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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 5:57pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: Women are capable of achieving anything they want. So get the phone and see stuffs |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by ednut1(m): 5:57pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
am sure u shared ur pre wedding pics on here. madam tell him u hv seen it and forgiven him |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 6:01pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: Acidosis, you are not giving me answers. You better go carry that babe go beach or bbq make una yarn and gist so you fit see how she dey react with other humans |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 6:05pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane:he he, oya let's go |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 6:12pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis:You sabi me already. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Zi: prissyluv: damiso: damiso: Thank you all. I really appreciate your prayers and your support. And thank you to everybody who put a word of support or prayer for me. And to everybody who mailed me, you can still contact me there as I am deactivating this profile. And I have your numbers too so I can call. Im not in the frame of mind to put any further information here for e-people to pat themselves on the back and gloat over. Like I said, he that is down needs fear no fall. I cannot fall further than I have. It simply cannot be worse than it is. Yes, I know. The STI tests and all. I will do them. If fine, then good. If not, then this is the card Ive been dealt and I have no choice than to live my life as healthily as I can. I only needed to vent till I take a step and I have. Mission accomplished. For now. At most, I resign and I leave Nigeria. Perfect opportunity to chase my other dreams. I start a new life. And he can too. People have done it and people will still do it. If that is what happens, then fine! I'm OK with it. It will only be a new phase of life which I will adapt to. So regardless of what anyone here or anywhere says or does. This does not define me. I did nothing wrong in this case. And when all has been said or done, I WILL BE FINE!! 11 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 6:20pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane:hmmn true |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by cococandy(f): 6:32pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
@ bold, you certainly will dear. Nobody has the key to your happiness and fulfillment as a human being. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
@bold, I think that has been established already. They are giving advice they can't take. At least put yourself in someone's shoes before telling them to endure and pray over something that will make you even kill someone. Where people drop their conscience sometimes I don't know. Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwww bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Jamean:Don't pay heed to all these sad tales dear, there are good marriages just that they're unnoticed because people are more concerned about negatives so that they can see what to rant about. Many people are happy when they see you're unhappy, that's why the bad gets talked about more often... when people say they've good marriages, you see people calling them liars, asking them how sure they are their partners ain't cheating and all sort of negativities. . But when someone says she has a bad marriage, nobody doubts it.. that's how negative the world has become but there are still positive people though. . Bottomline: Don't let the stories here(some of which are false) guide you, you can have a happy and wonderful marriage dear .. just know what you want right from courtship.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Jamean(f): 6:47pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: I doff my hat for you. Lovely response. 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by k2039: 6:56pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
freecocoa: [size=13pt] I can say with 99.9% certainty that if he cheated then, he will cheat again. If he wasn't faithful during the courtship, he won't be faithful after. To think the dude even called this lady after one of his sexual escapades is even alarming. Even more alarming is that he has more than one sexual partner. A leopard cannot change its spots. [/size] 6 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Austin234(m): 7:42pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
It's amazing how calm I feel. Its amazing that I havent pulled out my hair. That I havent shouted the house down. That I havent broken every single electronic that I can lay my hands on.I realy see with u. My advice: Confront him in a polite manner on dis mata. Definitely, dat was his past. But he need a re-orientation. Above all, allow Jesus into ur mariage 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by demelza: 7:45pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
keppyy:God punish you! 4 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 7:49pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane:It's not a lie and none of the girls were less than 23. Anyway like someone said, different people have different experiences. I wasn't raised to see women as sex objects but the truth is some of these ladies don't behave like ladies despite passing through the four corners of a university. Op (sophy/vic) has deactivated. I guess the shouting match didn't end very well. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Tundeiab(m): 7:59pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:You must be a jobless individual, to have seen all these films!!! 