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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 21, 2015 |
tearoses: *smiles And to think snapped is one of my favourite programs on crime and investigation. He's asked me one day why I love watching it and so I tried weaning myself off the channel. But watching, with all Ive been through the past two years really showed me a lot about human nature. How fickle it is. I guess it also made me more aware generally, because the former me watched it but was so in love with blissful ignorance. And I think I also got him paranoid as he asked why I hid a knife under the chair on another occasion. I actually, i was using the knife to trim our wedding cake and I just pushed it under the chair instead of leaving it lying around as Ive watched too much of freak accidents on a 1000 ways to die. But I wont snap. I promise. I have too much to live FREELY for. Its not worth it. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by cococandy(f): 10:09am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Lol Ampiclox will stop her from getting HIV. brownie10: 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Ahh. na wa o. Unfortunate something.... Confront him NOW. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:15am On Jun 21, 2015 |
troy20: Well said |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 10:16am On Jun 21, 2015 |
OP stop insulting the women as they are not your problem, your husband is. It's crazy btw, that your husband was still on tape while calling you, he must be an entirely different person from who you thought he was. 6 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by flyca: 10:17am On Jun 21, 2015 |
brownie10: Sweetie, I admire your calmness, and your articulation. You sound very matured and responsible, like someone who is committed to doing the right things in marriage. Forget the fact that things are going South now but you should have been appreciated by hubby for keeping yourself till marriage. Reasonable husbands will forsake whatever and give their all to women like you. Aaaah! All those people too have their own challenges in their marriages. A lot of them advice based on experience not necessarily on intuitive wisdom. Dear, this too shall pass and you get a lot of experience to advice others. Cheers sister! |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 10:19am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Why are people saying he cheated before marriage therefore it shouldn't count? 20 days to the wedding means everything's set and they must be traditionally married(which is the main marriage rite) so how can it still be before marriage? 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SB22: 10:20am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Setaje:Am just saying that I don't see it as "cheating". I don't feel that overwhelming guilt that comes with doing something wrong...maybe I might feel a little bit of it if am caught, but,aside from that, I don't feel any guilt...could you kindly explain to me what it is exactly that am cheating her of? cos, I know am holding up my own end of the relationship perfectly. No matter how much a girl tried, she can't win a guy over if he doesn't want her. i've never wanted any of those girls. Doing "the deed" with a girl doesn't mean I want her. Most guys presented with the opportunity to "straff" without getting caught would do it...the only fear is that you risk being caught and having your girl go all emotional on you. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:20am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Op, Try and get a video of him cheating after he married you you. If you cannot....then stop giving yourself HBP over nothing. It is very inappriopriate to start digging up a spouse's past after marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:25am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Nairalanders be like "Keep calm, confront him calmly, serve him food, clean the house, do your duties, be calm, don't do anything stupìd, he only did it before you were married so doesn't count," Madam op, see ehn, your guy not only cheated but recorded himself fucking so he can wa.nk over it when he is on his own. Was he even using a condom? This man has no respect for you whatsoever, you were there thinking about sharing your life with just one man whilst he was there sharing his preek with another woman and you sit here dey pretend calmness. Destroy all his shyt, pack your stuff, leave and send him the video or better yet, just go without a word, it will haunt him for the rest of his life. Within a short period of time and he is already Porn star? Not worth it tbh. Anyway your choice, just know that with that man, your heartache has only just started. 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:26am On Jun 21, 2015 |
brownie10: Take it easy |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:31am On Jun 21, 2015 |
brownie10: Take it easy calm down. Fact is at least this was from before your wedding. I don't know where you live but I sugg you confront him and go for marriage counselling with a professional. Make sure he understands that if you ever catch him again, you are going to leave him. Also don't have kids until you are very sure of him. Wait a couple of years |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SB22: 10:35am On Jun 21, 2015 |
