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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by dasunnystar(m): 12:56am On Sep 28, 2015 |
This life is a choice...is left for them 2 stay single and keep on sleeping around... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by daveP(m): 12:57am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Me like this topic. But those that would make a case are sleeping. At the bottom of this discourse lies the 'fear of what the future presents' come october 1st, il resume my (jots a thing or two) |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Subom1(f): 1:01am On Sep 28, 2015 |
youngice: I think what he was trying to say is that Nick Cannon is not an average joe. Yes Mariah has more money and was more successful but he was not a broke dude and he had prospects as well. So you can't compare him to the 'average poor guy'. He was also a celebrity Whether he borrowed money or not is besides the point. Was there not a point Mariah was almost bankrupt at a time when she was also having her mental breakdown. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 1:03am On Sep 28, 2015 |
humilitypays:JUST WAIT UNTILL THERE REAP YOUR HEART WILD OPEN ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by youngice(m): 1:04am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Subom1:When I said stop embarrassing your self it was with respect to he insistence on Nick being the owner of Nickelodeon, 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Subom1(f): 1:05am On Sep 28, 2015 |
youngice: Lol okay ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by savanto: 1:06am On Sep 28, 2015 |
How many nigerian men want to marry a woman who earns higher than them? So what happens if you later lose that job and the reverse becomes the case? Time and chance happens to them all! 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by tommyrayrich(m): 1:09am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Get with it, Only men who are losers consider dating a rich girl 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 1:12am On Sep 28, 2015 |
hugogerrard:Do you mean Nigeria can also be interpreted as Niga area? OMG |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by 400billionman: 1:14am On Sep 28, 2015 |
I do not even know what class stratification is. We just have alot of fake girls who pass through the university but the university does not pass through them. Girls who only call you or send sweet texts when they receive bank credit alerts from you.. If not to have children, i hardly wonder what Nigerian ladies are good for. Always seeking for lifestyles they never had when staying with their parents. As for the money angle, a woman will disrespect any man she happens to feed. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by 2hrt(m): 1:20am On Sep 28, 2015 |
hahahahaha |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by DedeNkem: 1:32am On Sep 28, 2015 |
In fact, there are such Nigerian women who married men who were lower than them socially and financially. But the number is quite low if compared to men who married poor women. There are many reasons why most women are not married to such men; 1. Most well educated and successful women want to marry men who're either in the level with them or above. Such men are scarce. 2. Most Nigerian women are pure gold-diggers, including the poor ones (funny but true) . This is the most common and most men run away from this type of women. 3. Some women don't go backwards in life style. If they had men who bought them cars, they would want the next guy to do the same or better. If they had men who took them abroad for shopping, they will expect the same or more from the next guy. Such men are scarce. 4. Some women are from rich families, have rich friends, attended expensive schools for rich kids, travel abroad regularly for shopping or vacation and work in a multi-billion naira company owed by their rich relative. It will be hard for these type of women to mingle with average or poor men because, they've been surrounded by rich people like themselves all their lives. 5. To some successful women who'are willing to marry any good average guy, getting the men is hard because most Nigerian men don't like marrying women who're more successful than them. They blindly claimed such women will disrespect them, forgetting that most women who disrespect their husbands are the ones from average or poor families. 6. Some rich women just want men who're financially stable, so they go for men who're richer than them. Most men are not rich. 7. Some of them think average or poor men will go after their wealth. So they would rather be single than marry men below their level. 8. Some successful women are willing to marry good men and don't care if the men are rich or not. Even though this type of women are more likely to get husbands quicker than those I mentioned earlier, the only problem they face is that most men are not confident and bold enough to toast rich women. Money is good but it's not everything. Everyone deserves a good life partner but how you go about it, matters a lot. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 1:33am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Orkpekyandega: ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 1:36am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Subom1: ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Subom1(f): 1:51am On Sep 28, 2015 |
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 1:54am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Subom1:we know them pretend ALOT. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by EmekaBlue(m): 1:57am On Sep 28, 2015 |
I have dated many other african girls from south,eastern african i can boldly say 9ja girls r d most stingy and want to just chop frm her guy..THATS ALL 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Subom1(f): 1:59am On Sep 28, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Whatever makes you sleep at night ![]() I have a feeling you will end up being those kinda guys(pic below) Don't be a leech. Make your own money and be your own man ![]() ![]() 4 Likes
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by kamikazeY(m): 2:18am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Point of correction,Nick cannon wasn't poor oo b4 they both got married...I think the problem is mentally related.when ladies say I cannot marry a dude that dosn't earn up to/more than her but forget that some may retire and earn lesser than b4 when they're married..what will now happen?shey no be the same scenerio with being single cz he earns lesser?.ki e gboshi yin kuro jare..if you truly wana love nd marry,stupid factors wunt stand in your way.#and who says him earning more will bring peace into the home. |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Donpressman(m): 2:29am On Sep 28, 2015 |
