Ewuro4:


Coz the President lays her or she's always in pantsuits compared to other 2?

SirShymexx:

We're all always guilty of that, but words have nuances when it comes to application in context.
Nicki Minaj, Kim K, and Olivia Pope are supremely classy women albeit perhaps not on a particular standard where morals (even this one is debatable cos we all judge them based on how public their private lives are) are involved. I'd even throw Amber Rose in there. We as human beings are just naturally judgemental based on preconceived notions and our outlook to life .

DollyParton1:

yes and yes.

DollyParton1:


Typo. Meant to write its not.
But these days, averagely, classy has nothing to do with being a virgin or not. Well except if u are the any stick goes in my hole type of lady or any hole goes with my stick type of man.
When someone says a lady is classy, the first thing that comes to mind is intelligence, education, dressing, eloquence, carriage...... etc. People rarely think about Vurginity as a sign of class.

DollyParton1:

yes and yes.

SirShymexx:


Lol. I hear that.

But to Islamists who swallow c4 all the time for 72 virgins, class(y) and virginity are intertwined. Ditto traditional Christians, who still uphold white wedding in its purest form...and Vatican where high morals, especially when it comes to se.x, are still highly regarded. I'd wager that based on how Nigerians tout religion all up in everyone's grill, like religious wingnuts, the same should be case, on the surface.

Anyway, a lot of words these days are just overrated, and folks just like throwing words around anyhow, hence I don't take folks seriously.

DollyParton1:


Don't go too far.... What does classy in its simplest form means to u? Religious and cultural sentiments aside.
And really you have little idea about Nigeria system in this case... Being a virgin does not translate to being a classy for an average Nigerian. It just mean that the lady in question is morally upright (and that even is debatable) or lack of opportunity (according to some clowns)

By the way, someone who is ready to blow himself up for 72 virgins is a religious lunatic

SirShymexx:


Lol. The crafty nature of the daughter of Eve is about to strike...tryna make me commit to one school of thought, no?

Err, I'd say in popular culture, without diva-esque front, Angela Davis (darn! her legendary afro inspired a generation), Alicia Keys, and Sade Adu represent classy to me. Ditto my fellow capricornian, Denzel Washington. Define that how you wanna define it - but it doesn't negate other people's perspective.

I was just messing about with the 72virgins example. Just a way of saying Muslim communities/societies attach a lot of importance to virginity, hence you see old heads marrying kids. Not slagging them off though.

TreQuartista:


No, there isn't. Any attempt to define 'classy' would at best be an emotive exercise carried out in the prism of the person's world-view. In other words, it is highly subjective.

On what premise are you denying Nicki Minaj as being 'classy'. I hope her supposed 'indecorum' has nothing to do with Anaconda?

This is at best simplistic. 'Beyonce has class' because? 'Amber Rose doesn't' because?

This assertion belongs to the realm of opinions.

aflyingbird:

true oo. virginity berra. d non-virgins r going to come in n hate, some of dem r alreeady here sayin virginity no be class, self-aggradize..mcheww.. dis one sef, u can use simple word but she too like forming, nonsense. others won't b virgins oo but they will come in 2 support it forming virgin. too many hos parading nairaland abeg, men b careful. will neva take a ho for a wife

5minsmadness:
And for those of you who think africans/nigerians are too conservative or backward or primitive in their thinking of what 'classy' should be; here is a step by step approach on how to be classy from our ever superior white folk themselves . Enjoy.
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Classy

Keep the promiscuity to a minimum.
If you want to be classy, then you shouldn't go hooking up with random people every night. And if that's your thing, at least don't talk about it, brag about it, or walk around with lots of visible hickeys. Classy people don't kiss and tell, so don't divulge the details of your latest hook up session. Don't let people see you making out on the dance floor either, because guess what, that is not classy.
[size=20pt] •It's okay to experiment and have several sexual partners[/size]. But if you brag about it or treat it like a contest, you will run into trouble.

DollyParton1:


No one is trying to make u commit to one school of thought. You were the one trying to be crafty instead. But I got my answers.

Flytefalls:

#11

5minsmadness:

I liiiiiike you
You actually took time to read it
You didn't see the first paragraph

Flytefalls:

I liiiike you too
I read it because I knew it'd be something ridiculous, and I have an hour to kill.
Which first paragraph?

Being classy is not about being stuck up. You need to cultivate respect. And that means respect for everyone, including yourself. Take care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them. Be confident in yourself, [size=16pt]dress how you want [/size]and act accordingly

•It's okay to experiment and have several sexual partners. But if you brag about it or treat it like a contest, you will run into trouble.

5minsmadness:




Awwww c'mon it wasn't all ridiculous! Most of the points were actually very good!.


And remember, a cheat isn't really a cheat until caught