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Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by eleko1: 2:17pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Peeps are scared of marriage due to money/commitment issue.Some peeps are eager to quit d singlehood even this very minute if they have the means to get marriage.When U rush in,U'll rush out 1 Like |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by creamylicious(f): 2:18pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
#1 that there are categories of cheats amongst men. 2. That the man loves women with a particular shape does not mean someone with a diFferent shape won't tickle his fancy 3. Money equals happiness in marriage. 4. It is important to endure cheating in marriage no matter d number of years he/she has been cheating , you will definitely eat d fruit of ur patience. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by creamylicious(f): 2:18pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
#1 that there are categories of cheats amongst men. 2. That the man loves women with a particular shape does not mean someone with a diFferent shape won't tickle his fancy 3. Money equals happiness in marriage when you end up with d one you love. 4. It is important to endure cheating in marriage no matter d number of years he/she has been cheating , you will definitely eat d fruit of ur patience. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Misogynist2014(m): 2:20pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
amaprincess: One thing i like about this section is, there are so many matured minds here.Marriage is trash! A bondage for a man and liberation for woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by nedu2000(m): 2:21pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
I worked hard & grew up to get away from my mum's "where were you?" "Where are you going?" questions,now you ask me to start all over again and live with a woman?I'll prefer the women to come and go. This 'all must marry' culture is frustrating 4 Likes |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Misogynist2014(m): 2:25pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Top ten reasons you should never think of marriage as a MAN http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/top-ten-reasons-marriage-is-stupid/ 1 Like |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by majalisa(m): 2:34pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
QMark:love does not make marriage work...knowledge does |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
To be honest, getting married is so scary! It's not easy to pick only one lady out of millions around you and commit to her till death. And to those saying "marry your best friend", need I remind them that even best friends do become worst enemies. One thing I have observed with most marriages around me is that the men in those marriages tend to develop this sense of regret later in the marriage, and thinking about such regrets in a marriage that seemed rosy at the onset, makes my fears about marriage grow worse. IF NOT FOR THE LOVE OF CHILDREN, I won't be thinking about getting married at all. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by perfectcrush(m): 2:41pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
No advice, who knows if am scared also? |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by josite: 2:42pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
even if we blieve the many things apostle paul told us in the bible,we must also believe him when he says those who marry will have trouble in the flesh.so be real and get the necessary wisdom .no matter who you marry they will offend you small,medium or very much like having extra sex.now is the time to begin to develop a maturd response to those situations if they do arise.im a man and i realy do not think it is wise to divorce a woman who fell by having extra sex.i will refuse to magnify it the way the society and my feelings will want me too.i will take it as a human thing but if the spouse revels in such and remains unrepentant,exposing me to helath risks and dangers from her boyfriends i will divorce her. the bottom learn is marrying someone u really know very well and you really like .dont marry a stranger.dont marry someone that doesnt satisfy your basics in terms of beauty,character,figure,expressions and most importantly dont marry anybody you are asmahed to introduce as your husband for any reason whatsover be it age or comportment or height or figure. marriage is basically carnal and this is the point missed by sprititual persons,if u love sex and both of u are not on that same level pls dont marry and again look at the necessary people or things that must follow u into your marriage like his debt profile,income,parents,brothers,sisters. D sight of some parents once made me sick e.g d lady whose dad sleeps inside one cele church around ojuelegba and the lady whose mum looks like a mad woman ,yes the lady worlks with a bank,i said not for me.to god be the glory she is married now meaning d dislike is not hers but mine. to be honest do go ahead and marry any who has your basics but in my own case knowing i cant forver endure ,divorce remains an option since i dont want to kill anybody or be kiled in case it turns out to be a mistake.believe me humans make mistakes and it doesnt have to be the end of your life .making this clear from the onset may even help the other guy to behave.marriage for me is not padlock. 1 Like |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by MadCow1: 2:42pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
emusmith: All these coming from you But why? |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by zboyd: 2:47pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
MadCow1: smh |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Unionised(m): 2:49pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
amaprincess: One thing i like about this section is, there are so many matured minds here. DON'T GET MARRIED!!! ...it's not a prison yard. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by repent4christ: 2:49pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Dont be afraid! |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by zboyd: 2:50pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
creamylicious: 4. It is important to endure cheating in marriage no matter d number of years he/she has been cheating , you will definitely eat d fruit of ur patience. smh |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Whalewale(m): 2:56pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
