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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 3:40pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
First time liking the post of the lady above me^^^ WORD. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by damiso(f): 3:40pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
I really can't think of anything else to say that that has not already been said BUT; CONFRONT YOUR HUSBAND I would go with onegai's method. I don't think I could bottle stuff up the way you have cos I might have had a heart attack or stroke by now. I have learnt with time to censor how the words will come out but if I don't tell my husband my mind I could fall ill. I tell him if I don't tell you the truth who will?so yeah I am your greatest cheerleader but I will also tell you when I think you are going astray.Thats love in my own opinion So please for the sake of your sanity and health; CONFRONT HIM 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by bukatyne(f): 3:42pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Joy1706: Not just hypocrites, bloody ones |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 3:42pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Joavid:Yay, I love being real, no pretence 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 3:43pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Stillfire: |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Stillfire: 3:48pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Moana: Me, I have already told God I cannot bear pain o. Notwithstanding there are women who can bear and endure strife , I don tell God make im dash them my portion. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Zi: 3:50pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
OP hasn't talked in the past few hours.
I guess the "confrontation" is taking place now Brownie, my thoughts and prayers are with you this difficult time. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by prissyluv(f): 3:53pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
brownie10,you mean you dated /courted this man before marriage? Things are happening oooo. You are strong though. I cant keep all these to myself since yesterday. All the best in your decision making. But why make this videos in the first place? Of a truth,this story is really shocking. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Moana(f): 3:53pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Stillfire:i understand you. Why put up with something your partner would never put up with if the tables were turned. I just lost hope for the OP when she said that she even got calls and messages before the wedding and his friends even covered up for him and she just turned a blind eye to it. Of course there would have his back what else would she expect from them? He lied the first time and this is the second time, but hey maybe she wants him to bring any extra-marital child in the house before she really knows what she is dealing with. What ever makes her happy o All these people talking about for better or worse will be the same people to insult her left, right, centre, over and under when she comes back with another sexcapade of his. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 4:14pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Zi:Lol Person die? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 4:34pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Nothing wrong with being invited to a male's home as long as there is a mutual understanding but with all the threads on Nairaland, it seems a woman has to be wary about trusting a man in his home. From the mentality of most nigerian males on this forum, if a lady goes to your house that means she has consented to having sex with you. Absolutely messed up. 7 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 4:43pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: Where you wan take know the woman, for your bedroom? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Amis(f): 4:44pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
I didn't want to comment but ur response got me lol...did I read baf investment quote author=Nonso23 post=34994524] Ehmm First of all, I am a Nigerian and more importantly. I am a Nigerian Man. Remember this song "to be a man is not a day's job..." Na her papa house we dey go straight. I must get a refund for my bad investment. Seriously though, I know the last thing I would do is bring the matter here for strangers to dissect. First thing first, She must give me an explanation, (why brownie10 hasn't requested for one from her DH still baffles me) whether I will continue with the marriage or not afterwards should be clear by now. I don't do mushy mushy love o. My love dey calculate balance sheet and socioeconomic viability. [/quote] |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 4:45pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
blublahd: From a previous post of yours, I can see you have the come to my house syndrome. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Hero10001: 4:47pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Ti e ti ba e.
Youre a gonner. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Amis(f): 4:49pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Stillfire: Guess am not an average Naija woman going by this your description....if am the op by now we would have been editing the terms and agreement of the for better for worse |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane:Actually I don't, would rather prefer I do it in your house. Except if she says otherwise. But traditionally, going to a dude's house, you must have established a good amount of rapport, anything short of that am afraid, is stupid and naive. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 5:06pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
blublahd: I believe I implied the bolded in a previous post. If not and by rapport, you mean some form of sexual tension that needs to be released once they see each other at his place? This means any woman who has not established such rapport is asking to be ra.ped? Or, should not trust any man who asks for a visit to his home? If this is what you mean, speaking objectively, do you feel it is ok, to make men seems like they cannot be amicable with the opposite sex without sexual frustration? 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 5:10pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Nonso23: Very deep post my good man. Well said. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by wealthywiseman: 5:10pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Oh my gosh. women and drama. A guy decides to have his last sex escapades just before his wedding and some woman here gets hysterical after finding out. It's not as if he committed adultery, far from it. He only tried to quench every would be grooms' natural desire. op, do take heart. Most men do this before marriage. its the way of most of us. It comes with the thought of finally cohabiting with one woman for the rest of your sexual life. I did it too my dear. but I am good now. Accept and live with it dear. It could really have been worse you know. Believe me, I have witnessed just about the worst of it. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by bukatyne(f): 5:13pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Nonso23: This is a very beautiful piece. I hope This is not one of your trolling moments Beautiful one again |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 5:17pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: We are derailing. However. I have had more than one occasion where I have invited a relatively new chic to my house and catered to her needs without engaging in any sexual overtures. The results are always the same. They go home and start gossiping how u are a prude or you don't like sex or you don't like them. This "come to my house" syndrome is not just an affectation of the male species alone. Females feel if they come to your house and spend the night and you don't make a move towards them then there is something wrong somewhere. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 5:20pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Meanwhile a moment of silence for the op as she engages her porn star wannabe husband in a shouting match taking place right now... Lets hope love and decency prevails. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 5:28pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: Nope, laptop & smartphone. Any man whose phones & laptop is free of "illegalities" deserves an absolute trust. The problem is you need to get closer in order to access these gadgets. Often times, we also deceive ourselves by ignoring these stuffs in the name of privacy. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: I find your second statement to be very interesting. Why would say that?? (And I'm not talking of gold-diggers, I'm talking about ur average chic) |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 5:37pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
5minsmadness: We are but the op is dealing with her husband so until she gets back....I just want to understand it from your perspective. That's a lie or you have been with small girls. Like I said, if there is a mutual understanding, then you should know where you stand. In all my years, I have never heard a single female complain/angry about going to a man's house and the man didn't try to move to her, unless, there was that understanding that something may happen via previous conversations. Even that, no such conversations of it out of anger, yes, there may be conversations of what did not happen but not because of anger but just the jist that the thing that was expected did not happen. If you have only been having casual conversations, I don't think you should jump the gun if that understanding has not been established. What I see here is just you making assumptions, because a female comes to your house she's expecting the D. She might, she might not. She might even be expecting it another day. So is it because of the mentality that something may be wrong somewhere or she will go talk about the guy that many turn themselves into criminals overnight by committing ra.pe? |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 5:38pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: So after laptops and phones you progress to bedroom? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by 5minsmadness: 5:42pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:Cos they don't see the man in his natural habitat. They want to be taken to shoprite. They want to watch movies at Silverbird. They want shoes brought at Taras. They want to drive in flashy cars and go for parties in clubs. The only time they finally come over to a guys crib is to Fuxk and by then their minds are clouded with the impression the man has given them that he is Wealthy and loving and living the good life. Most women marry men for their wealth and the good times they have shown them, not for their character. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 5:44pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Acidosis: I re-read this and I am confused? Is this getting to know a guy before or after marriage? Because I am wondering how someone will give their phone to a chick/guy they just met just for the sake of knowing who they really are. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Acidosis(m): 5:54pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: Partners develop relationships during the daily negotiation of contradictory behaviours, views & attitude. If this negotiation process is poorly done while dating, one is simply engaging a stranger. |
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