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Re: Disciplining Children by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 07, 2015
cheesy lol, i guess you boarded too grin
Augusti:
You're very right on that resistant part. I'm a teenager and I'm so cane-resistant. In the Girls' Government Secondary school I just passed through, we were all cane's best friends. For every mistake, knowingly or unknowingly and even some things that were right we did, we'd be fed with whips or other forms of corporal punishment. If a class is making a noise and a teacher comes around, all the students, the noise-makers, those who were already dreaming about their valedictory service and Matric and the neutral would be punished. But do you know what happens after the next 5-mins?-A noise tuned from volume 5 to 12. On Friday assemblies, offenders would be called up to the assembly to be whipped with the hope of making it deterrent, but after the whip if the offender 'dusts it off', she'd be hailed. There was a girl who joined my class in SS2 and would catch cold and weep like a woman whose child was eaten by wolves at the sight of canes, but I'm pleased to let you know that when we got to SS3, she upgraded sporadically to the queen of 'whip-choppers'. Some students would even provoke teachers presumed as wicked to beat them till their arms become weak: that was why I seldom punished the 'Juniors' I was supervising. I persuaded them telling them why they should do the responsibilities assigned to them, the benefits and the repercussions of not doing them. Eventhough not all of them listened because some were born goats, I was able to come out successful in my duty as a prefect more than many counterpacts who spanked.
Re: Disciplining Children by agarawu23(m): 10:32am On Sep 07, 2015
ugoezeik:
tellam say u giv him mama belle
grin grin

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Re: Disciplining Children by Nobody: 10:36am On Sep 07, 2015
parkeration:



Spoken well except for one thing: your child is not your friend but your child whom you are to nurture, direct and reprimand when he misbehaves. This "treat your child as your friend" syndrome has made so many kids get unruly and take their parents for granted. You should be close to your child but as a parent and not as a friend.
Yap, yo right beht in vis case, my referral is at parents who are far from caring and close to their ward(s). grin U dig?
Re: Disciplining Children by charlesbailey(m): 12:35pm On Sep 07, 2015
Its so disheartening that whether or not to discipline a child through spanking, caning and all is now a subject of debate.. the bible already stated the fact that ..."evil acts resides in the mind of the child, but with the correctional rod, such will be wiped out"... "spare the rod..spoil the child" is a popular saying. The fact remains that it is essential, but correction should be done with LOVE.. that is key. We are raising a generation of senseless, slow dummies nowadays all in the name of civilization and wanna-be-like the white men mentality. We are paying for it though, and won't stop paying dearly for it if we don't resort to the methods our great grand parents adopted in raising us. Nothing should be added or taken away from it.. It should just be done with LOVE.
Re: Disciplining Children by olayinkaj2(m): 1:37pm On Sep 07, 2015
Flog them first and then seat them down for talks. Children of nowadays not only need spanking but flog join.
Re: Disciplining Children by NemzySeries(m): 1:53pm On Sep 07, 2015
whipping, caning or smacking?......mehn dat 1 don enter mortal kombat Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo
Re: Disciplining Children by redsun(m): 2:12pm On Sep 07, 2015
Even chimps in the forest don't have to weep or beat their babies to get them to do the right thing. Violence begets violence,never forget that. All you by beating your child is teaching him/her that it is cool to resolve issues violently.
Re: Disciplining Children by akwadeltan: 3:14pm On Sep 07, 2015
children of this generation. no need just bar dem from the internet and seize der gadgets. they will cry for weeks

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Re: Disciplining Children by Ewuro4: 3:20pm On Sep 07, 2015
I have a new one..
Kneel down , close your eyes and raise up your gaddam hands.

WORKS LIKE MAGIC.

Ain't flogging no kid that will dislocate my shoulder during the process esp. when anger & frustration creep in, I have my whole life ahead of me abeg.
Re: Disciplining Children by vivypretty(f): 5:16pm On Sep 07, 2015
midolian:
why do you want to know? grin what reason would make you beat your child till he/she develops marks on the body?

that is y i said whip them reasonably and another thing neverwhip them with anger

i want to know what u did to be flogged so badly,to know if what u did deserved such punishment
Re: Disciplining Children by midolian(m): 7:39pm On Sep 07, 2015
vivypretty:

that is y i said whip them reasonably and another thing neverwhip them with anger

i want to know what u did to be flogged so badly,to know if what u did deserved such punishment
Are u trying to say there are offences your kids will commit that will can make u beat them so badly?

Well, I only went out when I wasn't supposed to.
Re: Disciplining Children by vivypretty(f): 9:18pm On Sep 07, 2015
midolian:
Are u trying to say there are offences your kids will commit that will can make u beat them so badly?

Well, I only went out when I wasn't supposed to.
i will flog them but not enough to question my love for them especially if something i v repeatedly warned them against
Re: Disciplining Children by Becalm(m): 3:35pm On Sep 08, 2015
The best way to train a child is the right and timely combination of all methods proposed. Show love at the right time, talk sense when it matters and whip if it is extremely necessary.
Re: Disciplining Children by Mamasessy(f): 8:54pm On Nov 06, 2020
Becalm:
The best way to train a child is the right and timely combination of all methods proposed. Show love at the right time, talk sense when it matters and whip if it is extremely necessary.

I agree

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