Pls i'm new on this site. How do i delete a post i don't want.

This is the type to girl that gives our women bad image. You just met a man and you want him to start buying you food. Why cant you feed yourself. Where is your pride? Why must you make yourself a parasite? What is the difference between you and ashawo? Ashawo ask for money for seeing a man. You were asking for food for seeing the man. You are just like so many Nigerian girls that ask a man for recharge card the very first time she chat wth him as if the man manufactures recharge card. If I were in his shoe I would have bought the food for you, pound your pussy and then move on (sex for food).

Am really not interested in this mail. Pls don't reply.

D guy is not stingy,he's only principled.

This is the type to girl that gives our women bad image. You just met a man and you want him to start buying you food. Why cant you feed yourself. Where is your pride? Why must you make yourself a parasite? What is the difference between you and ashawo? Ashawo ask for money for seeing a man. You were asking for food for seeing the man. You are just like so many Nigerian girls that ask a man for recharge card the very first time she chat wth him as if the man manufactures recharge card. If I were in his shoe I would have bought the food for you, pound your pussy and then move on (sex for food).

@ honda29,
I will appreciate if u can go back and read well, its will be better than just writing anything that comes ur mind or anything u know u can spell okay,


I do not lack what to eat, talk of to just meat a man and start asking him for food ok.
Open your eye wider and if u can't see well u can look for glasses

what on earth are you still doing with him?and what the Bleep was he doing at your place?

@ amebo1:

I was at home while he came, i did not call him to come niether did i sent for him, He came on his own.

Since i was not felling fine i could not talk to him and he could not ask me what the matter is.

so is he your boyfriend now?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?

@ MRbrownJay

Yes i can call him my boy friend But not MY BED FRIEND,

While i said his my boy friend is that
(1) His a Male not female, so his a boy
(2) His a friend coz we talk, not an enemy

ammamat:

so is he your boyfriend now?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Yes i can call him my boy friend But not MY BED FRIEND,
While i said his my boy friend is that
(1) His a Male not female, so his a boy
(2) His a friend coz we talk, not an enemy

you are playing yourself, the reason why there is men like him treating you like that is because there are women like you who let them.
if you are such a catch then you should have had no worries in removing that plague from your life FOREVER!!!!!
let me give you an example of what you should have done 6MONTHS AGO (or whenever you met him):
the first time he treated you like garbage/trash, you should have stop the vehicule and tell him straight to his face that he is not the kind of "friend" you wish to associate with and that he should delete your number and forget he ever met you. then you jump in a taxi (or okada in your case) and leave!
YOU should then proceed by deleting his number and if he ever contact you again, hang up the phone and NEVER reply his text msgs.
this thread is 127msg deep, if you dont get the picture by now then you never will.

i always gbadun dis honda29.he always syas d fact,good job man. how can u even think of asking a guy buying food for you for the first time?u av no shame. hungry girl.

And if he starts spending like Otedola you will laugh to your friends that this one don chop love medicine and is spending like mumu.

Some naija babes always rationale their odd behaviour of hoping that a man MUST be the first and last provider of give us this day. If the guy told you that he wanted to have sex with you on a first meeting how would you respond? In Naija setting, men try as much possible to protect their territory by not allowing some needy women to get anything they want by snapping their fingers.
Even if this relationship works (not likely) it would be predicated on the notion that this new guy would be generous with his pocket. You made it seem soo abnormal for folks to be wise spender  by putting it in your own word "stingy" Ask your brothers and uncles how many times  folks like you would come up that format of being hungry. Your being in his office was not by force and you  could have excused yourself, but you were there simply to be fed by him. Your  post smacks of  someone looking for an economic host. I wonder if folks like you would ever give someone  who is in a lower economic standing a chance.

@ammamat,
what dýou really want from us? is it advise or what? because i notice that rather than spend time
reflecting on the candid opinions members are offering you, instead you spend time attacking
every comment that you don't agree with.
Ok, fine. You want us to tell you what will make you happy? This is my advise: the man will change.
Yes, he is a stingy man and you did right by telling him you were hungry. He was supposed to jump
at the slightest suggestion of you indirectly telling him to take you out to lunch. Just give him a little
time and he will realise how 'stingy' he has been. Next time you go visiting him, don't bother to eat
for two days. As sooon as you suggest to him that you're starving, he will rush you to the nearest
chinese restaurant to make up for the other day.
I'm sure you're happy now?

MRbrownJAY:

you are playing yourself, the reason why there is men like him treating you like that is because there are women like you who let them.
if you are such a catch then you should have had no worries in removing that plague from your life FOREVER!!!!!
let me give you an example of what you should have done 6MONTHS AGO (or whenever you met him):
the first time he treated you like garbage/trash, you should have stop the vehicule and tell him straight to his face that he is not the kind of "friend" you wish to associate with and that he should delete your number and forget he ever met you. then you jump in a taxi (or okada in your case) and leave!
YOU should then proceed by deleting his number and if he ever contact you again, hang up the phone and NEVER reply his text msgs.
this thread is 127msg deep, if you dont get the picture by now then you never will.

someone said dress the way you want to be addressed. act the way you want to be treated.
having said that the boy is a big fool

Get independent, dont look at whether or not a guy is stingy, and whether or not that will change. . . When he marries u, it will definitely change, until then, fend for yourself jare

he wont change if he's sting! even his cousin
confirmed it for crying out loud! my advice to is, RUN baby RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ammamat:

what on earth are you still doing with him?and what the Bleep was he doing at your place?

