SexyStrawberry:
lemme read it,
OK I have read it,
this is unfortunate but I was in ur shoes before, so I know how it hurts, trust me.
well, ur is 4yrs, mine was 11yrs.
I walked out!
Broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
If u don't walk out, I promise u, the worst is yet to come.
I am not wishing u bad o, but mark my words, he will do it again and again and he will keep apologising again and again.
He wants to eat his cake and have it.
Lastly, there are better men out there, i dont mean boys o, i mean men. Next time, love with ur head and only love with ur heart when ur married and with a child so that the love from ur heart will come for the child.

Y do people like you advice ppl based on ur personal experience wc might not be the case for others

Wht does not worked 4u might work for others so please be careful with wen u advice ppl wit ur experience

I support wen u said she should walk away since he refuse to change and added lying to his xter but you went again to contradict yourself
You said broken relationship is better than broken marriage and she should love with her head and only love with her heart wen she married with a child?

Let assume you both love with your head pending when you have a child and in a situation when the child didn't come on time then the man will use his head to try another and see if there will be a result and if there is.........be sure you will have a broken home/marriage

Finally......when you love with your head you can't give your best and you will continue 2 have problem in ur relationship even wen u r with d right person

You had a failed relationship 2day doesn't mean you will have failed one 2moro wen you love with your heart

Always give your best anytime becos the next person might be the right person

My 10 cent

mrsmith11:



Y do people like you advice ppl based on ur personal experience wc might not be the case for others

Wht does not worked 4u might work for others so please be careful with wen u advice ppl wit ur experience

I support wen u said she should walk away since he refuse to change and added lying to his xter but you went again to contradict yourself
You said broken relationship is better than broken marriage and she should love with her head and only love with her heart wen she married with a child?

Let assume you both love with your head pending when you have a child and in a situation when the child didn't come on time then the man will use his head to try another and see if there will be a result and if there is.........be sure you will have a broken home/marriage

Finally......when you love with your head you can't give your best and you will continue 2 have problem in ur relationship even wen u r with d right person

You had a failed relationship 2day doesn't mean you will have failed one 2moro wen you love with your heart

Always give your best anytime becos the next person might be the right person

My 10 cent

Madam, u are entitled to ur own opinion so as I am to mine, when someone looses his/her parents, pple will come to sympathize and say " I am so sorry, take heart, I KNOW HOW IT FEELS, take heart God is in control" but the truth of the matter is that NO ONE knows how it feels or the excruciating pains and agony of what one is going through, until its actually happening to them, the OP said something that I have personally experienced for a longer period of time than she has, everything she said word for word, is what I went through and even worse than she has stated above, so mind u, I didn't judge based on my personal experiences alone, I used myself as an example, if what u are saying is for her not to know her worth or value as a woman and stay in a relationship that is killing her mentally, den its up to her to decide, u can only take a horse to the stream but u cant force it to drink, I walked out and walked in to a better life and a better superb relationship, men are known for their wondering eyes on oda females, but not all of them do it at the expense of their spouses, some do it with caution and respect for their first lady, I still maintain my stands on her using her head to love next time, it will enable her choose or pick the right man amongst the lots that are coming her way.
Make is stop here.
Thank you.

kossyablaze:
I agree with MissNora tho

same do I cos if she leave him dat means she will walk out on many guys b4 she marry niyen o

Can you tolerate this repeatedly for 10 years? If yes marry him. If no, you know what to do. I'm sorry to tell you that he won't change because he thinks in his heart that "stolen water is sweet".