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What Women Want In Relationship by dasko(m): 2:25pm On Nov 21, 2008
Different women have different expectations
about what they want from a man and a
relationship.

For example, a young woman may not know
what she wants in a relationship simply
because she isn't experienced enough
to know what's important to her yet.

A more mature woman, one who's been in
a lot of different relationships, may
know exactly what she's looking for
in a relationship.

But there's one thing all types of
women know about before they get into
a relationship,

They know what they're ATTRACTED to!

See, the female mind processes things
in this manner:

1. Is there something attracting me
to this man?

2. Will this man be a good fit for me
in the long term?

Usually, number 1 will kick in almost
immediately within the first few
minutes of meeting a man. They'll start
evaluating the man's attraction quotient.

Number two won't kick in until number
one has been met.

This means that if you can get a woman
really turned on, or even in bed, then
she'll immediately start evaluating you
based on your potential for a long term
relationship.

Women who try and do this backwards, by
getting into a relationship and hoping
the attraction will grow, usually end
up disappointed.

When it comes to what women are actually
looking for in a relationship, you can
expect these factors to come into play:

1. How well does the man treat her?
2. What is the level of attraction occurring?
3. How good is he in bed?
4. How strong is the emotional connection?
5. How good of a provider is he?

Let's quickly go through these five female
relationship factors,

The first factor can be misleading. All
women want to be treated well, but they
don't necessarily want to be treated like
goddesses to be fawned over.

(Sure, that's okay from time to time, but
too much of a good thing is a bad thing, )

Women want to feel like the man they are
with is loving and strong. So if you treat
them in a way where they know you care,
know they are safe, but know you won't take
their bullcrap, they will feel well treated.

The next factor has to do with what we
discussed earlier. If they are still feeling
sexual attraction towards you, then this
factor is met. But if things have fizzled,
this could be a deal breaker.

Most women aren't used to having men who are
good in bed. So if you can please her
between the sheets, then chances are she'll
see you as a "keeper."

If there is a strong emotional connection,
a woman will want to be around you. She
will feel connected to you and want to
please you. This is a very important factor
in any relationship.

Women who don't have a strong emotional
connection to the men they are in a
relationship with will tend to cheat on
them, because they aren't being fulfilled
emotionally.

Finally, a man who is a good provider will
make a woman feel safe and cared for.

Many women will gravitate towards men who
can pay their bills, even if all the other
relationship factors are absent.

But this doesn't mean that type of relationship
is a happy or stable one (for either party).

Showing a woman you're a good provider is
probably the least important factor in
a strong relationship, but it is still a
factor.

But the first step you need to be aware of
before you can even begin to THINK about
relationships, is the initial ATTRACTION
phase.

And that phase starts with how you MEET her.

I personally believe that any man has the
potential to attract any woman.

If they know what to do.

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