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| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by SisiJinx: 5:41pm On Dec 31, 2008 |
Busy_body: Rotlfmao! Iyaloade. . . I say you taught me well!! This is not a case of won ko mi motu ran mi ko. . . no siree Bob! By the time you were done with me, I was ready to take on the world. So ekunle ni mo wa.  Yeye oh Yeye Oh! Eba re , Eba Re! Ato wa something something!!  doyin13: You know you could have just said uwarka, Ubanka, Arbanza kwai instead of insulting me like this. Emi ati Oprah, O'donold and Dr, Feel Good?  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by anots(f): 10:33pm On Dec 31, 2008 |
[color=#550000][/color] @ Topup, i totally agree with u! closure is so important! there isn't anyway around it. if u dnt know what went wrong and where it did, how can u sort through ur heart break and move on? also, d withdrawing part! gosh, guys are SKILLED in d art of withdrawal, its so infuriating . i have lived with men most of my life (i have male siblings) and it's like the stone age in my house wen my brothers get started. they dnt want to tel u something, they grunt, u ask them a question , they murmur. u nag, they ignore u!I'v also had experience with male non-relatives and d story is d same. What can i say? Men are from Mars and Women, from Venus |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by KarmaMod(f): 10:44pm On Dec 31, 2008 |
You have a problem with good ol' Dr Phil?  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by SisiJinx: 1:55am On Jan 01, 2009 |
KarmaMod: Cantstandhim. . . get it? Get it. . . cantstandhim? Hehehehehe. . . . Seinfield Trivia anyone?  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by KarmaMod(f): 2:06am On Jan 01, 2009 |
I would so beat you in it  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 2:22am On Jan 01, 2009 |
Hey, my loff  @ KarmaMod |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by bluespice(f): 5:13am On Jan 01, 2009 |
doyin13:doyin! 2009 ni yi oh! o ni pa mi so gbo! |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by bluespice(f): 5:19am On Jan 01, 2009 |
twinie happy new year  iyalode 1 aku nu yeh oh k'ade pe lori ki bata pe lese k'eran pe l'enu boda doyin, eku nu yah k'awon omo kekere, awon sisi fine gel ma tan l'odun yi oh gbo gbo NL mo ki yin oh happy new year!!! |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by topup: 7:03am On Jan 01, 2009 |
I really don't know any other way to put this but I feel as if we are not making progress. Sisi Jinx, I was a little confused by your response as it seems it takes nothing of the most recent posts into account, surprised especially as I thought you were following this topic through. Yes, maybe my final reply was comforting someone who posted on this topic about a heartbreak but that is not what the point is about. Overall, whether anyone agrees or disagrees, I still believe it does a person a lot of good to know where they've gone wrong in life, this allows them to improve themselves, and it's a method of feedback as we are not all perfect. No matter how hard we try to tell ourselves, that we were the best people we could have been etc. . that may not be the case, and it could be the case that assuming the fault is all to do with the other is what might frustrate your next relationship. It takes guts to tell someone else 'You did nothing wrong, but what is wrong with that.' I was little annoyed by some exaggeration made in replies by some, as obviously I am not talking about calling to the extreme, but I know some people who will refer to their exs as crazy because though they are over it, the ex isn't, and so the ex texts the person 'Happy Birthday' and yes the guy has been ignoring the ex for ages and has never replied or text her similar greetings, so he tells friends 'She just won't leave me alone', 'she's a stalker', I didn't intend to discuss closure when I started this topic, however it seems that was inevitable. I merely just used obtaining a closure as one of the reasons why an ex might still be calling, and instead of seeing it from the point of view of the person who complains that their ex won't leave them alone, yet they won't just give them peace of mind. I hope this reply has made things clearer. Let's keep on chatting but really, let's be realistic, not everyone thinks the same, and some people are able to block things out easily, and don't tend to dwell on gaps in relationships, etc, whilst others it would bug them, and maybe they won't go to extremes, it'll just be on their minds or they'll wonder occasionally about what went on. Whilst I can admit that I can completey understand that maybe it is possible not to desire to want to know what went wrong in a relationship, I believe that a lot of people benefit from it, not from the insults, but just from a low key, mutual chat, in which you too can voice your opinions, and if the two people aren't mature enough to hold a reasonable conversation, then maybe it's best avoided, who knows in time, if they wanna chat and get things out of the way, then why not. Peace . . Happy New Years Day! |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by bluespice(f): 7:06am On Jan 01, 2009 |
same to you  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by doyin13(m): 7:15am On Jan 01, 2009 |
bluespice: amin oo happy new year to you. omo to dun |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by bluespice(f): 7:22am On Jan 01, 2009 |
he he he emi nu |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by doyin13(m): 7:35am On Jan 01, 2009 |
