kick his ballz and dump him,

girl, are you sure your not enjoying the beating? becos every sane woman/girl/lady knows that beating is not acceptable in a relationship/union/escapade/whatever.just read the thread and see what everyone is saying.

Boyfriend beat me? that will be hard to do even once,never mind ALOT lol . My father will have him shot for sure. I won't be with a guy who even shoves me. Not in this life or the one after

my dear it doesnt matter why he beats u the piont is that he doess
see there are three stages to domestic violence

First stage:  a very tense situation, boy friend or spouse spends most of this time insulting the girl, making bad remarks, and threateninig her. (see most women don't like this stage so they will aggravate the man to hit them so that they can reach the honey moon phase)

second stage:  the beat down,    here the man punches the lady beats her up, its sad bu tshe feels that somehow she almost deserves it, it sis almost a relief for her because guess what the next stage is.

thats right u guys guessed it properly: the honey moon stage:  here he is sorry, kissin gloving buying gifts.  she feels liek he truly loves her and she decides to stay.

my dear if he beats u he will never stop, adn the last thing u want is to bring up a child in that kind of life.  i know its hard, but u have to try and leave him as fast as u can, cut all ties with him.

and uchee2nna i didnt mean to offend but like i said in the US here hormone therapy peels are used on abusive men adn sexually pedaphiles, so yes i twisted it a bit with humor but every bit of it is true.  so in other words, don't abuse your spousse if she is a doctor, pharmacist, or nurse.

HISS
The first day my man beats me with his filthy hands, i'm dumping him immediately!
I have alot of friends, male hefty guys
when I dump him, I'll send them to go and give him a nice butt whipping, next time he wont lay his hands on any woman

wen he beats u, u beat him back , lmao!!!

exactly!!! if him beat u, beat am back, then find ur level, no man with a sound mind hits a lady. Stop playing luv with ur body, no man is worth dying for.

:oIf he beats you Leave him

poison him one day,no guy messes with this girl.

I know a man who gets beat up by his wife!

Leave baby leave otherwise you mite just die oneday or end up with a lot of muscles because you ended up enrolling in marshall art classes to revenge which might end up ruining your figure or even getting you a life sentence because you killed him one night when he attempted punching you and you then raised your leg and gave him one deadly 'karate kid' kick, the possibilities are endless and none favours you except 'leave baby leave'!

OMG if ur boyfriend beats u a lot then he shouldnt even be ur boyfriend u better keep ur self safe girl

Shows how irresponsible d guy is nd doesn't even worth being a boyfriend not to even talk of a husband!

I dont knw if am supposed to be here.ANYWAYS.

If a guy should happen to beat rough handle a gurl(not beating ooo).The idiot should go for deliverance b4 its too late and if happens to do the real thingy(as BeAtInG) then he should be smashed in da face so no gurl would fall for him again.

I believe i have been dazed(more than a slap) by a gurl.What did i do?.I only looked her in the face long enough for fear to appear in her face and i walked away(believe me if you have to ok).My friends didn't help @ all they made fun of me a lot.The gurl; she askd 4 4givness which i gave,

@Jerseygurl,

If a guy beats you and you kinda wanna kick him in da balls, what if you missed(think of whts gonna happen).

For me the only thingy my hands will be doing on a gurl is( u know).Cos i see no place for beating on a gurl.Please Ladies RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN from such guyz cos we guyz are f,k stupid sometimes u know, so u gotta RUNNNNN and find some other guy to help you make him RUNNNnnnn tooo (not a gurl ooooooooo),HEY!!! dnt even think of murder aiight

Ladies take it easy, a serious minded person should not beat ladies

itz rili nt rite for yur guy to beat yu.bt it doesnt mean he dont love yu.talk thingz out.tell him ow mch yu hate it nd also,threaten to quit if it persists.if he rili love yu,he'll stop.bt most times,guyz who beat their gilz r usually very overprotective nd tend to love their babez so much.think wisely,take yur time.i go beta.

If your boyfriend hits you for any reason, dump him immediately. This is about respect, not love.
Abusive men are like goats, they never learn. Anything short of dumping him immediately will not stop him.