Setaje:Am just being honest. Most guys presented with the opportunity would gladly do the deed. the only fear is getting caught and having your girl go all emotional on you. Those girls cannot win me over no matter how much they try because I do not want them in the first place. how do you win someone who doesn't want you? I hold up my own end of the relationship perfectly..i just have a hard time correlating "the deed" with cheating. I never actively staked out those girls. they wanted me more than I wanted them. pls, kindly help me understand how this is "cheating" cos, no matter how much I try, I just don't see it in that light. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:37am On Jun 21, 2015 |
HiGod: Thanks |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by bellong: 10:39am On Jun 21, 2015 |
You prefer to bottle the emotions and paint other women black than addressing the situation. If divorce is your only option, goodluck to you. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:39am On Jun 21, 2015 |
fem29: I guess being a girlfriend or fiancee, nothing much to stress about over a cheating partner as anyone is free to do whatever they like as long as the vows have not been made, right? I see. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Subom1(f): 10:42am On Jun 21, 2015 |
coogar: |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Moana(f): 10:46am On Jun 21, 2015 |
SB22:dont worry you will know how its "cheating" when your woman falls for a more sucessful man who wants her more than she wants him 7 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Subom1(f): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2015 |
slimyem:This I have to disagree with. Some people are masters at deception and being in a long distance relationship is even worse cos you do not really get to see what the person is truly like 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:49am On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: Of course it's very wrong to cheat on your girlfriend or fiancée but nobody is perfect. Fact is if she had found out before the wedding I would have advised her to pick up her shoes and run as fast as she can but they are now married and she needs to Al least give the marriage a chance. Would you advise her to leave him over this? 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:49am On Jun 21, 2015 |
senier007: No such thing as personal stuff when you decide to cohabit and spend your lives together, the only personal stuff is the region after your scrotum and perineum, even that is up for debate. 6 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:51am On Jun 21, 2015 |
flyca: Kilode. Did you forget to take your medication today. Is your head correct at all, how DARE you speak to me like that. You must be very very stupid . 4 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by flyca: 10:53am On Jun 21, 2015 |
fem29: I repeat for the last time! fem29: You are a criminal! I spit on you! Of all stupifying things to say, its this Weren't they dating before the wedding, or he just tripped into her, maybe along an express road and took her to the altar? What's wrong with folks like you? Can't you just read to learn since you don't have what to say? Must you comment I won't dignify your stupidity with another response. Lets face the matter on ground. Bye! 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 10:53am On Jun 21, 2015 |
fem29:So because nobody is perfect, your flaws can give you the audacity to not only cheat but also record your expressions? A chance for what, so she can have a whole shelf full of his collections? Now is even the best time to walk away. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 21, 2015 |
flyca: Spit on your father. Oponu oloriburuku. 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 10:57am On Jun 21, 2015 |
SB22:I hope you can also say same if your girl is the one sleeping with different guys? 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: That is your opinion. I have given mine!. What she described of the hubby shows he has redeeming qualities. Fact is they were not married when he cheated. If it was before marriage, yes leave immediately. After marriage give him merry hell, 1 more chance , plus marriage counselling. If you disagree we agree to disagree, finito! 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by flyca: 10:58am On Jun 21, 2015 |
kandiikane: Hahahahaha |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by peedeeasobie(m): 10:59am On Jun 21, 2015 |
classicB: This is the type of opinion that makes you keep meeting cheats and you wonder why and conclude that all men are cheats! There are more than 2 billion men in the world, if you have close relationships with up to 100 (which is very unlikely), that is a very minute fraction and will give a very incorrect statistical conclusion! What you believe is what you experience! 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by tiredface: 11:01am On Jun 21, 2015 |
I PERSONALLY THINK BOTH OF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS. IM NOT TALKING ABOUT NOT PERMANENTLY DELETING SUCH VIDEOS, BUT DOING ANOTHER WOMAN BARELY 2MONTHS AFTER MARRIAGE, IS NOTHING BUT ASKING FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL HELP. I ALSO BELIEVE YOU KNOW MORE THAN YOU'RE TELLING US ABOUT THIS MAN BEFORE MARRYING HIM AND THAT'S WHY U WENT FISHING AROUND RECYCLE BIN. I BELIEVE BOTH OF YOU ARE IN YOUR 20S, I'LL BE 32 THIS NOVEMBER, MARRIED FOR 5YS, YOUR CASE IS A VERY UNUSUAL ONE. NOTHING WILL CHANGE UNLESS YOU BOTH DECIDE TO DO SOMETHING, LIKE PSYCHOLOGICAL INTERVENTION TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE IF YOU STILL WANT TO BE MARRIED AND I WISH YOU WELL 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 21, 2015 |
P brownie10: Why are you doing this, why don't you just confront him. Listen you need him to feel your pain. Shout , cry, break things. There need to be consequences |
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