bluespice: O ni wa ''gbemi''??  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by H2O2: 10:56am On Jan 01, 2009 |
Doyin o, don't be so niggardly this early in the new year now. Sharing is caring  What happun to brother's keeper. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by bluespice(f): 3:33pm On Jan 01, 2009 |
doyin u seem to always forget that om'ebi ni wa |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Em2va: 4:42pm On Jan 01, 2009 |
Are'nt YOU All! |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by SisiJinx: 1:47am On Jan 02, 2009 |
Happy New Year to you too Twinie Doyin. . . Behave H2O2. . . what the heck do you wanna share? Topup  |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by H2O2: 2:39am On Jan 02, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:Nothing babe |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by topup: 2:45am On Jan 02, 2009 |
Seems like everyone's happy |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by sosodat: 3:57pm On Jan 04, 2009 |
The need for Closure doesnt apply to everybody & evry broken relationship. Its basically for those dat are really in love & givin their all. The need for Closure is not an impediment to movin on, but is required by those really in love to help erase painful flashbacks of questions unanswered. Most peeps sayin closure should be done from within are correct if 1. D person wasnt really in love & givin his/her all 2. D relationship didnt end abruptly. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by iice(f): 4:12pm On Jan 04, 2009 |
sosodat: I wasn't going to come back here but i just had to clarify something. Just because someone happens to achieve closure by himself/herself, does not mean the person was not really in love. Just because they are not balling their eyes out and pressing for closure from the other person does not mean they were never in love. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by tobaaro(m): 5:16pm On Jan 04, 2009 |
Word. I'm wt iice on dat 1 |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by sosodat: 11:58pm On Jan 04, 2009 |
@iice Then probably d relationship didnt end abruptly for one of d parties but fizzled out with time - hence he/she had a chance to gradually fall out of love. (I gave two conditions, not one, in my post above to be met inorder to have closure from within) |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by iice(f): 12:34pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
I think it probably has to do with one's character. sosodat: Not in my sister's case. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by olanajim(m): 7:03pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
Wow! You are still on CLOSURE? I think the term is already settled or is there someone trying to learn the technique with view to break a heart somewhere? |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by topup: 7:21pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
I don't know what to do with this topic. I hope we can get back to the original idea of 'crazy' women |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by olanajim(m): 7:27pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
U should set the machinery in motion. For instance why do you gals nag? Why why sulks? |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by SisiJinx: 8:37pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
Jeebus. . . Now they wanna make us out as unfeeling robots all because we aren't crying into our pillows every night, thinking how our world has gone awry! Lmao! @iice I agree with you! It depends on the person's character. @ Topic The topic is about closure, or the OP won't state in caps WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES. Isn't this or rather the lack of this closure OP said can drive women crazy? Al the questions whirling through their heads, what did he leave? Why didn't he even tell the girl what she did wrong? Is she so disgusting he won't even pick up her calls? Isn't it the insistence for answers to get closure which OP says makes guys think women are crazy? So how do we talk about crazy women if we can't talk about what has supposedly driven them craaaaaazy like a fox?!! That some do not agree with the idea of closure to move on, does not mean the thread has gone off course. Why do girls nag? NOW that is off topic for this thread and I wish you'd open a thread for that coz that is one technique I need to learn. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by doyin13(m): 10:10pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
hehehehe. . . Sisi. . .so na ur face be this. I am shocked. They are some peeps you just think will remain anonymous beyond their monikers on this forum. You sure were one of them. Now e reemain make IICE and err who else oo, Kobojunkie to show demself. But come oo. . . You no bad at all sha. Gambari looking sexy you know i like trouble What is the topic about again sef |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by tope2000(f): 10:13pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
Lolz. . . u can never change |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
But sisi jinx take style fine small o. I'm shocked. |
| Re: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by tope2000(f): 10:18pm On Jan 05, 2009 |
davidylan: Heheheheheehe . . . . look at these guys o U r shocked because . . . . . . . |
I have just fallen in love with you over again 
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