i have been very confuse about what could be the answer to my question because people said that more decent and responsible girls are in Nigeria while others said that those girls in Nigeria are cheats and gold diggers, now all my female friends in Europe are older than me, what should i do?

It doesn't matter where you choose to marry, what matters is what kind of girl you marry. You're just as likely to find a self-obsessed diva in Nigeria as much as you're likely to find them in any parts of the world. Love literarily slaps you in the face, you never see it coming. If you want to marry someone you love, have an open heart and wait till it comes for you. Goodluck man.

it depends on were u found love

oboi, use ur common sense, u dnt need to follow peoples opinion on every issue, there are both good and bad girls on every continent!!

Are people still spreading that thing about 'nice decent gyals' in Nigeria?

@poster

There are decent gyals everywhere. Dont kid yourself. The 'nice decent gyals' in naija are the ones from the village who are extremely submissive but will 'shine eye' once they cross the border.

NaJa HaJe:

Are people still spreading that thing about 'nice decent gyals' in Nigeria?

@poster

There are decent gyals everywhere. don't kid yourself. The 'nice decent gyals' in naija are the ones from the village who are extremely submissive but will 'shine eye' once they cross the border.

i sanction that

my point is that majority of girls in Europe are lion-hearted or arrogant, some have followed the company of white people while others are on the road. now i only have the option of marrying older girl (the available) or going to Nigeria to take risk

lol so the ones in nigerian are even worst if those nollywood movies are true though

NaJa HaJe:

Are people still spreading that thing about 'nice decent gyals' in Nigeria?

@poster

There are decent gyals everywhere. don't kid yourself. The 'nice decent gyals' in naija are the ones from the village who are extremely submissive but will 'shine eye' once they cross the border.

Madamkoko

@post
w/e

My broda, decent gals in naija? It's very rare these days.All of them are same, i will advise that you marry someone there at least she won't be marrying you for money and relocation sake since she is already there.Just my piece! Cheers!

my brother, come home

Go back to Nigeria and get a girl

There are lots of decent girls in Nigeria , Just shine your EYES and SCAN WELL!

mehn anywhere you find love ojare

faakay:

Go back to Nigeria and get a girl

There are lots of decent girls in Nigeria ,  Just shine your EYES and SCAN WELL!

All Nigerian girls in Nigeria are bitches, I went to Nigeria in August and slammed lots of girls who claim to be in serious relationships. They were calling later when I've arrived Canada and I wasn't giving them a show.

Dude, just be where you are and enjoy your life. Go to Nigeria not because of a girl. Damn, even because of girl you want enter naija. Men, people dey ooooooo.

Probably, your arms aint strong enough. I don't blame you because you don't have what it takes to handle girls abroad who want trips abroad.Big loser. You go enter naija now go dey form and lie to those village girls. If I catch you heh, I go smack and hustle your black d**k to the wall. Next time you go think straight!!!!!!!!!

luka1981,com nd mary me,am no risk bt js b d man i wnt ,my dear go 4 d kind of woman u wnt, she cn com frm any cntinet,if d olda gal posses all u nid in a woman,go 4 her,so long as she is nt old enaf 2b ur mumsy

Great:-) lol, i'll say 95% of Nigerian girls are risk. So if you're down for that,then try them. Only what i noticed about this silly folks was that, they only are after your wealth and all you have been upto. They're the kind of girls that turn a millionaire to a kobonaire lol. Let me say they are a victim, And they'll take advantage of you till you're finished, let me just say they're being atavistic about that. I'm a 9ja boy ooo but talking from what i have seen. So guy just follow your heart bit and hardly take unreasonable advise. Peace out
J

there are good and bad girls everywhere

so its berra u look for one where u are,than

go thru all the stress of coming home just to

get same result. its like the case a mothers

bringing wives from the village for the sons in lagos

back in the late 70s/80s. the village girls later turned

out to be worse than the city ashawos.

I don't get why people consult geography when "looking" for wives. Whats wrong with the women where you are? Are ALL of them sour? What is wrong with YOU?

Its a good Idea to come to Nigeria. Infact my younger brother is here on his own accord for this purpose (been away for 12yrs).But you must realize that even this has its own challenges. Right now he is like a starved rottweiler suddenly  finding itself in a poultry.Chances are that he wont be able to make up his mind on this visit and would need to come back.This is still much better than the mail order arrangement.

Looking for a spouse over there in europe and America is a no no b/c chances of getting it right is much less on account of fewer choices to make. Same advice goes to our babes wanting to settle down. Come to Nigeria twice a year esp during festivities and mingle.

Vanweed:

All Nigerian girls in Nigeria are bitches, I went to Nigeria in August and slammed lots of girls who claim to be in serious relationships. They were calling later when I've arrived Canada and I wasn't giving them a show.

Dude, just be where you are and enjoy your life. Go to Nigeria not because of a girl. Damn, even because of girl you want enter naija. Men, people dey ooooooo.

Probably, your arms aint strong enough. I don't blame you because you don't have what it takes to handle girls abroad who want trips abroad.Big loser. You go enter naija now go dey form and lie to those village girls. If I catch you heh, I go smack and hustle your black d**k to the wall. Next time you go think straight!!!!!!!!!

You must be insane!! What's our business that you 'slammed' Prostitutes. If you socialize with lowlife then thats you headache okay? But you making such a baseless generalization is totally out of line

Ujujoan:

You must be insane!! What's our business that you 'slammed' Prostitutes. If you socialize with lowlife then thats you headache okay? But you making such a baseless generalization is totally out of line

leave the mukwe, dnt waste your time on him

he has been ban anyway for running his gutter

mouth. i guess he thinks everyone is like his mother,

his father must still be regretting why he came to

Nigeria to look for a wife, we cnt balme him, we know

what he found.

@uju
e dey vex u?

Opslag:

@uju
e dey vex u?

Before nko? Why e no go vex me?

finguy:

leave the mukwe, dnt waste your time on him

he has been ban anyway for running his gutter

mouth. i guess he thinks everyone is like his mother,

his father must still be regretting why he came to

Nigeria to look for a wife, we cnt balme him, we know

what he found.

Uju, I am quite disappointed.
Why did you need to respond to him? Don't you know his likes? Real life whimps who resort to internet beastiality. He wanted attention and you are feeding him. Tsk tsk.

Wetin everybody chop today . . . . . . . see as people just dey vex

spikedcylinder:

Uju, I am quite disappointed.
Why did you need to respond to him? Don't you know his likes? Real life whimps who resort to internet beastiality. He wanted attention and you are feeding him. Tsk tsk.

Oops!! my bad. I shd have known his type from the trash coming from his mouth  

Hey Van, I'm taking my attention back oh      

:p :d

Wherever you are, I'd advise you marry a girl who has the same kind of background and vision as you. If the girl does not operate on your wavelength, you'll run into problems eventually. There are also some things which crop up later in life and if you are yoked together with someone of a different background, irreconciliable differences will set in to destroy the relationship that you built.

While a lot of people think[i] love[/i] is all that matters, love does not, and can not, sustain marriages.

Just follow your heart! Dont mind those people wagging
their mouths and callling the Nigerian girls names, they know
not what they're saying really!

If those ladies in Europe are tooold for you, please do come
back home to pick an homely girl, not all of them are rotten!

a wise man should know how and where to pick a decent woman.

guy u should know where to stay and get a good wife.

martho:

a wise man should know how and where to pick a decent woman.

are you married? tell me where you get your wife so that i will go and get my own, if after i must have investigated that you people are not tyson and muhammed ali in the matrimonial house.