by hs fiancee & settld on me cos he ws gettin old bt wen i enterd...omo see beatin ooo,hes vry fast on hiting on any slightest mstake, i endured neva wntd to leave bt my parent tuk me frm him in d last beatin dat ended up in d hospital...dnt blame for such marriage den,i ws jus too young den to av diverge into it ooo dou i blame mysef bt nt much cos i av d best beautiful & intelligent girls...some guys ar nice.