I can authoritatively tell u that d arteries r clogged. So ur guy should hit d
Gym
Change of diet.
Sleeping early.
(Pls no more viagra, smh for d dr that prescribed it in d first place)
Male supplements like MANIX( herbal i assumed)
Get moringa powder/seed.
Come in a months time and tell us how far.

Then most importantly, dont ever rub that on his face again. This kills faster than death. Even if he cant get it up, still praise and applaud him. Play as usual with him and most time, initiate sexx urself. That guy is emotionally and psychologically dead, so task urself and bring him back.
If i may recall, ur problem with ur husband is deeper than u just let us know. U two r like cat and dog, u can see d effect. Im sure it has its toll on u too. So a clean slate is what i advocate.
U guys hv made lots of mistakes in d past. Involve a counselor.

If u r on d big side, try and trim down too and look more scintillating. E eyes eat first, remember.

Coogar, can u see what i was telling u on d other thread?
Until u marry, learn from d champions but u will not agree
U see ur life, ituku man?

peggykorol:
I have seen a Gyn and is nothing serious, he came home late last night and we talked

His Doc has checked every possible health problem that could be causing ED,although History of diabetes and HBP exist in his family

He was on Viagra treatment but the side effects were much on him

his doctor is treating any underlying illness he may be suffering from
We were advised to use P pump
But it gave him bruises
Ify pls recommend
I don't think my hubby is stressed ,everything going on fine and our seex life was okay

Viagra,Dyke pumps etc are not going to help. Those would even add to tension thereby building up emotional stress.
Look into TV's suggestion and encourage your hubby to follow it up.

Be there to support him, help by creating a relaxing environment in the bedroom eg I know its difficult but concentrate on pre-intimacy, try new things , try to take your mind and ultimately his off erection or lack of it.

I will PM you though.

It is well. Constant massive erectiooooons with bobo oku firing from dusk to dawn will locate you soon. Na you go run oo

ifyalways long time babes. Hope you and yours are good

Sorry for derailing the thread

You had to cheat as a married woman and you did so without protection, rubbing it in his face, and you bruised his already deflated ego with your retort about his ED.

Do people still take Viagra Well i have read about zee virtual media on the dailies(punch or so), they have natural remedies for ED and premature ejaculation etc.

Anyways pm ifyalways as she suggested, you could get the solution.

P.pump....we learn everyday.
You guys need the gym so baldly.

@shizzle, the poster didnt say she cheated o!

Thanks everyone
We have never really taken the exercise and change of diet seriously
Am sure it would help as I read online
Shizzle where did I say I cheated on my husband?
Take it easy

Thanks

ifyalways:

Viagra,Dyke pumps etc are not going to help. Those would even add to tension thereby building up emotional stress.
Look into TV's suggestion and encourage your hubby to follow it up.

Be there to support him, help by creating a relaxing environment in the bedroom eg I know its difficult but concentrate on pre-intimacy, try new things , try to take your mind and ultimately his off erection or lack of it.

I will PM you though.

It is well. Constant massive erectiooooons with bobo oku firing from dusk to dawn will locate you soon. Na you go run oo

peggykorol:
Thanks everyone
We have never really taken the exercise and change of diet seriously
Am sure it would help as I read online
Shizzle where did I say I cheated on my husband?
Take it easy

Another look at this comment:

......"after all he wasn't faithful when he was potent"

All i hear when i read this comment is "ehen i cheated to, was only REVENGE time". Forgive me if i'm wrong.

chaircover:
@shizzle, the poster didnt say she cheated o!

CC, with all sincerity and please fear God, can you interpret the 'excerpt' above, and if your partner were to say that to you in the heat of an argument, how would you take it?

wow, op, you have gotten alot of sound advice here, you both should seek for medical care, exercise and try to resolve things amicably

And this is an information world we are
U can google on the problems as the doctors comes up with the problems

Do read wide and digest its content


Even on doctors program on dstv they always tell viewers to read wide on what is happening to them since doctors can't all be right about what is wrong with their health. ........and you guys knowing more about what is wrong can also help the doctors in its diagnosis and finding remedy


You and ur husband have to walk through this challenging times and it will be well with you

You are got it wrong
Wish I could explain better

shizzle11:


Another look at this comment:All i hear when i read this comment is "ehen i cheated to, was only REVENGE time". Forgive me if i'm wrong.

CC, with all sincerity and please fear God, can you interpret the 'excerpt' above, and if your partner were to say that to you in the heat of an argument, how would you take it?

peggykorol:
You are got it wrong
Wish I could explain better

Ok, if you say so.

All good then.

Wow he can't get it up and he still has mouth like this? Wow, wow, wow.

*Just thinking aloud.*

Nawaoooh!! This man accused wify of being a disease vector, she reminded him of his indomie noodles, what's wrong there? You don't dish blows and expect a pat on the back. I don't understand why everyone is blaming her for defending herself.The a man is always right factor I guess .


To the point, no ideas abeg, 35 is too young to be talking ED, hia!

