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HOLD ON, HOLD ON....GERRRET OUT OF HERE GOLD DIGGER UNSTAND?

IN IGBO, SI EBE A PUO

drey076:
God bless you for this..

Amen

Gold digger with a jobless bro....

I hate girls like this.

This thread is going to be very very interesting
*Sits down on sofa*

I'm sorry for the bashing, but you practically begged for it. I honestly think you should grow up first before thinking about marriage.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

Its simple. Just ask urself. What do I want, money or husband? Then choose one.
You can tell who has a brighter future between d rich guys and d poor dude. Just check their potentials. A rich man today might be poor tomorrow and a poor man today can still be poor tomorrow. You judge the rest!

@op, whatever decision u make, be ready to live with it. Don't be deceived, money is good in marriage but shouldn't be prioritized over ones happiness.

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

you re not a gold digger,and u re from a well to do family,and from the way i see things u re also good looking.ur problem is bafouka in yoruba language is confusing,ur head is overloaded beyound it's capacity,u re so confused that u dont know what u want again in a man,whether rich,handsome,poor,average,tall or short,and this confusion arises from ur flirting lifestyle,u cant just date a man and go on with him,the reality now is that you must surely end up making the wrong choice...

Dottore:
[size=15pt]I can only discover that you are a wretched gold digging rat. How much does your lazy and hopeless brother has and how has he impacted in the lives of other ladies he's been bleeping. Keep digging for gold. You would soon find ashes.
I wonder how this trash made front page[/size]

U knw wot amazed me,she z she is frm wealthy home. Let me tell u d fact op,u can came frm wealthy home nd still b gold digger. If u r not,why can't u help ur guy out to d extent that ur family will not notice dat d guy is not rich. Ur brother is funny but i don't hv his time now.

Ishilove:

Woman, God is still in the business of joining people together. Take it to God in prayer. If you go on a month's fasting for something as important as marriage, is it too much?

Start studying the bible and praying. Sister, the solution to your dilemma will be revealed to you.

I wonder why you guys like complicating matters.
What has prayer and fasting got to do with this?
The lady is possessed the spirit of poverty (it is a mindset). She needs deliverance such she can stop viewing life from the prism of money. Money is a spirit. It is completely transient and is not to be possessed to the point where it rules lives. That is the problem the OP has.
God has no business in choosing a spouse for her.
If you were asking her to pray for deliverance from poverty (as I explained above) it would have made sense.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

u r an idiot i hope u r super rich too silly thing

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Antoinne:
The only thing i see is "rich".

rich, super rich, extremely rich, not so rich dts all i see in her post. op is extremely poor mentally

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

It has nothing to do with coming from a rich home.
Afterall most of the girls that do runs in Nigeria are not the poorest of girls. Neither are they nymphos. You think the few who do not do runs are virgins or do not like money? It is all about the value people place on money. You and your family ( from your write up) have a poverty mentality. A mentality that seeks to manipulate the future by a presence of money in the present. You probably value the things money can buy most and work NY what you see even if it is not certain for the future.
You owe no one an apology for that (afterall someone has to marry the rich guys) but you need a more balanced perspective if you are contemplating a thing as deep as marriage

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May God bless your hustle.

You really sound like a teenager, i supose you are 17yrs. Even at 17, you should be able to figure out what you want without giving so much damn on what people including your brothers will say. What matters is that you are happy.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

once u r attractd 2him,check if he has vision.......4get wat ppl wil say nd go 4wat u wnt.

Excellent7:
@ OP Honestly one thing I was able to deduce from your post is that you are poor. Note poverty is not measured only in NGN and USD! I did not mean this as an insult, and hope you do not see it as one. I say it the way I see it.

Asin en, Na God go help us oo, Educated Gold Digger.
she even get mind to come NL cum open thread, with her rotten Mouth

All You Folks Calling Her " a gold digger " Whats The Hating For?? I Don't See Anything Wrong With One Setting Standards For Herself.

Ishilove:

Abeg she should not follow heart o. The heart is carnal and can mislead. Let her follow the promptings of the Spirit of God who will never mislead.

Op, your emphasis on wealth is blinding you to a lot of things. If that rich man today should run into financial crisis tomorrow, will you leave him?

At the same time, having a standard is not a bad thing; personally I believe in a lady marrying above her station in life, but still, just don't let the material wealth of a man blind you to the more important aspects.

Good piece of advice.I hate this'follow your heart'approach to advice.

justwise:


The oil has dried up so she needs to start looking for job in gold digging firm now

This my man.
Long time no read!
How you dey?

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

There is an other side of life dear.

I will advice U to take on it by Urself.


don't wait till life force it Ur way

nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.

i second your opinion nnachuks...all she keeps talking about is how rich her suitors re ...if she really is looking for real love she wont bring that into play in her write up...she would ve simply said she ain't attracted to them enough for marriage..the myopic brotha who should know better considering he is a man is a BIG disappointment..which kan broda n dat sef

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

u r extremely poor mentally n seriously need help. i can hook u up with dangote for a sixth wife olodo

So unfortunate what materialism is doing to out womenfolk, so so unfortunate...

AnneMomoh:
Sister - you mentioned the word “ rich“ about a dozen times.

And sometimes "very" rich

Am sure God gave everybody power 2 choose, nobody can choose for you, either ur brother or family, and it's always good to follow ur @rt, pls dnt follow material tinz, dnt be attracted by such, marry sm1 dat u will both build ur family, sm1 dat really lve u sincerely, care 4 u. Den u wll no dat life is sweet wen u re wit sm1 u love, money isn't everytin. I pray may God help u in making a good decision...

You don't need advice my dear. It seems the gold digger DNA runs in your family from your brothers statement. And if I may ask is that your brother rich too? Am sure No. Those guys who are rich gat more than 2 balls? You and your useless family better find something to do. Now my advice is for you to chose the rich guy but when trouble starts in your marriage don't come back to nairaland to ask us for advice again o.
we have settled your case. Next!

andromida:
I think you should place less emphasis on a man's status and more on his character my humble opinion is a man without good character and sound values cannot love you as you deserve that would depend on your own values too.

Poor is not synonymous with good character either. Most dudes who don't have much are humble for the time being anyway lol.
Among the rich and poor you will find good and bad men. Focus on men with character and values that are in sync with yours.

so if this upcoming guy has same values, a sound character you should definitely get to know him alongside the rich ones.

Did you mean she could double,triple and so on DATE or she should keep them all as friends