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Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by cococandy(f): 8:08pm On May 29, 2015 |
So if the man is actively beating the mom or trying to strangle her at the moment, the best she can do is fold her arms and watch since it's not her place to involve the police even if no one else can help at the moment? abbey621: 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by abbey621(m): 8:15pm On May 29, 2015 |
cococandy: Tell me what the police will achieve besides locking the man up or even killing him? The Nigerian police that I know might even collect bribe and set the man free, what then happens next? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Iffffffy(f): 8:15pm On May 29, 2015 |
What does ur mum do for a living, can't she take care of you if she leaves the house with her children, o lagbara o |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by liquidmetall: 8:15pm On May 29, 2015 |
redgem: redgem: redgem: op talking about gender equality in this scenario:-) your mum is supposed to be equal in strength with your father + your own equal strength<additional strength> "john cena things" please smoke his kind of weed too along with your mum<additional strength+strength from above>double combo so you guys can challenge him and reverse everything beat him,strangle him,lock him inside the freezer by the time he's out his head go cool ofe oha n'agum. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by cococandy(f): 8:22pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621:locking him up? Great idea. Until he can be charged to court for physical assault and then sentenced to 10-25yrs for attempted murder. That's the solution. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by abbey621(m): 8:31pm On May 29, 2015 |
cococandy: And ask yourself this, what would be the ultimate result? The woman in question is refusing to leave the husband, I can tell you plain and frank that if they lock him up, she would be the first person pleading on his behalf. You seem so out of touch with reality that it's not even funny, this is 9ja forget all the bullsh*t you see or hear in the movies or the radio! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by cococandy(f): 8:53pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621:being locked where he can't hurt anyone again is a great ultimate result as far I'm concerned But I agree with you that she may be the first to go beg for him to be released. Still the better solution is not to fold arms and watch him kill her before stepping in. By then he will still end up locked up but she will be dead in addition. And the family wil be triply traumatized. Better? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by Danhumprey: 9:14pm On May 29, 2015 |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by abbey621(m): 9:28pm On May 29, 2015 |
cococandy: I refuse to believe that a 21 year old girl cannot influence her mother. The first step is to convince her mom to leave, any other method forcing her to leave will not work. They've been together for over 20 years and this level of violence didn't just show up today and I'm sure the man's main source of control is the fact that he's probably the bread winner so involving the police will not solve anything! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by thelish(f): 9:47pm On May 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:u talk like someone who intends to strangle his wife sooner or later, and u will nid d support of ur children as well. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by 4everGrand(m): 9:48pm On May 29, 2015 |
abbey621: Abbey, thanks o, my advice is rubbish. It really does seem you didnt read completely wat I wrote. Kindly give urs and let's know who is more realistic. Pele. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by pwerrymansion(f): 10:32pm On May 29, 2015 |
VintageCocktail:I admit this issue is sensitive bt I couldn't help laffing at your response. Its just Epic! Lmao! What religion has turned people with brains into, smh. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by kandiikane(m): 2:46am On May 30, 2015 |
weed does not really make users violent. It gives more of a sedative effect, it makes you chilled out, ever heard the phrase, "couch lock" so I don't think the violence should be blamed on the weed. As for the topic, my contribution is not needed as many have written my thoughts down already. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by aperture11: 3:05am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: I think he needs to be reminded that it is now an imprisonable offence to beat his wife. Thanks to the bill signed by the past President a few days ago. So he can be arrested and put in prison. Get someone to chip that in, the fear of prison might curb his temper. |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by holysaint1(m): 4:11am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: i seriously dunno y so many good women end up with d wrong dude.. #ironyoflife 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by redgem(f): 8:39am On May 30, 2015 |
Please, is there any one in ph who can help me with accommodation for the main time? I really need where to rest my head 1 Like 4 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by redgem(f): 8:51am On May 30, 2015 |
Please someone should help me...even if I need to pay, will find work within the first month...please |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by otiigba1(m): 9:08am On May 30, 2015 |
ALL SAID! and adviced, but the poor girl still needs help now what?! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:12am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: Foolish Daughter! A disgrace! Some Children of your age are the ones making "peace" between their Parents and you are here jumping up like a deranged Pig! if you are old enough to come to Nairaland, then , l presume correctly that you are an ADULT!. So, stop acting foolish, MOVE YOUR MAMA out of there! Either go and rent a room for her where she could stay ..or Move her to live with some of her relations, assuming you dont have paying job yet. By asking for "Human Rights Activist" shows that you dont have "pure intentions". Rubbishing your Father should not be the intention of a good daughter but that of a Bastard! If he was that Violent, how did you survive up to this age? You, Your Mother and Father are all bound by the SAME BLOOD! That would NEVER change. Dont turn your family into a "Laboratory" where others come to show their skill. It does not always end well for everyone involved. Go and ask Emmanuel Adebayor, if in doubt! If you truly love your Mother and respect your father, move her first, then call Elders in your family to intervene! I guess there is no smoke without fire. If he did not try to kill her since your own birth and till now, something must be amiss. TELL US! Like it is sad, "if you see a Squirrel dancing Azonto along the road side, there must be a drummer somewhere in the bush"! A word is enough. Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by redgem(f): 9:26am On May 30, 2015 |