Yields:
Have you been faithful to him yourself? He asked how you got your STI but you turned around and brought up his own unfaithfulness while he was potent (just to make him feel guilty + digress from his question) and told him to handle his ED himself. Really, that wasn't necessary. You know he's already discouraged b/c of this issue and you just had to kick him down further. He is your husband. His problem is your problem.

How did you conclude she had an STI. He accused her of having one because she mentioned needing to see a doctor over a vaginal issues. On average women get 2-3 yeast infections a year. There could be many things that could make a vagina that could make her feel like she needs to see her gynecologist. He accused her then of cheating when he's the one with the history of cheating. Being discouraged does not give anyone the right to be mean spirited. Maybe you should ask her to f she moved out for days when he was cheating on her

@ OP are you guys using a specialist or just a GP. I think you guys should see a specialist and you should apologize so he can come home and you guys can tackle this together.

soulglo:



How did you conclude she had an STI. He accused her of having one because she mentioned needing to see a doctor over a vaginal issues. On average women get 2-3 yeast infections a year. There could be many things that could make a vagina that could make her feel like she needs to see her gynecologist. He accused her then of cheating when he's the one with the history of cheating. Being discouraged does not give anyone the right to be mean spirited. Maybe you should ask her to f she moved out for days when he was cheating on her

I didn't have to conclude anything. OP stated it herself. Who is talking about yeast infections? Yeast infections and STIs are not the same thing, don't get it twisted. The symptoms can be similar, but they are two distinct infections. OP clearly stated she had an STI. Please go back and reread her original post. Yeast infections 2-3 times a year is mega. If you take care of yourself, that shouldn't be happening. 3/4 women will get it at least once in their lifetime, but 2-3 times per year? Take care of yo' business. Recurring yeast infections can be a sign of underlying illnesses, but many times they're caused by improper care of self (aka. things you have direct control over).

As her husband, it wasn't too much for him to ask how she got an STI. They have both been mean to each other. There are numerous unresolved tensions between them and it's up to them to come together as the husband & wife they're supposed to be and stop playing the blame-game.

Yields:

I didn't have to conclude anything. OP stated it herself. Who is talking about yeast infections? Yeast infections and STIs are not the same thing, don't get it twisted. The symptoms can be similar, but they are two distinct infections. OP clearly stated she had an STI. Please go back and reread her original post. Yeast infections 2-3 times a year is mega. If you take care of yourself, that shouldn't be happening. 3/4 women will get it at least once in their lifetime, but 2-3 times per year? Take care of yo' business. Recurring yeast infections can be a sign of underlying illnesses, but many times they're caused by improper care of self (aka. things you have direct control over).

As her husband, it wasn't too much for him to ask how she got an STI. They have both been mean to each other. There are numerous unresolved tensions between them and it's up to them to come together as the husband & wife they're supposed to be an stop playing the blame-game.

Unless she said in another post that she had an STI then you concluded. Her first post said nothing about an STI. She said she felt weird down there and her husband concluded she had one. It could simply have been yeast or even her underwear causing a little irritation. 2-3 yeast infections is not much for an active woman. Especially in the summer when you're swimming or participating in regular physical activities. In fact your gyno does not worry unless you have 4 or more. Every woman is different but saying 2-3 is much is just not true. If your doctor wants to run additional test because you came in with your second yeast infection in a year then you can be very sure he just wants to bilk your insurance company

soulglo:



Unless she said in another post that she had an STI then you concluded. Her first post said nothing about an STI. She said she felt weird down there and her husband concluded she had one. It could simply have been yeast or even her underwear causing a little irritation. 2-3 yeast infections is not much for an active woman. Especially in the summer when you're swimming or participating in regular physical activities. In fact your gyno does not worry unless you have 4 or more. Every woman is different but saying 2-3 is much is just not true. If your doctor wants to run additional test because you came in with your second yeast infection in a year then you can be very sure he just wants to bilk your insurance company

It did. Her husband wouldn't have mentioned STI specifically if she hadn't brought it to his attention/if he didn't have a reason to mention STI, of all things. But like I said she ignored his question and turned it around on him. I have other reservations about what I think about the OP's post and her indirect tone, but I shall keep those to myself. She is not married to me, so it's none of my business. Again, she stated nothing about yeast infections. I'm quite active and I've never had it (perhaps that is why I cannot relate), but I'm very much aware that every woman is different. 2-3 times a year might be the norm for you, personally, but saying other women get it that much is far-fetched. As I stated earlier, many women will get it at least once in their lifetime. It can be caused by numerous things, but it is preventable and if you're taken necessary precautions down there, you shouldn't be getting that many.

Yields:

It did. Her husband wouldn't have mentioned STI specifically if she hadn't brought it to his attention/if he didn't have a reason to mention STI, of all things. But like I said she ignored his question and turned it around on him. I have other reservations about what I think about the OP's post and her indirect tone, but I shall keep those to myself. She is not married to me, so it's none of my business. Again, she stated nothing about yeast infections. I'm quite active and I've never had it (perhaps that is why I cannot relate), but I'm very much aware that every woman is different. 2-3 times a year might be the norm for you, personally, but saying other women get it that much is far-fetched. As I stated earlier, many women will get it at least once in their lifetime. It can be caused by numerous things, but it is preventable and if you're taken necessary precautions down there, you shouldn't be getting that many.

