dharmie092:
Let me say d lady happen to be 20yrs in her 3rd year when she started d relationship + 11yrs equals 31yrs....... Is there any guy here who can walk up to a 31yr old lady for marriage in dis dispensation? We just have to be realistic,
this is pure wickedness.

babyosisi:

She just wasn't a wife material for him

and you know all these through psychic powers?girls will never understand men no matter how hard they try to analyze us.just becoz he didnt wife her dont mean she wasn't 'wife material' whatever that smelly shiat means. ive seen night club dancers being wifed while the 'library' girls are ignored.sometimes, the heart wants what the heart wants even if it wants a burnt corpse for a wife. the fellow is one ruthless nigg.a though.

codeafrica:
and you know all these through psychic powers?girls will never understand men no matter how hard they try to analyze us.just becoz he didnt wife her dont mean she wasn't 'wife material' whatever that smelly shiat means. ive seen night club dancers being wifed while the 'library' girls are ignored.sometimes, the heart wants what the heart wants even if it wants a burnt corpse for a wife. the fellow is one ruthless nigg.a though.

babyosisi:


Do you speak for speaking sake
She just wasn't wife material for him I say
Did you hear me describe what a wife material must be?
That wAs all your imagination not mine
You set the question and you are answering it too
If she were a wife material for him he would marry her,is that a complicated thing to comprehend?

i dont speak for speaking sake,you on the other hand did. you speak with the authority of a person who has shared a roof with the couple hence i ask once more-from your living room, you can tell the woman wasn't wife material (for him like u say)?thats what i call thinking like a woman.a man will tell you that most men make spontenous decisions concerning marriage and unfortunately the utopian fallacy of 'wife material' isnt a determinant. many guys marry without thinking of the repercussions,only to deal with them later. and lets assume your right- she wasnt 'wife material'.. ....does any sane person(man or woman) need 11 years to realize that their partner isnt 'marriage material'?it doesnt matter what people say about me, im a good guy.anytime someone will tell me otherwise ill simply show them this topic.evil fellow that one.

prettyboi1989:
Girls once a guy sees u not so intelligent he'll neva wana spend d rest of his life with a dunce.

how do you explain the existence of the dunces who are married?someone married them,right? how do you explain the blonde wives?i love this forum i swear becoz i get to learn 'theories' ive never heard of in my life.
trying to defend the fellow when we all can see that this is heartlessness of the highest order.ISIS look like Jesus compared to this dude.

lrguru:
I wonder why the friend is cryin more than the bereaved. The lady is goin to be so heartbroken and it won't be easy, and I'm sure this her kolo friend must somehow be instrumental to this break up. Imagine the lady's clique, bunch of g-string wearin, low-waist saggin, nose piercin, butt pad wearin, club goin and igbo smokin friends and u want the poor guy to manage this?

the nigg.a has now become the victim?

codeafrica:
how do you explain the existence of the dunces who are married?someone married them,right? how do you explain the blonde wives?i love this forum i swear becoz i get to learn 'theories' ive never heard of in my life.
trying to defend the fellow when we all can see that this is heartlessness of the highest order.ISIS look like Jesus compared to this dude.

dharmie092:
Let me say d lady happen to be 20yrs in her 3rd year when she started d relationship + 11yrs equals 31yrs....... Is there any guy here who can walk up to a 31yr old lady for marriage in dis dispensation?.

nigeria the home of clowns.
where i come from women get hitched even at 37,but apparently in nigeria a 31 year old woman is the equivalent of 81 in other countries.a 31 year-old nigerian woman is probably using a stick to support her delicate back, is overweight, has sagging skin,grey hair,wrinkled skin and should probably be in an old peoples nursing home.well,,,,at least that;s the impression i get here.at 31 the life of a nigerian girl is over while thats the very time other women are just starting theirs.

prettyboi1989:
b4 u counter y dnt u try empathize? y dnt u hook up wit a dunce n den hook up wit an intelligent babe dnt 4get to come bak with d report. only like minds can roll 2geda.