sukkot:Not true bro. His networth was very low when Mariah Carey married him. His networth increased after their marriage and his total concentration on his career(which is what is increasing his worth) is the reason their marriage became frosty. And even at his $50 million worth now Mariah Carey is worth 10 times. so relatively he his poor! so Whats ur point? |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 2:31am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Subom1: ![]() Madame witch, you just see your husband destiny. Good for you
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by oshaosha2014(m): 2:31am On Sep 28, 2015 |
You make sense. [1quote author=RedCapChief post=38445629] ![]() Generally, most women want a man who will be a provider. It is not being greedy or anything like that. it is just how they were socially engineered. Don't blame women who don't want a date a broke guy. Traditional, men bring home the bacon and women cook the bacon. Women, particularly those from conservative societies, just want stability. Thus far, money is an imperfect index, but it is the only metric of stability that we have. There is usually no problem when a woman earns more than a man if the man is able to hold his own and provide for the family. The problem starts when the woman is wealthy and the man can't pay for the shirt on his back - talk less of a family vacation. Many young rich single women just want a man who has his game on lock; they are only trying to be responsible and you can't blame them for that. Brothers, get your act together, do something with your life and you will be spoilt for choice with responsible women. Skanky white girls can give you all the sex you want, but if you want somebody responsible (who is also doing something with her life), you will have to be a provider. It is the rule of nature all over the world. Just visit ATL or Maryland and see the proportion of Nigerian female professionals who just want a guy with a steady job, decent manners and a good credit score.Even responsible white girls will not come near a dude who can't get a grip on his life. In summary, build the treehouse and the birds will come flocking[/quote] 4 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by oshaosha2014(m): 2:31am On Sep 28, 2015 |
You make sense. RedCapChief: 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by adconline(m): 2:40am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Cos most Naija girls are takers and not raised to bring much to the table.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Nobody: 3:03am On Sep 28, 2015 |
From my experience, most Naija gals are not supportive to their men. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by nanalady(f): 3:03am On Sep 28, 2015 |
RedCapChief:...nice points.. ![]() |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Fredzy7(m): 3:21am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Questions like dis bring out d sexist in you.....so i would try to be fair as i am make dis comment........firstly OP i was enjoying your post until you mentioned "NICK CANNON" as a poor guy ![]() now back to your question.....i wouldnt want to look like a jerk so if i was face to face wit all dis feminists i would tell them they are busy wasting their time.......Nigerian gals can go low.....but trust me d only rich gal who is too proud to mellow for her guy didnt get to where she is by being hardworking...........gals are materialistic so you really cant blame them if they confuse respect wit money....a lot of us do that... Solution Just Cut your coat according to your size and i promise you will never find yourself wearing singlet to a masquerade party........... as for the gals just do whatever you have to do to secure a future for yourself....just remember self respect when you do so.....the fact that everybody is doing it doesnt make it right....I know dat there are still some good gals out there...so whenever someone say Nigerian gals you should know they weren't referring to you. In This life try to be happy not rich....if you think money makes you happy try killing your family for it. BTW i am going to be a rich guy.......so i will see you when i do so 2 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Chuukwudi(m): 3:26am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Nnemuka: You suck. 1 Like |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Chuukwudi(m): 3:26am On Sep 28, 2015 |
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Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by christinie(f): 3:33am On Sep 28, 2015 |
You can't hate Nigerian ladies yet your post about them is derogatory and makes them look like gold diggers who don't know about true love. With a friend like you who needs an enemy? Mxm. humilitypays: |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by Asiwaju9ja(m): 3:35am On Sep 28, 2015 |
winnieberry: I disagree, who no like better thing? You know most rich girls are fine and na so traffic high. Have you tried approaching one? Whether you hold urside or not. The kind shakara ehn no get mate. If you no balance well, you might be thrown off guard. These ladies make themselves virtually inaccessible by a normal guy. As if relationship na part of their accessory. Even South Africa here, you can date anyone irrespective of their social class as long as ur mind carry am. I know personally a street boy(naija) here who is married to a Member of Parliament. The woman don remove am from d streets and he is now a building contractor. I no want mention names. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Don't We See Rich Nigerian Single Ladies Marry Not-so-rich Nigerian Guys? by gajike: 4:00am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Op u are looking at it from one angle which is wealth. Have u forgotten the character compactibility. U cannot compare them in term of upbringing. The mentality and their way of reasoning can never be the same. Another factor is d family issue after marriage. What the rich lady will never count to be arrogancy or rudeness due to her upbringing the husband side will always pick offence because of inferiority complex. |
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