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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Haywhymido(m): 10:40pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
firstEVA:great reply. However, av seen sum cases where foreign ladies marry men(2 dat r nigerians) dose dat they are richer dan n there av never been a report of dem losing dia humility. "losing humility" because u r d breadwinner of the family,of the females, is it a problem peculiar with nigerian women only? If so why? 2ndly,do u think gender equality will work in nigeria? Pls, i need honest answers just as the one u wrote up there.Thank u in advance 6 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
NOBODY WANTS A GOLD DIGGER,BE IT A MAN OR A WOMAN! ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Jarus(m): 10:29pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Simple: You hardly find them together (higher class school, high-end shopping malls, business/first class flights). You wont find children of the poor there. The children of the rich meet in these places. 24 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Muhylonaire(m): 10:30pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
for your dream......or in nollywood movies. but those who can do it are doing it. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by farouk2much(m): 10:33pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Your assumption is totally wrong tho. I don't blame the ladies abroad, not every woman can stand a man who likes to run away from his trouble , Sounds cowardice. They might perhaps be seeing the guy as seeking greener pastures abroad. No chic would like to introduce her dude as a gatekeeper or dishwasher. You get the vibe now 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Idrismusty97(m): 10:34pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
The rich mingle with the rich, So does the poor and middle class. There is always a likely chances the rich would find love among themselves, Simple logic. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
OP and I'm being brutally honest here, it really sounds like you want one of them to come marry you and improve your life..... Two things: 1) It's not true that women in other countries who are rich marry not so rich guys. Not the extent that you've generalized it to. Chelsea Clinton married a super rich Jewish Banker. That Hilton girl married some kind of Europesn royalty. So just know that. Rich women have a lot to lose so they like to marry rich & important men who also have a lot to lose because marriage is more about bargaining and blackmail and obligations than you would think. 2) If women marry younger men they get called sugar mommas. Usually younger men are the "not so wealthy" ones you're talking about. They can't please society no matter what they do, so leave them alone. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by miky(m): 10:35pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Very Simple, a woman cannot respect a man, when she is the BREADWINNER!! its a double jeopardy as the more educated a woman is and better she makes financial and social success, the more likely she would be single... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Thats the reality man! forget the movies this is how shìt works in real life |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
That's why they will continue to remain single all the days of their lives and married to Cucumber or intimacy gadgets. Their loss, not ours. Op you are so on point. Na so d stuupid chick I dated during my NYSC days do na. am a regular Corper receiving N19,568 and she is a A special corper who happens to be an Optician (for those of y'all moda4ckas dat don't understand who is an opticians. it meas Eye specialist or Doctor lolz) receiving N19,568, Plus N50,000 State bonus, plus N5,000 General Hospital pay, plus N20,000 two hours per day private hospital monthly pay. This babe dey net pass me but will still wan collect from me and when we get into arguments she will remind me she receives pass me and always wanna act like she is d head and am d tail. I gat dump her sorry Asss fast fast before service finish coz if i try am marry that one, na hell on earth wey person nova know weda e go make heaven ![]() Nigerian gals majority of you should change y'all evil ways. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
u'r just listening to hearsay. ur friend told u naija girls are like this or that in the us n uk and u believed him. has he met all the nigerian women in the us and uk? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by inze(m): 10:39pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
humilitypays: . . . because 'gold-digger' has become synonymous when a young hustling guy is seen around, talk-less of marrying a super/mega rich lady or one from a wealthy background |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by passionate88: 10:40pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Nigerian girls? , they don't want to 'settle for less' . An average Nigerian girl see a man she's wealthier than as someone not to be respected. They want cash, not love. they'd rather marry a richer guy even though they know he'd cheat on them than marry a not so rich guy that love them to the moon nd back.... Buncha lazy greedy bastards. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by alorauzoms(m): 10:41pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Nnemuka: Nne,ur dp dikwa ka onye were beef with male gender |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
This tin sef don tire me, as I deh look am so na baby mama go wan sure pass oo.... |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by loomer: 10:42pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Stelvin101: Na one poor oyibo man go marry dem |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Nnemuka: See this one. U think you are one of the referred Nigerian girls here? You are such a minor and therefore, your opinion is irrelevant here. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Bonapart(m): 10:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