@ amebo1:

I was at home while he came, i did not call him to come niether did i sent for him, He came on his own.

Since i was not felling fine i could not talk to him and he could not ask me what the matter is.

why didnt u walk him out when he came?

he came to ur house wtout telling u first hand

u would have simply walked him out

you are giving dis guy too much allowance

amebo no1.:

why didnt u walk him out when he came?

he came to ur house wtout telling u first hand

u would have simply walked him out

you are giving dis guy too much allowance

I'm not sure ammamat needs all these advice. She is rather more interested in attacking every contrary
post that doesn't agree with her mode of thinking. Maybe we should all save our time and move off
this thread

I don't think so. There is nothing worse than having a stingy man in the family. Bleep them all, cos i got one.

To be realistic,What is bad is bad, It doesn't make sense atall, i so much hate this stinginess act, it sucks
as for me,i regard the guy as an "olorun" how much is money? how much does she wanna spend at a eatery, find anoda guy cos if u even get married to him you will die of starvation,

never

tolulope_0:

To be realistic,What is bad is bad, It doesn't make sense atall, i so much hate this stinginess act, it sucks
as for me,i regard the guy as an "olorun" how much is money? how much does she wanna spend at a eatery, find anoda guy cos if u even get married to him you will die of starvation,

If only he was 'stingy' in the first place-yes. But fortunately there is a big difference btw stinginess and
being prudent.

i knew straight away the moment i saw the word "stingy". when cheap girls meet a reasonable and sensible man who does not dole out money on the first day, they call call him stingy. No decent girl will visit a man for the first time and go demanding for food. food of all things. food demand is one sure way of knowing a hungry girl who is looking to profit from the relationship. i guess the guy is just above your league. its only cheap boys or boys with bad motives who sees a you as a prostitute and then will struggle and even borrow to meet such demand hoping for instant reward and you will see such guys as the rich ones. on a first visit and in an office you are asking for food, i will make excuses or give you money so that you can leave me alone. a decent lady will even turn down an offer for food on a first meeting. Beside these days ladies dont eat just like that anyhow. i guess you are one fat girl
these days lot of girls say stingy and i wonder. if you truly love someone do you expect something in return. you said he is stingy, what have you given to him ever

It saddens me to know that you went begging for food. no matter how genuine you were, that was a bad first impression. let me ask you. what makes him stingy in these situation. did you asked him why he said no

Good work, RedRiver. I wonder what these girls take us for anyway. Money making machines?
People like tolulope_0 and ammamat think they can just walk up to any guy and ask him for food
and expect to be swept off their feet to the nearest tantalizer!
Imagine talking of starvation and all that crap. Must it be the man always providing for you?
What is wrong if you start fending for yourself for a change?

;DBrownjay,no be small sermon oh ,however you raised some fundamental points ,but you know say this days M O N E Y has become the deciding factor in our social life,dey go say na love we go chop,abi u no understand.lastly i strongly disagree wit you that,those of us living in naija are rather unfortunate.your homework was a flop.

I can see where your reasoning is heading. No wonder there are so many hungry girls in this country
ever ready to fling their thing at the sight of MR BIGGS burger

seebaba:

;DBrownjay,no be small sermon oh ,however you raised some fundamental points ,but you  know say this days M O N E Y has become the deciding factor in our social life,dey go say na love we go chop,abi u no understand.lastly i strongly disagree wit you that,those of us living in naija are rather unfortunate.your homework was a flop.

its unfortunate YES because , as i can see, it seems like MANY 9ja babes think like the poster. remember, what you attract with honey, you will loose with HONEY!!!
man if you aint desperate then when someone tells you that NONSENSE (abi na love we go chop), you walk away!!!!!!
dont let your dikc dictate what you should do in these circumstances. women come a dime a dozen if you are the right guy. if you dont have what it takes to get the right women, then i say accept to pay for women's meal,bills, rent and what not comes your way.
to each their own!

to each their own!

Yes, well said there, MRbrownJAY.

soulamanne: u just met and u ve started demanding, if he is stingy,u are hungry.

Honda29: This is the type to girl that gives our women bad image. You just met a man and you want him to start buying you food. Why cant you feed yourself. Where is your pride? Why must you make yourself a parasite? What is the difference between you and ashawo? Ashawo ask for money for seeing a man. You were asking for food for seeing the man. You are just like so many Nigerian girls that ask a man for recharge card the very first time she chat wth him as if the man manufactures recharge card. If I were in his shoe I would have bought the food for you, pound your pussy and then move on (sex for food).

@hoda dont say please! most men are in the habit of taking girls for lunch and drive them to one cheap questhouse demanding sex,
maybe the question here is not right that i agree,"CAN A STINGY MAN CHAGE" coz you cant jus meet someone on a first date and conclude his character