I think you're just hell bent on saying she must have had an STI. That's my conclusion. And 2-3 times a year yeast infection is not a reason to run to a doctor. A million things can cause it. Too much sex, eating too much carbs, swimming, too many bubble baths, douching, tight workout clothes, even condoms can trigger a yeast infection. AND I AM NOT SPEAKING FOR ONLY SOUL_GLO. Women in general can get that many in a year and not even be pregnant and a good gyno will simply say lay off the bubble baths. It's not a big deal. If a friend tells me she feels uncomfortable down there the first thing I'll tell her is to rule out yeast. That's the most common thing

Interesting debate between "Yields" (student doctor), and "Soulglo" (the motherly chic, with NL expertise in women and children). Pretty educative back and forth. And from the discourse, you can deduce that one is sexually active, while the other knows a lot about the female anatomy due to her field of study.

Anyway, can you both go on a tangent a bit, and discuss ovarian cysts that cause bleeding during intercourse and penetration? Is that due to STIs, yeasts, having multiple sexual partners, or just something that's natural?

#Following but won't contribute.

Yields
I didn't say I had An STI
I can't see in my post.
Okay so that the STI won't be the discussion here cos that's not why I created this topic,let me explain
I was in the bathroom and I felt something strange down there
My hubby kept knocking asking why I was still there
I said nothing(because actually it was no Big deal.no itching,no wounds) but I know what I felt
He asked again and I said I think I would need to see my doctor cos I don't like the way I feel
He said ok good then
He gave me a hug and went to work
It's not like I went to report myself that I had an STI
If I really had one and I was actually cheating,don't you think I would be very smart to hide it from him since we have not been sexually active

I have seen my doctor
And when he checked he just laughed and said is this why you came to the hospital?
I insisted we run all test including hepatitis ,HIV so it won't be like am hiding something.i have shown him the results and now am free to breath

Okies!

SirShymex:
Interesting debate between "Yields" (student doctor), and "Soulglo" (the motherly chic, with NL expertise in women and children). Pretty educative back and forth. And from the discourse, you can deduce that one is sexually active, while the other knows a lot about the female anatomy due to her field of study.

Anyway, can you both go on a tangent a bit, and discuss ovarian cysts that cause bleeding during intercourse and penetration? Is that due to STIs, yeasts, having multiple sexual partners, or just something that's natural?

#Following but won't contribute.

Sometimes women get ovarian cysts that resolve themselves. I have never heard of one that bleeds or one that's caused by an STI. It's a good question for Yield.

@peggykorol

Did your husband at anytime have any STDs or UTIs?

peggykorol:
I have seen a Gyn and is nothing serious, he came home late last night and we talked

His Doc has checked every possible health problem that could be causing ED,although History of diabetes and HBP exist in his family

He was on Viagra treatment but the side effects were much on him

his doctor is treating any underlying illness he may be suffering from
We were advised to use P pump
But it gave him bruises
Ify pls recommend
I don't think my hubby is stressed ,everything going on fine and our seex life was okay

.

I am going to look at this issue from another angle.

You said, he was cheating on you before this problem, right?

Kindly ask him if he had slept with a married woman laced with Magun (Thunderbolt) by the husband.
Everybody is talking about drugs, natural food etc but they have forgotten the spiritual aspect of it.

Your husband might have contacted what Yoruba called "Magun"
This is not uncommon where I come from.
He needs to be opened and honest with himself if not........
He is too young to have ED o.

soulglo:


Sometimes women get ovarian cysts that resolve themselves. I have never heard of one that bleeds or one that's caused by an STI. It's a good question for Yield.

Oh ok...nice. Just checking.

Yields? She's on some shakara bizness these days. Got the reply I need anyway.

SirShymex:


Oh ok...nice. Just checking.

Yields? She's on some shakara bizness these days. Got the reply I need anyway.

LOLz! . How?! Are you getting that vibe from me or what gave you that impression? . Please elaborate.

Wonder why no one has mentioned the spiritual angle?
The man has been a cheat,maybe he slept with a mamiwota or papiwota and is suffering the repercussion.
Or a runsgirl has collected his blokos and locked it up forever.

Sorry op..I think it may be medical.Is there a chance he's on any meds?Even antihypertensive keds can cause erectile dysfunction.
Try and get another opinion from a urologist.
Cheers!

Yields:


LOLz! . How?! Are you getting that vibe from me or what gave you that impression? . Please elaborate.

Huh? Acting like you haven't been fronton' to Papi Chulo of late lol. Search ya soul, yield to what that suppressed voice has been saying - and tell me.

You sure know I'm a shrewd mofo, and I can see what people are trying to mask.