I'm pleading....I don't want to stay with any relatives where he will have access to me. Please, I'm on my knees |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:29am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: I tell you, No father EVER forgets this! He will hate you all his life. You said this thing has been happening for some time? How did you always "settle it" back then without humiliating him with Police? Why not this time? Your Mum was already "out of danger" because you said "she went to church". She could stay back in Church and chill out some where. But your first post indicated that she was in IMMEDIATE DANGER! Then instead of "rescuing her" from that murderer, you wanted a "human right activist"! Is the activist suppose to help you remove her or to help you "jail him"? See, you are DELIBERATELY EMBELLISHING THIS STORY. INFACT, you are lying against your father just to garner sympathy and help. Painting your Father bad and your Mother as the innocent Angel! We cant hear your father's version but it is obvious you are taking sides already. I can start "picking holes' in your story but l dont have the time. But remember o, you too will have children, male and female, in the future.... and you will reap what you are sowing now. No be curse! Dearis God! Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:31am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: Why are you so afraid of him NOW? Go and stay with friends for now. I thought it was your Mum that was the "target"? Seems you are also the target now...WHY? Once your Mum is safe, go and start the job you said you wanted to start and stay with that your friend you mentioned. Dont tell him where you are. SIMPLE. Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:39am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: But did you not call the Police on him? Is that not the truth.... if it is so, then why are you saying he is "Changing the truth"? Seems you are not truthful yourself. Why not just try to justify why you need to call-in the Police? If your reasons are valid and honest, you should not be worried over that! But l guess you have your own ulterior motives as well, especially that "Human Right activist" request! Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:43am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: Now we are getting close! [b]So, INFIDELITY is one of the reasons? While l cant take your word for "who is doing what", l think these two are no longer husband and wife, just living together. That "weed angle" is just to tarnish his image. It has nothing to do with their quarrel. Stop maligning your own father. Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:47am On May 30, 2015 |
dinachi: I tell you! But you need to see the inside of the "homes" (if any) of some of these Counsellors and you wil understand why they speaketh as they do. Nonsense. Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:49am On May 30, 2015 |
redgem: So the 'butcher' still has one friend left? And that friend can call him, he answers, listen and acts on it by going out? I thought you gave us the impression that he listens to no one? Hmmm..... Dearis God o! Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:53am On May 30, 2015 |
lolababe331e: Stop yarning rubbish! What stops her from leaving him? Did the man not also accuse her of having lovers or did you not read that in what the daughter wrote? If you cant believe that part then why must you believe that on his own part? So, which of those two can prevent him or her from being with who they want to be with? You people dnt have little sense, not to talk of deep reasoning. Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:58am On May 30, 2015 |
icebeatz: What if the man also have "stronger and bigger" siblings, who then seek to also "avenge" their brother that was beaten by his in-laws? It now becomes a "Battle of Clans" abi? See how foolish that advice is? Its a No-Brainer, for your village peeps. Best thing is to gather "elders" and let them dig to the root of the problem, proffer reasonable solution but if the TWO (which it takes to tango) cannot AGREE, then they should SEPARATE and NOT LIVE TOGETHER. If after that, the matter does not resolve, then any of the two id FREE and ENTITLED to seek an annulment of such marriage because on the grounds of mutual desertion!. Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 9:59am On May 30, 2015 |
lolababe331e: You are insane! Spouses dont react to their children the way they react to their "estrange spouse". Use your head. Quarrel between spouses should not and in most cases, dont extend to the Children except where one spouse instigates the children against the other. Lastpage 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 10:03am On May 30, 2015 |
lolly2pops: Greedy thieves, thats how they start! They use any quarrel as an "excuse" to take the custody they cant even perform properly, all so they can get MONEY! No wonder there are so many errant youths all over the place, nurtured by Mums who are only interested in the "financial reward" their marriage breakdown, can give them! How much is your divorced husband paying you? Anuofia! Lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 10:06am On May 30, 2015 |
abbey621: This is the kind of person you should listen to, not those silly "Single Mums" who have destroyed their own home and want as many people as can be, to join them. Look at his solution? A win-win for everyone involved. lastpage! |
Re: I Need Help! Its About Life And Death by lastpage: 10:08am On May 30, 2015 |
abbey621: May your source of Wisdom be forever replenished. God will continue to add more to you. That last line was EPIC! Lastpage! 1 Like |
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