Brings back memories of my ex. Even till date I still can't blieve I cld actually feel his five fingers on my poor cheeks like blind people touch-feel braile. That was when I knew it was time to leave his sorry (and broke) ass.
But dem never born the man wey wan follow me try that shit now. My current boyfriend? Well I dnt think I'ld do any thing physical but I know hw much he values his personal possessions. All I need are a new tiger blade and a small hammer. Then I I'll pretend to have forgiven him. I'll go from his favourite suit to the hot rims on his benz while he's at work. Shredding and panel beating. And then I'll c if I can get my hands on his Atm card. I can imagine him in coma for 2yrs!

What is wrong if a man Beats a woman? Have you not seen a woman that beats up her Man? why dont you ask the Girl what makes her Guy always beat her Up? Maybe she is evil, wicked and Disrecpectful and Crazy, so what do you expect, when i tell a girl dont do that, is unfair then she bark back at me, saying Go to hell, and you can do anything? what will you do? I will beat her Up, so that the madness clears from her eyes, and if she repeat it, I will deal with her again, Until she learns, If you spair the ROD you spare the child.

shotman:

What is wrong if a man Beats a woman? Have you not seen a woman that beats up her Man? why don't you ask the Girl what makes her Guy always beat her Up? Maybe she is evil, wicked and Disrecpectful and Crazy, so what do you expect, when i tell a girl don't do that, is unfair then she bark back at me, saying Go to hell, and you can do anything? what will you do? I will beat her Up, so that the madness clears from her eyes, and if she repeat it, I will deal with her again, Until she learns, If you spair the ROD you spare the child.

but ur girlfriend aint ur child

for a man who 'beats' his girl. just swap the last 2 letters in the action word from the sentence above & u get who the man really is. ah! i see y'all figured it out. he's a beast. cursed be the day i raise my hands against a girl (except my sister cos i dont know who is more stubborn btw her & goats)

e no dey fear?

If you beat your sister, then you are no better than a wife beater. I don't even support beating children.

Beating another human being is wrong. Be it your sister, brother or child. I would never ever hit my kids. There are people who grow up fine without having ever been beaten.

There's something that puzzles me about the mentality of people on this forum though. Why do you people automatically assume that two people dating leads straight to marraige? I mean, what if the author of this thread is sixteen years old? You people are already giving her marraige advice. She said my boyfriend is beating me up, not my husband to be. Or is it every relationship that leads to marraige? I dont get it.

I love my men strong and courageous,so since a woman beater is a coward, I do not think our paths will ever cross.

If he really love's you then he would not hurt you .Drop him quick fast and in a hurry.And don't take him back ounce a man puts his hands on you it does not stop.Love yourself and find someone who knows how to treat a lady.A real man knows how to deal with a woman without putting his hands on her.

common sense says:

If some person you *dont have to be with* is beating you up, move away from said person and get yourself protection from him/her.


ludicrously confusing feminine lovey-dovey 'logic' says:

If he's beating me, maybe I'm doing something wrong.


Now, obviously wife/girlfriend beaters enjoy beating women up. Soooooooo if u (wife beaters) are lucky to find some girl daft enough to stand around and take your shit, then I say this to you:


"BEAT 'EM UP, GUYS!!!! GOOOOO FOR BROKE!!!!"

One day she will wake up and dump your arse. Unfortunately because this is an unfair and unjust world, she probably wont have the stones to cut your balls off when she's leaving, so you'll probably just find another punching bag.

Seun:

If you beat your sister, then you are no better than a wife beater. I don't even support beating children.

Seun, I'm very serious this time. Please marry me.

Fellas, never raise your hands to a woman, It's illegal.

if your boyfriend beat you i am vacant and i wont so notify me so that we can have a wornderful experience , no knocking,hitting,beating,so i will show you how the beast suppose to treat you nice

Should any man lay a finger on me, I'll cut his balls and then claim self defense which isn't far from the truth.

Some just make a hell of noise, go there now, they are beaten everyday by their boyfriends still they hang tight with them. I know is wrong to beat ur girlfriend but some girls, their mouth sharp like blade. Again, it seems guys would fight to death if another man beats their sisters but they would go ahead to beat other girls. I tell you, if you beat my own sister, no matter how sharp her mouth is, I will, infact let me not say anything here. Unless she fails to let me know of it.