MadCow1: Advice for those too chicken to get married.. I don't agree with your last paragraph.. It contradicts what you said earlier. Because sometimes while with the right person in marriage, one tends to feel that they have made a mistake. SO are you saying that everyone should divorce once they have that feeing? 1 Like |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
QMark:By their words u knw them... "SENIOR MEN" |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by MadCow1: 2:58pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Whalewale: I said when it becomes apparent.. Not just a mere feeling. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Tunagee(m): 2:59pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
are you looking for husband? 1 Like |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by therapisteve(m): 3:00pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Do all the followings and stay Happily Married For Life!!! HOW TO MAKE Ur MAN HAPPY 4 Life 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him with peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements HOW TO MAKE Ur Wife HAPPY 4 Life It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy, d Husband only needs to be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate WITHOUT FORGETTING TO: 44. give her compliments regularly 45. go shopping with her 46. be honest 47. be very rich 48. not stress her out 49. not look at other girls AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO: 50. give her lots of attention 51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself 52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT: 53. never to forget *birthdays *anniversaries *valentine *arrangements she makes etc sha Do all these and U are Guaranteed A Blissful Marriage!!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by soundproof: 3:02pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
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Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by ernie4life(m): 3:03pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
EmoBoy: I'm so scared of marriage. I have serious trust issues especially with women. . . Perhaps I better not get marriedyou are not alone in the trust issue but you are alone in the " perhaps not get married" |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Mutuwa(m): 3:04pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Marriage is a contract where a man looses his "Bachelors Degree" and a woman gets her "Masters" He said: "I'm married for fifteen years and we never had an argument" Shaykh says: "I guess you are not staying with your wife I'm sure. Because even the best man had misunderstanding with his wives. Boy: "Dad, what's the difference between mum's tears&wife's tears?" Dad: "Mum's tears hurt the heart&wife's tears hurt the pocket Why do couples shake hands on their wedding day? It is a norm and formality with all boxers, they shake hands before the fight begins A man entered his room and saw his wife looking at their marriage certificate and he said, "are u cherishing old memories?" The wife said' "no, I'm looking for the expiry date" A boy asked his father, "Abba, what is the price of marriage?" The father said, "Son, I don't know because I'm still paying. A man asked his doctor, "what is the medicine for a long life?" The doctor said, "get married" d man said, "does it work?" The doctor said, "I don't know but it will remove the desire for long life from u". Gentlemen and ladies,The secret to a happy marriage is not in wedding the perfect partner but rather in loving the imperfect partner "Perfectly Well" 2 Likes |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by theshadowknows: 3:04pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
being scared symbolizes uncertainty and immaturity. maybe your decision to get married should come when you are ready so as not to hurt yourself and others....and stop being afraid of making mistakes, for life is all about the executive decisions we take and being at the mercy of those choices. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Emeka you want to marry? In Nigeria? Chai. Emeka if you marry in Nigeria plz ensure your wife delivers the child in USA. The future for the future kids in Nigeria is not bright for now..maybe when God sanitizes from federal to local govt ...only then will I advice you to marry and multiply.. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by repent4christ: 3:06pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
I am married with three kids expecting the forth, marriage is more sweeter if ur married to ur friend and materiel covetousness is not attached and the fear of God is in the couple. Nevertheless all cannot marry thier friends, so most important is to get married to one who fears God and love is the binding necklace and the word of God being the centre point. The man should love the wife and the wife should respect him as the head of the family. |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by dapsy4u2(m): 3:07pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
MARRIAGE IS PARTNERSHIP THAT WORKS BASED ON UNDERSTANDING AND TRUST! |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by Mutuwa(m): 3:07pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
amaprincess: One thing i like about this section is, there are so many matured minds here. Its good if its good..and really bad when its bad..are u married ma? |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by no11: 3:12pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
@QMark how do you know the feeling of heaven please |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by layi(m): 3:12pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
I am married and i can tell you the only real issue is finance. You MUST get $$$ . money is stronger than 'human' luv |
Re: Any Word Of Advice To Those Scared Of Getting Married? by josite: 3:13pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
theshadowknows: being scared symbolizes uncertainty and immaturity. maybe your decision to get married should come when you are ready so as not to hurt yourself and others....and stop being afraid of making mistakes, for life is all about the executive decisions we take and being at the mercy of those choices. think deeply.it is human to fear uncertainty.that is why human prefers to have their money in their pocket rather than rely on ATM |
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