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by pickabeau1: 8:00pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kart042000(m): 8:26pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: You are obviously ignorant what marriage is all about, you think it is a relationship you break up and pick another. A wise woman builds her home while a foolish one brings it down. @brownie i read through all the comments and I can imagine how hurt you are. Truth be told, like an Irony, most bad guys eventually marry a very good girl and vice versa. They know the game of love, pretence and care that a good virgin boy can hardly ever offer. The fact that you are a good girl who kept her self would have distanced yourself to avoid temptation before wedding, and that was all the perfect time you had to know him more personally. I know guys like your hubby, they do last minute flexing hoping that would be their last before marriage, until they get into it not having all the pleasures they've been used to. My advice to you is to confront him after a good meal with the video, obviously he must feel bad because I believe he his trying to stop such acts. HE NEEDS YOUR HELP!!! Believe me. You need to allow him confide in you, let him know you are going to forgive him if he his willing to change and it will never repeat itself because it all happened before the wedding day. Tell him you are his wife, and it is your duty not to keep your body away from him, let him open up how he enjoys it. Do not deprive of him, if you are not enjoying it, pretend to be, or better still engage him in a discussion on how to pleasure you too. You need to help him break away from pornography addiction as that will make him see ladies unclad even in cloths. You are a beginner and he has been used to dealing with pros with the technical know how, you need to improve on yourself and learn to open up to him completely and encourage him to do same. ZIG ZIGLER said love does not bring about marriage but narriage brings about love. It is unfortunate you didn't know him before you got married, but here is your chance to know your better half, so you guys can become one as the bible stated 1+1=1. Do not give up on your marriage vows, protect your marriage, if he gets satisfied at home, he won't have a reason to go back to his vomit. Wish you all the best, and i pray you overcome this trying times. After settling the matter,delete all the videos in your possession. You can even joke with him when you are in a lighter mood why he does all the recording. If its for ahow off with his friends or he just uses it for self service. And hope he his not recording you too . Trust me this is an opportunity to make the bond of your marriage stronger. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by seedord247(m): 8:32pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
^ Kandikane is a lesby |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane:I know you did, I was just reiterateing it If not and by rapport, you mean some form of sexual tension that needs to be released once they see each other at his place? Once you notice that tension or a little bit of hint, it will be advised to avoid visiting his house to avoid stories that touch since you haven't estabkished such rapport. I cannot speak of the degree of bestiality in men but I assure you its present. Or, should not trust any man who asks for a visit to his home?Would you trust any man asking you to visit his home? If this is what you mean, speaking objectively, do you feel it is ok, to make men seems like they cannot be amicable with the opposite sex without sexual frustration?Some men are more beast than men while others are more men than beast. My mum would say, not every one you see dressed up and looking decent and speaks good is normal. Some people's psyche have been seriously bleeped up. In sum, women should strive to cease being in situations where they turn victims or vulnerable. Its a vicious world to all of us, even Jesus wasn't spared. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Hmmmmnnnn...Op is gone. I hope she finds peace and happiness wherever she is... And I can smell the Hypocrites from afar on this thread...The 'Red Underwear' and 'Pray and Endure' crew 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Lagusta(m): 9:50pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
standd: And the BIG WHITE PANT crew.... |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Lagusta:What group do you belong to, Mr. Lagusta? |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Lagusta(m): 10:12pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
standd: I'm kukuma a spectator.... |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
demelza: God will not punish me... I don't know your faith but I know mine and if you take an oath at the altar of God, you're bound by it... Marriage is not for everyone and if you do not have what it takes to be married, stay single (paul said that)... No one is perfect, we all claim to be good because our secrets are still secrets... God has not casted us away despite our numerous and awful sins, who are we not to forgive. 6 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:54pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kart042000: The only ignorant person here is you. You are not even ashamed of yourself to use your fingers to type such rubbish about a wise woman builds her home when the thread is about a cheating man, you don take style twist everything back to the woman. See, I want to forever be ignorant and unwise if I do not believe in the bullshyt sufferhead til death do you part mentality. This same bullshyt is how many husbands have no respect for their women because they know they can get away with anything. It is this same mentality that causes women to overlook their children being abused because it is more of a problem to be unwed than your child being abused. This mentality is no different to the mentality being drummed into women's ears that men will regard you more if you keep your virginity(was it not this virginity the op was keeping when he take style become an amateur po.rnstar? Ladies take note)-men will regard you more when you become that "virtuous" woman who overlooks the partner's marital failures. You must think you are speaking to primary school students with such rubbish, marriage doesn't change the dna code of men as humans. You will always be taken for granted and walked on like carpet. Like I wrote, let me be that unwise woman who doesn't want to build her home on stds, cancers, tears and pain and also showing the next generation, how to have no worth and respect for thyself. For your mind now you don advise am better thing. Nonsense 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:58pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
seedord247: Shhh, why na? Is it because I used my strapon on you? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 11:07pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
blublahd: @bolded, I do not just trust anyone asking to come visit their homes including women but that is not the point as we are talking about situations were one has gained your trust. I see, so basically do not trust a man you have a sexual connection with. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
I see feminists everywhere 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by seedord247(m): 11:25pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: Nah Felicia ... Get yourself a man before this inglorious celibacy turn you to a bipolar candidate |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Walks in... No mentions of APC or PDP, no tweets from Ben Bruce, nothing from El rufai, no press statement from Lai Mohammed, not talks on fuel price Strolls out of thread... 1 Like |
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