So true |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by khadaffi(m): 10:47pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
[quote author=humilitypays post=36115343][/quote] Some few years back when I raised a point similar to this on a Tv forum, only few people could understand me then. The truth is that all this gender equality nonsense we fight for in this country is actually gender inequality, tilting the yard stick to favour a specific gender. I pray we realize this before we find ourselves in a mess where we start calling on outsiders for help 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by inkz: 10:48pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
super rich ladiez tend tothat's a very nice end for some of em loos.e.rs |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by An2elect2(f): 10:50pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
passionate88: Believe me, you will do worse if you were a Nigerian girl. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by 69MissedCalls(m): 10:50pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
ennyscongy: Aswear! you don get am 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by passionate88: 10:51pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
firstEVA:Only in Nigeria do 'girls' use the amount of money earned by a man to accord him respect. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by westlius(m): 10:51pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Most gals are gold diggers |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Ujupsy: 10:52pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
The problem here lies on the men,they should make the first move because is not for the rich Nigerian woman to propose to the man,some of these women mentioned here want to settle down but the society have made them appear unapproachable ,I urge all men who feel they can settle down with rich women should take the bold step am sure they won't be turned down. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by RedCapChief(m): 10:53pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
![]() Generally, most women want a man who will be a provider. It is not being greedy or anything like that. it is just how they were socially engineered. Don't blame women who don't want a date a broke guy. Traditional, men bring home the bacon and women cook the bacon. Women, particularly those from conservative societies, just want stability. Thus far, money is an imperfect index, but it is the only metric of stability that we have. There is usually no problem when a woman earns more than a man if the man is able to hold his own and provide for the family. The problem starts when the woman is wealthy and the man can't pay for the shirt on his back - talk less of a family vacation. Many young rich single women just want a man who has his game on lock; they are only trying to be responsible and you can't blame them for that. Brothers, get your act together, do something with your life and you will be spoilt for choice with responsible women. Skanky white girls can give you all the sex you want, but if you want somebody responsible (who is also doing something with her life), you will have to be a provider. It is the rule of nature all over the world. Just visit ATL or Maryland and see the proportion of Nigerian female professionals who just want a guy with a steady job, decent manners and a good credit score.Even responsible white girls will not come near a dude who can't get a grip on his life. In summary, build the treehouse and the birds will come flocking 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by dasrackhor(m): 10:56pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
How many nigerian men want to marry a woman who earns higher than them?Op one of dem is here... |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by IBBG(m): 10:56pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
hugogerrard:he hehe hehe. @Nigeria is synonymous with stupidity. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by InvertedHammer: 10:57pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
humilitypays:/ A very good observation. A good majority of the so-called well-off Nigeria ladies are into nursing which gets them about $100k/year. Is that a lot of money? No. But coming from Nigeria, it is. They want a man who earns something similar or more. A lot of Nigeria single males when their incomes go up tend to gravitate towards foreigners. Perhaps, in areas like Atlanta or Houston with a large congregation of blacks per square mile, they may marry fellow blacks. But in fast paced metropolis like NY or southern California, the chance of marrying a foreigner is higher. It could be fellow African but not necessarily Nigerian. Who wants to deal with all the in-laws feeling of entitlement BS? Coming to Nigeria, there are many factors at play. Nigerians love class--Either you belong or you don't. The ladies are scared of gold-diggers. I will not rule out that some of them may be "closet lesbians". Really? Well, rate of lesbianism in secondary school level alone is very alarming. But the society will make them remain closet lesbians for fear of ostracization. I always have the opinion that the greatest obstacle to marriage for Linda Ikeji will be her siblings. A suitor has to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he is not there to block their access to the infringe benefits they get from her. Otherwise, nobody will be good enough for her until she turns around and she is 50. Here comes the disclaimer: I could be wrong. \ 11 Likes |
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