codeafrica:
i dont speak for speaking sake,you on the other hand did. you speak with the authority of a person who has shared a roof with the couple hence i ask once more-from your living room, you can tell the woman wasn't wife material (for him like u say)?thats what i call thinking like a woman.a man will tell you that most men make spontenous decisions concerning marriage and unfortunately the utopian fallacy of 'wife material' isnt a determinant. many guys marry without thinking of the repercussions,only to deal with them later. and lets assume your right- she wasnt 'wife material'.. ....does any sane person(man or woman) need 11 years to realize that their partner isnt 'marriage material'?it doesnt matter what people say about me, im a good guy.anytime someone will tell me otherwise ill simply show them this topic.evil fellow that one.

babyosisi:

Whatever that quality is is his definition of wife material and she didn't possess it
Why are you this thick?
Sheesh

dexcira:
This is unfair! Even if d new girl is better,ehee? He didn't evn tel d gal he's evn getting married or try talk sense into her dou it wil b hard for her to take it! Wonda hs reasons for such act! Na God go judge! To the babe I wish u the very best in life! Better marriage awaits u! Move on cos is d begining of your testimony

rubey:
Men = Beasts!
And the fool dated him for so long!

codeafrica:
im not thick, you on the other hand are.

point1-im telling you those "wifey qualities", whatever they are may matter to a few men and not to others(many more). some men close their eyes,sleep, dream and marry whoever is available when theyre still in their 'dream' state.most(not all) men marry the woman who is available at the time he thinks of marrying,rather than who has the "qualities" he likes in a wife.once they awake from the dream they have 2 options;to regret leaving the ex or live with the current choice and face life as it comes,comprehendo? its not always about being left for the one who has qualities you lack.thats what youre trying to imply here and its not necessarily the case(theres a slim chance it may as well be the case).this is the same drivel i keep drumming into my sisters when they wine about men becoz women can be clueless sometimes,you being a clear example regarding this particular case. marriage to most men is like gambling,pick,cross your fingers,and hope for the best.

point 2-lets assume youre right and he was in the category of men who look for certain "qualities" before marrying...did he require 11 years to "discover" that his ex lacked those "wifey qualities" in his definition?
nobody knows for sure what transpired thats why whetever peeps come up with will remain theories. some clowns are talking of bedroom skills, other imbec!les about her partying,others are talking about how she may have mistreated the fellow when he was a broke nukka,nobody really knows.

point 3-not to deviate ,the major issue isnt why he picked the other lady for marriage.the issue is why drag a dead-end rship for 11 years when he could have ended it 8 years earlier because i imagine her failure to meet his definition of "wifey qualities" were present early into the rship.....if that fishy theory stands that is.

Boomboost:
Codeafrica, this one na over breaking down. I'm following you after this.

codeafrica:
the nigg.a has now become the victim?

zeb04:
you just shot yourself in the foot.although you don't know the whole story,you alredy concluding because you can't bear to call a spade a spade.

Wrong is wrong. No amount of coating makes it right.

lrguru:
did I call a spade a shovel here? I said what he did was wrong but I'm sure he has got his reason and I assumed most I listed up there could be the cause. So why are u complaining? Or are u the girl's friend?

zeb04:
I am not complaining.I only repllied your quote

icebebe:
Awwww! Nemesis will catch up wiv him but den wny will she date a man fr 11yrs! Was she charmed or wat?

searider:
The guy has his reasons.

I left my girl friend because my family cOmplained about her been too fast forward and I confiRMed it.

farano:
Is sex all that men really want?

rubey:
Men = Beasts!
And the fool dated him for so long!

babyosisi:

A tad too a.nal
Sorry don't have the patience for all this epistle over what needs no explanation.you shouldn't have bothered
Ta Ta

shejane:
The only wrong d guy did was not telling the girl b4 paying his wife's dowry

He should have settled with the girl first just out of respect and appreciation that's all

As for leaving the girl of 11yrs for someone he just met, is never a crime

Marriage is never by force or a debt to pay NO, is a choice and that choice must be respected no matter whose heart that got shot